I am seeing someone, now, at the mo we arent in a relationship, we are seeing how it goes...we have known each other a long time and when we were 18 and in mid twenties he was a bit of a player. However, we have been in each others lives for years and love each other. BUT...he came round mine today and some girl (in his phone as 'BABYGIRL') rang his phone..I saw her name flash up and he didnt answer it - so I got angry and questioned him. I made him try and call her back in front of me but he said it was just ringing! convenient eh!? I know I told him at the beggining that I was dating other guys but Im not now and it all seems a bit dodgy!?! then he had to pop out of my house and even then I dont know why! then when he came back I asked him..he said he had to meet a friend! hmmm AND he never stays over at my house! AND...he was really trying to say ''I love you, I wont hurt you..'' etc..so I said prove it and stay over this evening..but he said I have to go and get food! ?? help please this may be obvious to you, but we arent official and I am wondering am I over reacting? thanksHelp - man dilemma! good advice please?
That is confusing, but I hope this will help:
I have discovered that some of the best years of my life have been spent with my best friend. I found my best friend at a party one night at my house, we dated, fell in love and got married. Now we are deffinatly not the perfect couple, but we have never gave up on each other.
How does this relate to you? If you and this guy are good friends then the two of you should get together, and you should confess how much you like him, once the commitment is out there if he still talks to ';baby girl'; then you should move on.
Life is definitely not worth living by yourself, so don't wait until the guy gets scarfed up by ';baby girl'; and tell him, he might be waiting for you to tell him, and just dropping hints of this Baby girl to make you jealous and eventually ask him. Just a thought.Help - man dilemma! good advice please?
What is it they say?
A Leopard Never Changes It's Spots....
You could obviously do so much better, leave the man with BABYGIRL and find someone who actually deserves you, don't let him walk all over you cause' your self-esteem will get damaged, and you will be left heartbroken.
Your worth more than this, remember that.
I think that you are trying to take the relationship to a place that it has not reached yet. Give him space, it will either work out your way or it will not. It does sound as though you are not the only woman in his life though.
As long as you aren't ';official'; he thinks that how he's acting is acceptable. You are saying that you aren't in a relationship but your feelings towards him look as though you want him to be exclusive to you.
If you want to be with him and have him just be with you I think you need to make that clear. On the other hand, I also see it as if he really wanted to be with you and only you then he wouldn't be acting all dodgy and suspicious in his actions. Seems like he is getting just what he wants -- a girl that likes him (you) and some other girls that he gets some attention from, too.
Even though time has past it doesn't really seem like he's changed so you should really think about this before you decide if you want to be in a relationship with him.
You said in your question that you are not in a relationship with this man, I would say that if you want a relationship with this man, that it is up to you to make it one.
If you really care about him, then tell him how you really, really, feel!
He does not know how you feel, so that is why the calls he is getting, and his lack of communication on his part as to where he is going is confusing you, because you are not communicating with him how you really, really, feel.
Communication is the key in any friendship and/or relationship.
Sorry to telly! hes still a player n at a guess hes maybe livin with bbgirl or someone else, consider yaself lucky to find out now before it went any further eh? just laugh it off n keep him as a friend or a fkcu buddy which im sure hed appreciate, better still, just pretend and say ya dont really want a full blown relationship as you still want others and say you just wanna be fcuk buddies as you wanna see others and if he jumps at the chance youll know the truth that hes still the same player of old.x
You're wayyyyyyyy overeacting! And he's still a player.
If he won't stay with you at night, where is he staying? My guess is ';BABYGIRL's'; place. If he is just going to meet a friend, why can't you go with him? Next time he tries to leave like that, ask if you can go. I don't think he will let you.
i would tell this guy to take a hike,he`s obviously messing around with';BABYGIRL'; have some respect for yourself and don't let him play you.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I need advice on my man that i been with for 4 yrs!!!?
my man be in rehab for herion and cocaine. he has been in there for six months next month he will be transfer to the half way house. DO U THINK I SHOULD STAY WITH HIM OR DO U THINK HE WILL CHANGE?I need advice on my man that i been with for 4 yrs!!!?
Ummmm.... do you? Cocaine and heroine or some pretty heavy drugs. Only time can tell. I won't say he can't change... because my uncle has been clean for 7 years for being hooked on crack for 15 years. He now has his own apartment, car, and a savings account with money. But I will tell you that it's not often someone that's addicted to heavy drugs like that comes out fully recovered. I myself couldn't deal with it. I'd let him go.I need advice on my man that i been with for 4 yrs!!!?
if u beleive he will change than stay with him and if u truly love him.if he doesnt than find someone who loves u enough whos willing to drop all drug habbits.
he cheated on you, got another girl pregnant AND got you pregnant??? uhh what the hell is WRONG with you? and you want a kid with this scum bag??beauty
Ummmm.... do you? Cocaine and heroine or some pretty heavy drugs. Only time can tell. I won't say he can't change... because my uncle has been clean for 7 years for being hooked on crack for 15 years. He now has his own apartment, car, and a savings account with money. But I will tell you that it's not often someone that's addicted to heavy drugs like that comes out fully recovered. I myself couldn't deal with it. I'd let him go.I need advice on my man that i been with for 4 yrs!!!?
if u beleive he will change than stay with him and if u truly love him.if he doesnt than find someone who loves u enough whos willing to drop all drug habbits.
he cheated on you, got another girl pregnant AND got you pregnant??? uhh what the hell is WRONG with you? and you want a kid with this scum bag??
Advice on Basketball Big Man position (Center)?
I'm 6'1, 9th grade and trying out for JV for the first time what are some good practicing drills for pretty much anything like jumping and posting up. I have the advantage of height but Im not the most skilled player on the team. Plus what are the tryouts like.Advice on Basketball Big Man position (Center)?
Hey, I can't really give any advice because I also recently started although am 6ft 6. For practising drills best thing I would say is like join the gym do some sqauts, calf raises anything really to increase your vertical jump for better rebounds and jumping.
The drills you should really be doing should increase your strenght or speed ( Never take a long long run for more burst).
Hey, I can't really give any advice because I also recently started although am 6ft 6. For practising drills best thing I would say is like join the gym do some sqauts, calf raises anything really to increase your vertical jump for better rebounds and jumping.
The drills you should really be doing should increase your strenght or speed ( Never take a long long run for more burst).
Is this good advice for men for them to wait to marry until they can financially support two households? ?
Given that the divorce rate is between 50 to 70% and for the most part in divorce settlements men are required to pay child support, alimony, in addition to splitting up half or more of the assets acquired during the marriage, isn't the above statement good advice for men to follow because a significant portion of them will have to support two households. Is this good advice for men for them to wait to marry until they can financially support two households? ?
Maybe good advice for the weak and lazy man who doesn't know how to keep a woman. Or the guys who never really commit to the person they are with and the players and scum who can't keep it in there pants. Really if you have an honest man and woman and they have love for one and another and do not believe in divorce then you would not need this but in reality this is what prenups are for.
Is this good advice for men for them to wait to marry until they can financially support two households? ?
Well, with logic like that, you might as well tell males that they should delay marriage until they can financially support at least three households: their own, the one of their ex's (including or not including the couple's children, if any, as the case may be), and the one of their lover(s) due to children born to the same out-of-wedlock as a result of the male's infidelity.
