Thursday, August 19, 2010

How to pick up girls at the gym ? girls please advice ! Men who done it please advice !?

Hi i go to an awesome gym with too many awesome chicks , i cant seem to pick up any girls from the gym ! i am good looking and i would say well built lol ! i dont have this problem anywhere elese ! i need some tips !How to pick up girls at the gym ? girls please advice ! Men who done it please advice !?
play it very cool. act like you just wanna be friends and are not there to pick up on girls. you need to make a move, say something ... but it can't sound like a line or too obvious that you are interested. but you can't do nothing and hope she'll approach you (not gonna happen).





instead, study her a bit (without her noticing) and do not make eye contact with her ... don't stare at her like other guys probably do. make it seem like being around hot girls is no big deal for you.





maybe she does a particular workout that you do not do (like a machine you don't use). pick a spot (like at the water fountain) or go up to her and ask what the benefit is to that particular exercise. ideally have her show you (touch her leg or whatever) ... if she lets you touch her or if she'll touch you to show you the muscle it will affect -- this is a great sign. after that, make up an excuse and get the hell out of there ... move on to another exercise.





it will make her curious to know why you didn't hit on her ... this sense of mystery and not giving her attention that other suckers do will spark curiosity. that's good. keep them guessing -- that is a crucial thing to remember with hot girls. put them in a position where they have to earn your attention -- it presents them with a challenge (am I hot enough for this guy? why won't he hit on me?).





before you know it, she'll start talking to you --- because you broke the ice. it may not happen that day, but each time you see her push the conversation a bit more and more ... maybe suggest a workout for her next time. ideally one you can do together (like you spot her with weights for something). always be aware not to seem interested in her sexually (even though you are). and then, maybe after the 4-5th time you have seen her at the gym and conversed -- then you mention that you are doing something (going to a show or whatever) and you buddy had to cancel last minute and would she want to go (again, you are not framing it as a date necessarily ... you were gonna go with your buddy ... so is she your buddy or is this guy asking me out ... that is what you want to leave unanswered).





play it cool. it's like dismantling a bomb ... be careful and proceed with caution. do not let her realize you are into her until much later on. keep her guessing.

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