Help advice please. man problems.???? l was up all night crying over this.?

my boyfriend said l could go to thailand with him and his friends family for a hoilday for two wks in april.but now hes just told me that theres not enough tickets of me to come although hes still going.


would you be upset? he said that he wont go if it means that much to me,and we can go on hoil somewhere else for the two wks. what should l do? was l right to be upset? l feel really unwanted. should l tell him go without me? or get him to take me esle where? l cried all last night over this please help me.Help advice please. man problems.???? l was up all night crying over this.?
i wouldnt keep himHelp advice please. man problems.???? l was up all night crying over this.?
Find another ticket, and meet him down there. Plenty of companies fly to Thailand everyday. Can it be so difficult???
Let him go. It will make you look cool and less bothered - which will interest him and drive him mad.





Also he will respect you which goes far.
April? Thats 7 months away? Could the airline be fully booked this early? I dont cant get. you have all the right to be upset. Only you can decide if you'll let him go or not. But tell him how you feel, Im sure you'll settle this, once you told how you really feel.
grow up and let the man breathe god.
you were right to be upset because he said you could go and changed his mind. i vote for going somewhere else with him. why would there be not enough tickets. you count, you buy. how do you get the number wrong? weird
damn what an ***, i wouldnt do that to a girl...just forget about him cause if he told you he was gonna take you somewhere and not realize is f*cked up then hes pretty ignorant.





gl %26amp; peace!
He's immature to choose going off on vacation w/ his friend's family instead of taking a vacation w/ you.





You're immature for that grand show you put on when he told you there wasn't enough $$$ for a ticket for you to tag along on ';holiday'; w/him, his friend and his friend's family.





Two immature people aren't ready for a serious relationship.
I would definitely be upset, but I also want to know why there aren't enough tickets now. If it's because of a money thing, (I know it's practically impossible, but...) try not to be offended. But if it's a we-just-forgot-to-order-yours thing, then I would feel a little miffed. But even worse (and do not assume this is what's going on) he may have purposefully not gotten you one because he feels like he needs a break from you.





Maybe go on hol. somewhere else at a later date, and give your boyfriend some cool-off time for those two weeks. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, and you guys can write cute emails to each other to keep in touch, and you can have some time to pamper your fabulous self.





Either way, I do NOT think he's trying to break up with you or anything like that, especially because he offered to go somewhere else with you. Trust him on that.





Boys are like rubber bands. Sometimes they want to be close and all wrapped up in your business, then they want to stretch out and have some space.... and then they'll come springing back to you and wonder why they ever needed a break. Good luck!!
try like hell to get some money and buy a ticket for yourself. If whoever got the tickets didn't think that you shouldn't be included then I think that he should stay with you, I know if I were in your shoes I would be really pissed. Go to priceline.com they have really good quick fast deals on tickets and all you need is the confromation number you don't even need the ticket just the confirmation number. I hope this helps.
My God he is going with a friend and his friends family---could be they had plans long before you and they opted not to take you. For one thing--someone elses kid is a big responsibility--no less another kid along. He'll be back--dry the tears sweetie--he should go as planned and you should wait for him to go someplace with you.Which April were you talking about??---April08 ??--that's almost half a year away. His plans may fall thru by then--you may break up before then--cool off and forget it.
YES! if he was going on vacation, and said he didn't have a ticket for you, you have the right to be mad. he should be a gentleman and not go and spend time with you!
If I were you I would let him go. Although I don't think its fair that he mentioned it to you without making sure about enough tickets. But let him go, maybe you two need this break in your relationship.
I'm with Ricky H on this, It is family also.





Think how youd feel without your family, I do understand the deep seated fear of rejection greatly, I just finished realizing my own ingrained fears actually set me up for it by appearing


desperate, you feel desperate...But your not, sounds like hes really thinking of you, so remain calm talk to friends, put a smile on, think of the best outcome instead of the worst...You are worth it, you will be strong, talk to yourself more possitive each and every day of your life.
It is not necessary to be too much upset. Being a little bit sad is OK. I have learned from Tinkerbell:


';Remember that the people that matter don't mind and the people that mind don't matter.


-Dr. Suess';


You should tell him that you love spend time with him. Tell your feeling and try to love him and understand him. This trip may be important for him.
In the first place it is unbelievable that you are not getting tickets. You check with the airlines they will be having some special quota which they issue in case of emergencies and in the last minute. There are different airlines, Check with them. Keep your dates flexible +2 or -2 so that you may get. ensure that you win and go with him. Spare him not and don't let him go alone.
You can ask him to take you elsewhere.If he really cares he will.
Was he or his family going to pay for your ticket? If so then maybe if you offered to pay for your own ticket it could work out, this would be a really expensive trip %26amp; if I was told that I couldn't go if I didn't pay for it myself I would accept it.
yes, but he's going with family. So, trust him.
Let him go, but take a vacation with him another time. If it means that much to you, why can't you pay for your own ticket to Thailand? If you can't afford it, then there's not that much you can do. He sounds like he wants to go. If you don't let him go, he might end up resenting you for that.
I suppose that you love your boyfriend. You should not prevent him to go to Thailand, it is only for two weeks and he is not alone, his friend's family will take care about him.


You should be happy for him that he has the luck to make such a nice journey so don't begrudge it. If you convince him to stay or go somewhere else with you, believe me, one fine day he will reproach and it could lead to unhappy results.


Let him make this journey - and dont cry, he will be back.
It could just be a family outing and maybe his parents thought that if u tagged along, they may have to pay...





But it's just a family outing actually, so why feel upset? it's ok, right??





Try suggesting him that what if u two go elsewhere
Dont ever be upset. If he is going inspite of the fact that there is no ticket available for you, that shows that he is not so keen on you after all, he dont care about you after all. Dump him, he is no good. He will get worse with time. Say bye bye to him.