Based on my personal experience, you should also tell women that they need to wait until they can financially support two households. I'm the one paying huge spousal support after my divorce and lost nearly all of my assets in the process!
Welcome to the 21st Century. The best advice to people getting married is to make sure you have a rock solid prenuptial agreement.
any men need to sign pre-nup to protect themselves. just like buying insurance. Any uptight women who refuse to have hidden agenda and need to find a stupid sucker
Maybe good advice for the weak and lazy man who doesn't know how to keep a woman. Or the guys who never really commit to the person they are with and the players and scum who can't keep it in there pants. Really if you have an honest man and woman and they have love for one and another and do not believe in divorce then you would not need this but in reality this is what prenups are for.
Is this good advice for men for them to wait to marry until they can financially support two households? ?
Well, with logic like that, you might as well tell males that they should delay marriage until they can financially support at least three households: their own, the one of their ex's (including or not including the couple's children, if any, as the case may be), and the one of their lover(s) due to children born to the same out-of-wedlock as a result of the male's infidelity.
Based on my personal experience, you should also tell women that they need to wait until they can financially support two households. I'm the one paying huge spousal support after my divorce and lost nearly all of my assets in the process!
Welcome to the 21st Century. The best advice to people getting married is to make sure you have a rock solid prenuptial agreement.
any men need to sign pre-nup to protect themselves. just like buying insurance. Any uptight women who refuse to have hidden agenda and need to find a stupid sucker
Ladies: Whats the best advice would you give to a man?
to make his wife happy?
p.s.
I seen many men who claimed to understand the woman, but most of them really don't.
i myself is divorced .. but still got big hopes : )Ladies: Whats the best advice would you give to a man?
Don't take your wife for granted.. Help with chores without being asked. Make her feel like she is the sexiest women to you. Listen to her. Try and remain good humored and happy through the rough stuff. Find out what stresses her out and try not to do those things. She will in turn make you happy.
Best of Luck to You!Ladies: Whats the best advice would you give to a man?
DON'T CHEAT!!! DON'T check out other women right in front of your wife/girlfriend/fiance!!!~ even if you think their not watching because they are...they know when something tempting is about to cross your path and they find a way to see you check her out whether by looking straight at you, out of the corner of her eye, or thru a reflection. Most of all DON'T LIE--no matter how small or large the situation is that you're lying about, we always find out when you're lying and once a woman catches you lying she can't ever trust you again after that and there goes the relationship because you can't have a relationship without trust!
Make her feel that she is the most Beautiful woman in your eyes. Make sure you are faithful, loving, honest, helpful and her best friend. Make sure you are satisfying her to the fullest in and out of the bedroom. Being a great lover is a biggie. Help her around the house. It should be a 50/50 relationship. Communication is the key to a happy marriage.
A woman wants the world to revolve around her. Always keep that in mind. There's no simple formula but keep your eye open for chances to make her feel like she's on a pedestal. This can be as simple as asking what she thinks and taking her advice. Do it without making a show of it, naturally so it seems sincere. Remember we're not as oblivious to little things as you guys are so be subtle.
Also remember that we care what other people think more than you do so look to attack the problem indirectly through her friends. If her friends think you're great, so will she. Remember that if you say something good about her to one of her friends it will reach her ears eventually. Just a simple comment about her looks or smarts or talents.
Good luck!
1) Ask her what she wants.
2) Listen to what she tells you.
3) Follow through.
Woman really aren't that difficult to get. Most women will honestly tell you what they want you just have to be open enough to listen, then act on what you have heard. Many men are lazy when it comes to follow through. When you are dating someone you know how to woo them, just keep that up once your in a relationship never get to complacent or too comfortable.
my husband makes me very happy and the craziest thing is its the little things he does and he always has since we first got together.. most mens main problem is they dont realize that whatever it was about them that made the women attracted to them in the first place sometimes they change and the women dont like who they turned into...my husband before we were married would take me out every to dinner every thurs. night and we would go to the movies every other sat. even if there was no movie we wanted to see he will surprise me at work with cards and flowers and i never know when there going to come and the messages he has on them always makes me feel like im the only women in the world well anyway ive been with now for 4 years and i dont plan on giving him up for anything... I HOPE THIS HELPS
to listen to the, to really sit down and listen to them. and help around the house, with the kids. and make family night out. one day a week to forget the madness, no matter if your fighting or not. to have a family day out. most woman like flowers, but, they really want is someone to have fun with and to be able to talk to them and they actually answerer back. and if they are a busy couple date night is so important. words are words and sometimes cheap, show it.
For starters..
don't be a jerk,
be a gentleman,
show good manners,
be respectful %26amp; responsible,
show affection,
compliment your woman,
be faithful,
be generous,
don't annoy her,
don't abuse (physically, mentally, sexually) her,
don't make her your personal slave,
support her or help her financially if she needs you,
don't be an alcoholic,
kick out your addictions,
don't get a jerk for a friend,
don't stay in touch with other women,
don't come home late after work without a good excuse,
don't disrespect her family,
respect her hobbies,
don't throw away her things without permission,
don't be rude,
never give up,
don't spend your money unwisely,
don't talk bad about her,
don't flirt,
only watch porn together,
do things for the family,
make her breakfast, lunch or dinner sometimes,
be romantic,
send her roses,
don't treat her like your daughter,
don't forget to satisfy her,
don't be monster sometimes,
take her to new places,
spend time talking to her,
listen to her suggestions,
respect her space %26amp; things,
show her you care,
kiss her everyday at least 3 times a day,
tell her how much you love her,
plan things to do,
don't have special girlfriends,
work on things together,
tell her how you feel,
share your thoughts and plans,
decide on future plans together,
let her make important decisions too,
do chores around the house for her that are manly,
help her when she's in trouble,
don't speak for her,
please her in the bedroom,
LOVE her...
Listen, really listen and she will tell you what she needs from you to be happy. There is no one answer for every woman, we are all different. We have different needs, emotions, desires. We view love differently. Love her the way she needs to be loved:physically, emotionally mentally.
It may be corny but I think this song says it all: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01geJOKowgk
Love her sincerely and understand her and her feelings, vice versa 2 and den build your relationship on trust, love, understanding. Inshallah your future holds a amazing wife, have patience and pray to allah (swt) to bless you with a wonderful wife.
try your very best to understand that we run on hormones we sometimes can not control all of our feelings/emotions so show patience and understanding. were doing our best! we expect men to do there best too. think about things before you say them,and put yourself in our shoe's for every situation! good luck to you!
When my husband takes the time to listen to me, talk to me, share with me, and be with me. We have our space and space together. We respect each others space and each other. We fight at times and yet we take time out and then talk things out. With this we stay very intimate and close and he has truly become my best friend.
Support her in every way that she needs. Emotionally, physically, and mentally. Try as hard as you can to be her equal. Ask questions. Point things out that you find interesting, and discover what interests her, and learn to know, and try to love, those interests.
ok my best advice is to make them feel really special, flowers ect... and to give them no worry or anything that you have eyes for anyone else!!! different people like different things but i like people with a good sense of humour, charming but doesnt flirt with other people, and confident :D
good luck!!
be faithful, dont try to fix our feelings, just validate them, and pick up around the house without being told.
these are obviously very general. it would very from woman to woman, man to man.
Be a best friend. Literally.
Male enhancement like that guy Bob on TV all the women envy his wife.
the same you had to do to win her over in the begginning you will need to keep doing to keep her happy
Get a good education.
Make a lot of money.
Be honest. Be nice, but be yourself! Then she will love you for you, all your good and bad qualities.
Be faithful :)
By giving her lots and lots of money.
respect her
p.s.
I seen many men who claimed to understand the woman, but most of them really don't.
i myself is divorced .. but still got big hopes : )Ladies: Whats the best advice would you give to a man?
Don't take your wife for granted.. Help with chores without being asked. Make her feel like she is the sexiest women to you. Listen to her. Try and remain good humored and happy through the rough stuff. Find out what stresses her out and try not to do those things. She will in turn make you happy.
Best of Luck to You!Ladies: Whats the best advice would you give to a man?
DON'T CHEAT!!! DON'T check out other women right in front of your wife/girlfriend/fiance!!!~ even if you think their not watching because they are...they know when something tempting is about to cross your path and they find a way to see you check her out whether by looking straight at you, out of the corner of her eye, or thru a reflection. Most of all DON'T LIE--no matter how small or large the situation is that you're lying about, we always find out when you're lying and once a woman catches you lying she can't ever trust you again after that and there goes the relationship because you can't have a relationship without trust!
Make her feel that she is the most Beautiful woman in your eyes. Make sure you are faithful, loving, honest, helpful and her best friend. Make sure you are satisfying her to the fullest in and out of the bedroom. Being a great lover is a biggie. Help her around the house. It should be a 50/50 relationship. Communication is the key to a happy marriage.
A woman wants the world to revolve around her. Always keep that in mind. There's no simple formula but keep your eye open for chances to make her feel like she's on a pedestal. This can be as simple as asking what she thinks and taking her advice. Do it without making a show of it, naturally so it seems sincere. Remember we're not as oblivious to little things as you guys are so be subtle.
Also remember that we care what other people think more than you do so look to attack the problem indirectly through her friends. If her friends think you're great, so will she. Remember that if you say something good about her to one of her friends it will reach her ears eventually. Just a simple comment about her looks or smarts or talents.
Good luck!
1) Ask her what she wants.
2) Listen to what she tells you.
3) Follow through.
Woman really aren't that difficult to get. Most women will honestly tell you what they want you just have to be open enough to listen, then act on what you have heard. Many men are lazy when it comes to follow through. When you are dating someone you know how to woo them, just keep that up once your in a relationship never get to complacent or too comfortable.
my husband makes me very happy and the craziest thing is its the little things he does and he always has since we first got together.. most mens main problem is they dont realize that whatever it was about them that made the women attracted to them in the first place sometimes they change and the women dont like who they turned into...my husband before we were married would take me out every to dinner every thurs. night and we would go to the movies every other sat. even if there was no movie we wanted to see he will surprise me at work with cards and flowers and i never know when there going to come and the messages he has on them always makes me feel like im the only women in the world well anyway ive been with now for 4 years and i dont plan on giving him up for anything... I HOPE THIS HELPS
to listen to the, to really sit down and listen to them. and help around the house, with the kids. and make family night out. one day a week to forget the madness, no matter if your fighting or not. to have a family day out. most woman like flowers, but, they really want is someone to have fun with and to be able to talk to them and they actually answerer back. and if they are a busy couple date night is so important. words are words and sometimes cheap, show it.
For starters..
don't be a jerk,
be a gentleman,
show good manners,
be respectful %26amp; responsible,
show affection,
compliment your woman,
be faithful,
be generous,
don't annoy her,
don't abuse (physically, mentally, sexually) her,
don't make her your personal slave,
support her or help her financially if she needs you,
don't be an alcoholic,
kick out your addictions,
don't get a jerk for a friend,
don't stay in touch with other women,
don't come home late after work without a good excuse,
don't disrespect her family,
respect her hobbies,
don't throw away her things without permission,
don't be rude,
never give up,
don't spend your money unwisely,
don't talk bad about her,
don't flirt,
only watch porn together,
do things for the family,
make her breakfast, lunch or dinner sometimes,
be romantic,
send her roses,
don't treat her like your daughter,
don't forget to satisfy her,
don't be monster sometimes,
take her to new places,
spend time talking to her,
listen to her suggestions,
respect her space %26amp; things,
show her you care,
kiss her everyday at least 3 times a day,
tell her how much you love her,
plan things to do,
don't have special girlfriends,
work on things together,
tell her how you feel,
share your thoughts and plans,
decide on future plans together,
let her make important decisions too,
do chores around the house for her that are manly,
help her when she's in trouble,
don't speak for her,
please her in the bedroom,
LOVE her...
Listen, really listen and she will tell you what she needs from you to be happy. There is no one answer for every woman, we are all different. We have different needs, emotions, desires. We view love differently. Love her the way she needs to be loved:physically, emotionally mentally.
It may be corny but I think this song says it all: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01geJOKowgk
Love her sincerely and understand her and her feelings, vice versa 2 and den build your relationship on trust, love, understanding. Inshallah your future holds a amazing wife, have patience and pray to allah (swt) to bless you with a wonderful wife.
try your very best to understand that we run on hormones we sometimes can not control all of our feelings/emotions so show patience and understanding. were doing our best! we expect men to do there best too. think about things before you say them,and put yourself in our shoe's for every situation! good luck to you!
When my husband takes the time to listen to me, talk to me, share with me, and be with me. We have our space and space together. We respect each others space and each other. We fight at times and yet we take time out and then talk things out. With this we stay very intimate and close and he has truly become my best friend.
Support her in every way that she needs. Emotionally, physically, and mentally. Try as hard as you can to be her equal. Ask questions. Point things out that you find interesting, and discover what interests her, and learn to know, and try to love, those interests.
ok my best advice is to make them feel really special, flowers ect... and to give them no worry or anything that you have eyes for anyone else!!! different people like different things but i like people with a good sense of humour, charming but doesnt flirt with other people, and confident :D
good luck!!
be faithful, dont try to fix our feelings, just validate them, and pick up around the house without being told.
these are obviously very general. it would very from woman to woman, man to man.
Be a best friend. Literally.
Male enhancement like that guy Bob on TV all the women envy his wife.
the same you had to do to win her over in the begginning you will need to keep doing to keep her happy
Get a good education.
Make a lot of money.
Be honest. Be nice, but be yourself! Then she will love you for you, all your good and bad qualities.
Be faithful :)
By giving her lots and lots of money.
respect her
Man troubles...any advice?
I've known my significant other for 9y,and we have been a couple for 1 1/2y.I'm currently 6m pregnant with his child.He travels a lot for work so he is not home often.Well today I realized he was about $200 short on his truck payment due tomorrow and felt I should let him know.Well after telling him this he starts accusing me of STEALING HIS MONEY,and demanding that I put it back.Also in the past week he has voiced that he doesn't believe it's really his child I'm carrying,and has accused me of being a ';lazy mooch';.I just agreed to move into 'his' house about a month ago and this is the type of treatment I've gotten since then.He did not act like this before I moved in.Also,I would like to say,*I* pay 'his' house payment and all of the utilities since I'm the one in the house full time while he's at work.Maybe it's just that I'm angry right now but it seems to me if anything HE is the one taking advantage of ME--Why this sudden change and what should I do about it? TY for any advice.Man troubles...any advice?
you can drag out the relationship but if he makes those kinds of comments now they won't ever go away. don't tell yourself you can just deal with it either because you don't have to and if you do it will blow up in the end anyway. not to mention, you're going to have a child to consider too. do you really want to raise a child in that atmosphere?Man troubles...any advice?
Sometimes when a child comes into a relationship (yes even before it's born) guys freak out. A woman who is pregnant should always be treated with respect and dignity. If he honestly doesn't believe the child is his then offer to have a paternity test done once the baby is born. To tell you the truth sudden changes in a man's behaviour, specially when they involve accusations of stealling and cheatting are a big sign. Keep your eyes and ears open for he may be the one who is not being honest with you. Tell yourself that you do not need to be treated this way by anyone and make sure you tell him that too. I know he is the father of your child but the most important thing for a woman is that no matter what happens she has to take care of herself and her children. Believe me guys come and go but we're the one's who raise the children. Surround yourself with people who are there for you and become an independent woman. My son was only 5 months when I kicked his father out of the house. I drove around for over a year with out my car being registered. He is now 6 years old and we have a nice life, which I am proud to say I built. Put your foot down!!!!
Try and talk to him, if he remains like this then please, if you care for yourself or your unborn ,run. Get away from him. If he's as unpredictable as this imagine how much will he change when the baby arives? I'mjust going on how I've seen my own brothers change towards their wives once they got hitched. Men can be major pigs!
you can drag out the relationship but if he makes those kinds of comments now they won't ever go away. don't tell yourself you can just deal with it either because you don't have to and if you do it will blow up in the end anyway. not to mention, you're going to have a child to consider too. do you really want to raise a child in that atmosphere?Man troubles...any advice?
Sometimes when a child comes into a relationship (yes even before it's born) guys freak out. A woman who is pregnant should always be treated with respect and dignity. If he honestly doesn't believe the child is his then offer to have a paternity test done once the baby is born. To tell you the truth sudden changes in a man's behaviour, specially when they involve accusations of stealling and cheatting are a big sign. Keep your eyes and ears open for he may be the one who is not being honest with you. Tell yourself that you do not need to be treated this way by anyone and make sure you tell him that too. I know he is the father of your child but the most important thing for a woman is that no matter what happens she has to take care of herself and her children. Believe me guys come and go but we're the one's who raise the children. Surround yourself with people who are there for you and become an independent woman. My son was only 5 months when I kicked his father out of the house. I drove around for over a year with out my car being registered. He is now 6 years old and we have a nice life, which I am proud to say I built. Put your foot down!!!!
Try and talk to him, if he remains like this then please, if you care for yourself or your unborn ,run. Get away from him. If he's as unpredictable as this imagine how much will he change when the baby arives? I'mjust going on how I've seen my own brothers change towards their wives once they got hitched. Men can be major pigs!
Old man needs more first date advice: what if I need to use the restroom?
I'm very nervous that while on a first date I will need to use the restroom for a number two. That can take at least 30 minutes. What should I say if this happens?Old man needs more first date advice: what if I need to use the restroom?
30 minutes???? Don't take that Playboy in with you and you should be able to take of business in 5 minutes.
Or you could just wear diapers (The extra absorbent kind), and then you won't have to be nervous. Your date won't be able to tell you wear diapers under your robe.
Or start taking Imodium the day before and every hour till date time and then you'll be plugged up and won't have to go.
Where there's a will, there's a way!Old man needs more first date advice: what if I need to use the restroom?
give yourself an enema before you go. that should clean you out for the date.
To be honest, you might be better to get it over and done with before the date... Solve the problem before it happens... If it does happen, don't make too much of a fuss about it, but try and be as fast as you can... No girl likes waiting and they'll get suspicious... Don't go into detail about it either because it might gross her out... Just make sure, if you have to go, you say ';I might be a while, but I'll try to be as quick as I can';... She shouldn't have too much of a problem with it then, but don't talk about what you did when you come back, but say ';Sorry about that'; just to be curteous...
Either way, I think your best option is to go to the restroom before you go on the date... It should save that embarrasment of it happening then...
30 minutes???? Don't take that Playboy in with you and you should be able to take of business in 5 minutes.
Or you could just wear diapers (The extra absorbent kind), and then you won't have to be nervous. Your date won't be able to tell you wear diapers under your robe.
Or start taking Imodium the day before and every hour till date time and then you'll be plugged up and won't have to go.
Where there's a will, there's a way!Old man needs more first date advice: what if I need to use the restroom?
give yourself an enema before you go. that should clean you out for the date.
To be honest, you might be better to get it over and done with before the date... Solve the problem before it happens... If it does happen, don't make too much of a fuss about it, but try and be as fast as you can... No girl likes waiting and they'll get suspicious... Don't go into detail about it either because it might gross her out... Just make sure, if you have to go, you say ';I might be a while, but I'll try to be as quick as I can';... She shouldn't have too much of a problem with it then, but don't talk about what you did when you come back, but say ';Sorry about that'; just to be curteous...
Either way, I think your best option is to go to the restroom before you go on the date... It should save that embarrasment of it happening then...
Advice for a man to get custody after divorce? His wife is verbally abusive to their kid.?
He has started writing down instances when her outbursts occur (she'll curse at their 8-year-old for nothing) and he wants the kid to live with him and for her to just get visitation after the divorce. What other steps should he take to make a better case for this? He feels it would be damaging for the child to live with her most of the time (plus, he's very close to this child-- it's the only reason he's stayed married this long). Any help, especially from a lawyer, would be appreciated.Advice for a man to get custody after divorce? His wife is verbally abusive to their kid.?
Unless there is some outside witness, it can to easily turn into ';he said she said';. Your best bet is to get a third party involved, a counselor, a teacher someone. An eight year old is old enough to have told someone about the mom if she is really that bad. If he is still married, tell the wife that the child needs to see a therapist then try to find one sympathetic to fathers. A good lawyer can help you find one. Do continue to document outbursts. In some cases tapes or videos can be used but state laws vary on this so see a lawyer first.
In the meantime be a very involved dad. Make sure the teachers know him, coach sports etc. He needs to be seen by others as close to the child. Relatives can help some, but most judges expect your relatives to back you up. You need people outside the family to be willing to testify or tell the child investigator about what a great dad he is.
The good news that in general dads are getting more chance of being the primary parent. They still have a hard time in places but much better that 15 years ago.Advice for a man to get custody after divorce? His wife is verbally abusive to their kid.?
It is very hard to prove verbal abuse and his written log, while potentially useful, is just going to sound like ';he said/she said'; to the courts. They hear stuff like this every day and have no way to tell what's true %26amp; what isn't.
Ask for a Guardian Ad Litem for your child. This is a lawyer who acts on your child's behalf. Ask the GAL to get parenting evaluations for both of you, with a child psychologist or social worker. Show the log to the GAL %26amp; the psych. Make sure your child knows that anything he shares with the GAL %26amp; psych is confidential - that neither you nor his mother will know what he said - that the GAL %26amp; psych are *his*, to make sure everything goes right for him %26amp; that he should trust them.
The GAL %26amp; psych will be more believable %26amp; influential to the courts than his logbook.
Documenting everything is excellent. Also, he should have friends also document anything they see, write a letter to the court for the husband to take with him, and attach their list too.
Also, if this woman is vindictive, he should watch out for her upcoming attacks on him ... he will probably be accused of molesting the child or being gay. So, he needs to take special care that he does NOTHING (no matter how innocent) to give these types of accusations any weight.
Most of all, he needs to get his own attorney. Without one, he won't have a hope in hell of getting custody. Money cannot be an issue for this, even if he can't afford it, he HAS to find a way. And, he must do everything the court or the attorney ask him to do to prove that he is fit. It's not just about proving that the mother in unfit.
Tell the lawyer about the abuse. Also, have the child testify against his mother; If you tell it to the court , it just sounds like your animosity toward your soon to be ex wife coming out. Let your child tell his story to the judge. Everyone says the judicial system works for the mother; maybe in the '70's but that's changes dramatically.
Recordings would help. Would probably even prevent the thing from going to court.
Ok, not a good scenario for dad here. Verbal abuse is really hard to prove in a court of law especially when its between child and parent. Courts tend to believe parent more as children have been known to fall apart and just wanted to get back at that parent for something. So basically its his word against hers and hearsay wont work.You have to have concrete evidence of what was actually said and by whom to whom and exact dates and the real hard part is that was said actually harmed the boy mentally. Then it gets into the medical aspect of the mental harm, is he seeing a dr for it and what is the drs conclusion. What you need to regain custody from a mother is to prove her with real evidence, that she is unfit by child or drug/mental abuse (police an/or hospital/medical reports) and if you get that ruling by chance, then you sill have to prove that youre the best parent for the job instead of having the Judge place him in a foster home. Nothing is easy here. Your best bet here might be not to challenge mom but to actually go back to court and ask the Judge to let your son decide who he wants to live with. It may be a whole lot less dramatic but it just might work. Think about it because you have nothing to stand on in court from what Ive read. Good luck
The Mom needs to be turned into Child Protective Services for mental abuse. The child is old enough to tell them what's going on and can probably get them out of there
Just keep track of her verbal abuses and also in court go after child support. The fact that she is a woman/mother doesn't mean the child does't deserve child support.
The KID!!! If his child testifies then he will win the case. But he must also know that this will have a huge affect on the kid. The kid will be cross-examined and must be prepared. It would nice if he could get evidence in addition to the kid's testimony such as a tape recording of her cursing at the child. Is there anyone in HER family who feels she's a threat and harm. If one person in her family sides with him then his chances are great. Tell him to be sure to expose all bones in his closet, because her lawyer will!
he should think about anyone else thats around her when this happens and have them document what they see and hear if she's doing that.
a friend of mine is going through that now only the mom likes to take off for periods of time without a word. he's fighting to get their 2 boys and not having a lot of luck. his attorney told him document everything-when shes late with them for a doc app, i mean all of it!
tell your buddy good luck with it allbeauty
Unless there is some outside witness, it can to easily turn into ';he said she said';. Your best bet is to get a third party involved, a counselor, a teacher someone. An eight year old is old enough to have told someone about the mom if she is really that bad. If he is still married, tell the wife that the child needs to see a therapist then try to find one sympathetic to fathers. A good lawyer can help you find one. Do continue to document outbursts. In some cases tapes or videos can be used but state laws vary on this so see a lawyer first.
In the meantime be a very involved dad. Make sure the teachers know him, coach sports etc. He needs to be seen by others as close to the child. Relatives can help some, but most judges expect your relatives to back you up. You need people outside the family to be willing to testify or tell the child investigator about what a great dad he is.
The good news that in general dads are getting more chance of being the primary parent. They still have a hard time in places but much better that 15 years ago.Advice for a man to get custody after divorce? His wife is verbally abusive to their kid.?
It is very hard to prove verbal abuse and his written log, while potentially useful, is just going to sound like ';he said/she said'; to the courts. They hear stuff like this every day and have no way to tell what's true %26amp; what isn't.
Ask for a Guardian Ad Litem for your child. This is a lawyer who acts on your child's behalf. Ask the GAL to get parenting evaluations for both of you, with a child psychologist or social worker. Show the log to the GAL %26amp; the psych. Make sure your child knows that anything he shares with the GAL %26amp; psych is confidential - that neither you nor his mother will know what he said - that the GAL %26amp; psych are *his*, to make sure everything goes right for him %26amp; that he should trust them.
The GAL %26amp; psych will be more believable %26amp; influential to the courts than his logbook.
Documenting everything is excellent. Also, he should have friends also document anything they see, write a letter to the court for the husband to take with him, and attach their list too.
Also, if this woman is vindictive, he should watch out for her upcoming attacks on him ... he will probably be accused of molesting the child or being gay. So, he needs to take special care that he does NOTHING (no matter how innocent) to give these types of accusations any weight.
Most of all, he needs to get his own attorney. Without one, he won't have a hope in hell of getting custody. Money cannot be an issue for this, even if he can't afford it, he HAS to find a way. And, he must do everything the court or the attorney ask him to do to prove that he is fit. It's not just about proving that the mother in unfit.
Tell the lawyer about the abuse. Also, have the child testify against his mother; If you tell it to the court , it just sounds like your animosity toward your soon to be ex wife coming out. Let your child tell his story to the judge. Everyone says the judicial system works for the mother; maybe in the '70's but that's changes dramatically.
Recordings would help. Would probably even prevent the thing from going to court.
Ok, not a good scenario for dad here. Verbal abuse is really hard to prove in a court of law especially when its between child and parent. Courts tend to believe parent more as children have been known to fall apart and just wanted to get back at that parent for something. So basically its his word against hers and hearsay wont work.You have to have concrete evidence of what was actually said and by whom to whom and exact dates and the real hard part is that was said actually harmed the boy mentally. Then it gets into the medical aspect of the mental harm, is he seeing a dr for it and what is the drs conclusion. What you need to regain custody from a mother is to prove her with real evidence, that she is unfit by child or drug/mental abuse (police an/or hospital/medical reports) and if you get that ruling by chance, then you sill have to prove that youre the best parent for the job instead of having the Judge place him in a foster home. Nothing is easy here. Your best bet here might be not to challenge mom but to actually go back to court and ask the Judge to let your son decide who he wants to live with. It may be a whole lot less dramatic but it just might work. Think about it because you have nothing to stand on in court from what Ive read. Good luck
The Mom needs to be turned into Child Protective Services for mental abuse. The child is old enough to tell them what's going on and can probably get them out of there
Just keep track of her verbal abuses and also in court go after child support. The fact that she is a woman/mother doesn't mean the child does't deserve child support.
The KID!!! If his child testifies then he will win the case. But he must also know that this will have a huge affect on the kid. The kid will be cross-examined and must be prepared. It would nice if he could get evidence in addition to the kid's testimony such as a tape recording of her cursing at the child. Is there anyone in HER family who feels she's a threat and harm. If one person in her family sides with him then his chances are great. Tell him to be sure to expose all bones in his closet, because her lawyer will!
he should think about anyone else thats around her when this happens and have them document what they see and hear if she's doing that.
a friend of mine is going through that now only the mom likes to take off for periods of time without a word. he's fighting to get their 2 boys and not having a lot of luck. his attorney told him document everything-when shes late with them for a doc app, i mean all of it!
tell your buddy good luck with it all
A good friend of mine caught his girlfriend in bed with another man. Looking for advice.?
After 4 months of what was supposed to be a monogamous arrangement. He caught his girlfriend in bed with another man, whom he knew. She claims she was drunk but takes full responsibility for her actions. He believes this may have been going on for some time, as he found that they had a lunch date together a month prior to being caught. My friend says he loves her, but the trust is no longer there. Is there hope here. She is heartbroken over the mistake. Anyway, I told what good advice is available here, so he told me to give it a try. I know she is trying hard to reconnect this relationship, but he appears distant and suspicious.A good friend of mine caught his girlfriend in bed with another man. Looking for advice.?
Let me guess - He's a nice guy that financialy spoils this girl and the guy she was boinking is a bad boy with a motorcycle, muscles, tattoos and no job?A good friend of mine caught his girlfriend in bed with another man. Looking for advice.?
Hi...
i can understand ur frnd's prob,its very difficult to tolret ur beloved ones wid sumone else....
%26amp; as u said No trust anymore....then there shud not b any relationship anymore....bcoz for any relation to b carried out trust is most important.....
Its hard to forget ur love....but he shud try....nothing is IMpossbile....bcoz I+M+Possible....tell him to remember this....
Good luck....
HE should be asking the question.
You oughta stay out of this one - this is for him and her to work out and is none of your business.
Personally I'd break up with her, but if I really loved this girl, I'd consider giving her another chance. That's a tough call especially when it's not you in that position.
I agree that without trust though, the relationship is going to be hard to save.
For any relationship to prosper, it has to be based on trust.
Since his GF is taking full responsibility for her actions, then might as well leave it at that.
He has to get out of that relationship since it has been tainted with dishonesty. Although his GF is working hard to reconnect with him, there will always be doubts on her integrity. She cannot be trusted again.
If in the future, if their paths cross again, then he might consider it. But for now, the best will be to end it.
You aint nothing without Trust.
He needs to move on if he can't get over it, and why should he? She betrayed him!
The first answer by Eric is the smart move. If you get involved and anything goes worng, you will be the scapegoat. Listen but offer no advise.
it will take a VERY long time for him to gain her trust back, if ever at all. if they continue the relationship, he'll always be suspicious of what she's doing. eventually, she'll get fed up of him being that way, even though it's her fault. it may not be a good idea for them to go on, especially if she's cheating on him only 4 months into the relationship. if she's bored this early on, it's best to just end it now.
You can't have a relationship without trust, its over.
Tell him to break it off, With love, comes trust and if theres no trust, i dont think there will be love. Yeah he might say he loves her but in his heart hes very sad and he needs time. Seeing your girl/boy friend in bed with someone else is a very sad thing, Tell him that she isnt trustworthy and he should break it off.
good luck hope this works-
If there is no trust then the relationship will always be hard. He may always wonder what she is doingwhen she is not with him. She will not be able to have male friends without him becoming paraniod. They need to sit down together and talk and see if they are both able to overcome this completely and set it in the past without bringing it up again. If the answer is no then they may need to go their seperate ways.
I think their r/s is very short and she was with other person be for him for one or another reason it's normal that she may not brake her r/s entirely it takes time for her to do that. So he is expected to be patient in order to help her to withdraw herself from her previous relation other ways she will not. When he do this he should believe the fact and should be genuine.
your friend should leave that gal or he should ask her weather she is really want him in his life .because once doubt comes suspician comes there is no hope for love because relationship is based on trust
My boyfriend cheated on me once in what I though was the first time and got another girl pregnant I took him back took in his baby as my own then a few months later he got a new job and while I was snowed in at work he brought another girl to our house and slept with her in our bed . Then when I threw him out I found out he cheated on me like 15 times in a little over two years. In my experience I've always found once a cheated always a cheater not just in my cases but in lots of other peoples your friend is right to feel the way he feels. He deserves better then that everyone does. She doesn't feel heartbroken about doing it she feels heartbroken about getting caught. If she was that worried about hurting your friend what was she doing at lunch and in bed in the first place.
Tell him to go on Yahoo Q and A and ask for advices? I believe he can type simple question in english, right?
The relationship is over and unless your friend is lovin' misery - he should move on. Being drunk is ';no excuse'; for having sex with other people.
tell him to move on be thankful he found out now instead of latter on in the relationship let her go if she did that then she is not mature enough for a relationship do not try again it is just wasted time in his life that he could have found the right women
Trust is a delicate thing. If she's serious about stopping this nonsense, it all depends on whether he wants to look beyond this and move on. If he does, he must work very hard in rebuilding the trust. She, of course, must do her part to help him. It won't be easy, but it can be done.
She will cheat again. Almost certain. She is a liar and probably is a little emotionally detached. Here is the problem, my friend. If you tell him that, it won't do no good. He's addicted to the chaos she's emmitting. If she feels you are a threat to the relationship (by trying to help him) she will make him choose. Her or you. Thats the problem. He'll probably take her side and distance himself from you. So you could leave it alone OR you can tell him to get rid of her. She's no good. Want proof? Tell him to dump her, and when he kicks your friendship to the curb and is no longer talking to you, she's free game. I guarentee she'll give it up to you. And he'll hate you for it. But he'll forgive her. She's bad news.
If one is reluctant and one is willing to try the relationship again, there is nothing wrong with trying a professional counselor who has seen this a lot of times and may have easy solutions to some of the problems.
It can't hurt; It might help.
At least there may be better ground rules set so that everyone knows they are in concrete - not just being guessed at as being the rules by both parties.
Each party can still walk away from it - just understanding each other's differences a little better, and knowing what not to do in the next relationship.
Let me guess - He's a nice guy that financialy spoils this girl and the guy she was boinking is a bad boy with a motorcycle, muscles, tattoos and no job?A good friend of mine caught his girlfriend in bed with another man. Looking for advice.?
Hi...
i can understand ur frnd's prob,its very difficult to tolret ur beloved ones wid sumone else....
%26amp; as u said No trust anymore....then there shud not b any relationship anymore....bcoz for any relation to b carried out trust is most important.....
Its hard to forget ur love....but he shud try....nothing is IMpossbile....bcoz I+M+Possible....tell him to remember this....
Good luck....
HE should be asking the question.
You oughta stay out of this one - this is for him and her to work out and is none of your business.
Personally I'd break up with her, but if I really loved this girl, I'd consider giving her another chance. That's a tough call especially when it's not you in that position.
I agree that without trust though, the relationship is going to be hard to save.
For any relationship to prosper, it has to be based on trust.
Since his GF is taking full responsibility for her actions, then might as well leave it at that.
He has to get out of that relationship since it has been tainted with dishonesty. Although his GF is working hard to reconnect with him, there will always be doubts on her integrity. She cannot be trusted again.
If in the future, if their paths cross again, then he might consider it. But for now, the best will be to end it.
You aint nothing without Trust.
He needs to move on if he can't get over it, and why should he? She betrayed him!
The first answer by Eric is the smart move. If you get involved and anything goes worng, you will be the scapegoat. Listen but offer no advise.
it will take a VERY long time for him to gain her trust back, if ever at all. if they continue the relationship, he'll always be suspicious of what she's doing. eventually, she'll get fed up of him being that way, even though it's her fault. it may not be a good idea for them to go on, especially if she's cheating on him only 4 months into the relationship. if she's bored this early on, it's best to just end it now.
You can't have a relationship without trust, its over.
Tell him to break it off, With love, comes trust and if theres no trust, i dont think there will be love. Yeah he might say he loves her but in his heart hes very sad and he needs time. Seeing your girl/boy friend in bed with someone else is a very sad thing, Tell him that she isnt trustworthy and he should break it off.
good luck hope this works-
If there is no trust then the relationship will always be hard. He may always wonder what she is doingwhen she is not with him. She will not be able to have male friends without him becoming paraniod. They need to sit down together and talk and see if they are both able to overcome this completely and set it in the past without bringing it up again. If the answer is no then they may need to go their seperate ways.
I think their r/s is very short and she was with other person be for him for one or another reason it's normal that she may not brake her r/s entirely it takes time for her to do that. So he is expected to be patient in order to help her to withdraw herself from her previous relation other ways she will not. When he do this he should believe the fact and should be genuine.
your friend should leave that gal or he should ask her weather she is really want him in his life .because once doubt comes suspician comes there is no hope for love because relationship is based on trust
My boyfriend cheated on me once in what I though was the first time and got another girl pregnant I took him back took in his baby as my own then a few months later he got a new job and while I was snowed in at work he brought another girl to our house and slept with her in our bed . Then when I threw him out I found out he cheated on me like 15 times in a little over two years. In my experience I've always found once a cheated always a cheater not just in my cases but in lots of other peoples your friend is right to feel the way he feels. He deserves better then that everyone does. She doesn't feel heartbroken about doing it she feels heartbroken about getting caught. If she was that worried about hurting your friend what was she doing at lunch and in bed in the first place.
Tell him to go on Yahoo Q and A and ask for advices? I believe he can type simple question in english, right?
The relationship is over and unless your friend is lovin' misery - he should move on. Being drunk is ';no excuse'; for having sex with other people.
tell him to move on be thankful he found out now instead of latter on in the relationship let her go if she did that then she is not mature enough for a relationship do not try again it is just wasted time in his life that he could have found the right women
Trust is a delicate thing. If she's serious about stopping this nonsense, it all depends on whether he wants to look beyond this and move on. If he does, he must work very hard in rebuilding the trust. She, of course, must do her part to help him. It won't be easy, but it can be done.
She will cheat again. Almost certain. She is a liar and probably is a little emotionally detached. Here is the problem, my friend. If you tell him that, it won't do no good. He's addicted to the chaos she's emmitting. If she feels you are a threat to the relationship (by trying to help him) she will make him choose. Her or you. Thats the problem. He'll probably take her side and distance himself from you. So you could leave it alone OR you can tell him to get rid of her. She's no good. Want proof? Tell him to dump her, and when he kicks your friendship to the curb and is no longer talking to you, she's free game. I guarentee she'll give it up to you. And he'll hate you for it. But he'll forgive her. She's bad news.
If one is reluctant and one is willing to try the relationship again, there is nothing wrong with trying a professional counselor who has seen this a lot of times and may have easy solutions to some of the problems.
It can't hurt; It might help.
At least there may be better ground rules set so that everyone knows they are in concrete - not just being guessed at as being the rules by both parties.
Each party can still walk away from it - just understanding each other's differences a little better, and knowing what not to do in the next relationship.
Married men, I need your advice about your Mother in law?
Would you sleep in the same room on a mattress on the floor beside the bed of your mother in law for one night? And that you respected her as your wifes mother but know that she has some weird ideas and that you don't feel comfortable with her. Also, that you have known her for a couple of years only.Married men, I need your advice about your Mother in law?
Nope!!!! Even my wife thinks her mother is a bit off!!!
Nope!!!! Even my wife thinks her mother is a bit off!!!
Good advice is something a man gives when he is too old to set a bad example? true or false?
have your say my friends your own experience....from school..family.freindsGood advice is something a man gives when he is too old to set a bad example? true or false?
you are right ,the older we get the more refine we become.more relaxed with world views,more understanding of other people and more caring .older and wiser.Good advice is something a man gives when he is too old to set a bad example? true or false?
False. And stupid with it.
Wise man say you are probably right
very true my friend, very true. however there is a brief window where one can potentialy maintain the hellraising but CHOOSE not to, its brief though :-)
In that case I give notice to all to never ever follow my advice because I will never ever be too old to set a Bad example
You give advice, when asked, but knowing that most of it will be ignored anyway.
False!! the Q is completely inane.
you are right ,the older we get the more refine we become.more relaxed with world views,more understanding of other people and more caring .older and wiser.Good advice is something a man gives when he is too old to set a bad example? true or false?
False. And stupid with it.
Wise man say you are probably right
very true my friend, very true. however there is a brief window where one can potentialy maintain the hellraising but CHOOSE not to, its brief though :-)
In that case I give notice to all to never ever follow my advice because I will never ever be too old to set a Bad example
You give advice, when asked, but knowing that most of it will be ignored anyway.
False!! the Q is completely inane.
Man Titties (Need Advice)?
Ok im 12 turning 13 and im getting annoyed on how people make fun of my man titties (That's what they call them) Don't laugh and im not fat its just that I was fat and I lost weight but I don't no how to get rid of my man titties any advise. And plzz don't make fun of me. The situation is not that bad but it bothers a little. Im a guy if you didn't notice yet. (just saying)Man Titties (Need Advice)?
Hi there
Well I would suggest doing some chest exercises
There's this one (I forgot what it's called sorry)
But anyways you lie down on your back with your arms outstretched (so your body is shaped like a T)with a dumbell in each hand (Id say use one that's at least 5lbs for now) and then bring your arms up like your hugging a wide tree and then back down again.
Try to use your chect muscles and not your arms
If you want to figure out what it's called or want to see a video then try looking at a fitness website like aol health under chest and arm exercises
Hope I helped and don't listen to what other people say when they make fun of you
They just need to make fun of others because they are so insecure of themselves ;)Man Titties (Need Advice)?
you've got to do a LOT of cardio. chest exercises will help too, but if you don't do cardio the man boobs will actually look BIGGER because you'll have muscle underneath the fat.
do a combination of biking, running and swimming if you can and be religious about it. you're young so it won't take a super long time, but you've got to commit to doing cardio at least 3 times a week.
JUST AS IMPORTANT, you've got to watch your diet. i don't mean you have to be vegan and get vaginitis (south park), but you need to be mindful of the amount of fat you eat. go for baked instead of fried, and eat veggies and fruits daily. pretty soon you'll crave them. good luck buddy. Like the chick said, they're only making fun of you cuz of their own insecurities...but that doesn't matter much, does it?
Do plenty of cardiovascular exercises.
Do push ups,bench press,chest dips and if you have access to a gym go.
Your young and your pecs haven't fully developed yet, but you could help build them a little bit by doing wide based push ups, and run often
DO THE TRUFFLE SHUFFLE!
get on a diet and exercise every day
Your gonna grow up to be bob. Meet bob, bob has 13itch t i t s lmao
Hi there
Well I would suggest doing some chest exercises
There's this one (I forgot what it's called sorry)
But anyways you lie down on your back with your arms outstretched (so your body is shaped like a T)with a dumbell in each hand (Id say use one that's at least 5lbs for now) and then bring your arms up like your hugging a wide tree and then back down again.
Try to use your chect muscles and not your arms
If you want to figure out what it's called or want to see a video then try looking at a fitness website like aol health under chest and arm exercises
Hope I helped and don't listen to what other people say when they make fun of you
They just need to make fun of others because they are so insecure of themselves ;)Man Titties (Need Advice)?
you've got to do a LOT of cardio. chest exercises will help too, but if you don't do cardio the man boobs will actually look BIGGER because you'll have muscle underneath the fat.
do a combination of biking, running and swimming if you can and be religious about it. you're young so it won't take a super long time, but you've got to commit to doing cardio at least 3 times a week.
JUST AS IMPORTANT, you've got to watch your diet. i don't mean you have to be vegan and get vaginitis (south park), but you need to be mindful of the amount of fat you eat. go for baked instead of fried, and eat veggies and fruits daily. pretty soon you'll crave them. good luck buddy. Like the chick said, they're only making fun of you cuz of their own insecurities...but that doesn't matter much, does it?
Do plenty of cardiovascular exercises.
Do push ups,bench press,chest dips and if you have access to a gym go.
Your young and your pecs haven't fully developed yet, but you could help build them a little bit by doing wide based push ups, and run often
DO THE TRUFFLE SHUFFLE!
get on a diet and exercise every day
Your gonna grow up to be bob. Meet bob, bob has 13itch t i t s lmao
Man troubles...any advice?
I've known my significant other for 9y,and we have been a couple for 1 1/2y.I'm currently 6m pregnant with his child.He travels a lot for work so he is not home often.Well today I realized he was about $200 short on his truck payment due tomorrow and felt I should let him know.Well after telling him this he starts accusing me of STEALING HIS MONEY,and demanding that I put it back.Also in the past week he has voiced that he doesn't believe it's really his child I'm carrying,and has accused me of being a ';lazy mooch';.I just agreed to move into 'his' house about a month ago and this is the type of treatment I've gotten since then.He did not act like this before I moved in.Also,I would like to say,*I* pay 'his' house payment and all of the utilities since I'm the one in the house full time while he's at work.Maybe it's just that I'm angry right now but it seems to me if anything HE is the one taking advantage of ME--Why this sudden change and what should I do about it? TY for any advice.Man troubles...any advice?
well I would move out cause It'll get worse, before it get better,if he thinks you stole his money,then he does'nt think much of you. sorry that your going through that, I hope it gets better for you, stay strong.Man troubles...any advice?
DO NOT pay his bills anymore. If something gets repo'd or cut off, then so be it, that's what he gets for not paying his own bills. He sounds like a real loser with a capital ';L.'; He's not worth your time, you deserve way better than that.
Please, for the love of yourself, your child and everything from God: GET AWAY NOW WHILE YOU STILL CAN. If you have enough money coming in to pay his morgage, you have enough to support YOUR OWN house. It only gets worse...TRUST! You do not have to listen to me, after all, I am a stranger. But please, ask others you know what they think. Ask your Mom (my Mom 7 times out of 10 has AMAZING advice). We have to teach people how to treat us or they will continue to beat us up when ever they feel like it.
3 Words- Dump...The...Chump
wow..sounds like you need to relook what you have steped into ..maby he aint the guy for you ...the baby is from god
well I would move out cause It'll get worse, before it get better,if he thinks you stole his money,then he does'nt think much of you. sorry that your going through that, I hope it gets better for you, stay strong.Man troubles...any advice?
DO NOT pay his bills anymore. If something gets repo'd or cut off, then so be it, that's what he gets for not paying his own bills. He sounds like a real loser with a capital ';L.'; He's not worth your time, you deserve way better than that.
Please, for the love of yourself, your child and everything from God: GET AWAY NOW WHILE YOU STILL CAN. If you have enough money coming in to pay his morgage, you have enough to support YOUR OWN house. It only gets worse...TRUST! You do not have to listen to me, after all, I am a stranger. But please, ask others you know what they think. Ask your Mom (my Mom 7 times out of 10 has AMAZING advice). We have to teach people how to treat us or they will continue to beat us up when ever they feel like it.
3 Words- Dump...The...Chump
wow..sounds like you need to relook what you have steped into ..maby he aint the guy for you ...the baby is from god
Man needs dating advice (mid 20s)?
I've noticed alot of ';my'; type of girls are scared off really easily. They are good women with great personalities and are beautiful but have been hurt alot in the past. Thier first instinct when just about anything doesn't go according to plan or something I do freaks them out (doesn't take much), is to run away. I'm honestly not a bad guy, but I'm pretty much still a raw ';untrained'; man (the girls haven't broken me in completely yet ;) ). So what is a man supposed to do when dating a really sensitive woman?Man needs dating advice (mid 20s)?
Those women are for you. You just haven't met the right one. You are being kept because the one you are looking for is on her way. When she arrives you will know it. She won't run away. She'll love you and stand by your side to support
you. For every gentleman there is a special lady. But you must wait for her. Picture in your mind. Something inside you will let you know she is the one.Man needs dating advice (mid 20s)?
Stop Whining and get a hooker!
You need someone a little less sensitive to date if you don't like the way things are going....or maybe you just haven't dated anyone ready for a relationship...HUrt or not they can't be a good partner until they are happy with themselves...Time doesn't heal all...They need to work out the issues THEN try dating....Keep looking man they're out there somewhere...
make sure you two talk. keep the communication lines open as much as possible. make her feel secure. DO NOT CLOSE OFF%26gt; also, what would you be doing to freak them out? if you are standing them up or blowing them off you should shape up. if they caught you picking your nose and were scared off, it's their fault and they've got to get a grip.beauty
Those women are for you. You just haven't met the right one. You are being kept because the one you are looking for is on her way. When she arrives you will know it. She won't run away. She'll love you and stand by your side to support
you. For every gentleman there is a special lady. But you must wait for her. Picture in your mind. Something inside you will let you know she is the one.Man needs dating advice (mid 20s)?
Stop Whining and get a hooker!
You need someone a little less sensitive to date if you don't like the way things are going....or maybe you just haven't dated anyone ready for a relationship...HUrt or not they can't be a good partner until they are happy with themselves...Time doesn't heal all...They need to work out the issues THEN try dating....Keep looking man they're out there somewhere...
make sure you two talk. keep the communication lines open as much as possible. make her feel secure. DO NOT CLOSE OFF%26gt; also, what would you be doing to freak them out? if you are standing them up or blowing them off you should shape up. if they caught you picking your nose and were scared off, it's their fault and they've got to get a grip.
Sick of workiing in a '; man's '; Job. can someone give me some advice?
I'm a custodian at a school distric.t yes its obvoius you don have to be a man to do the job. but the men all think so . they all in thier 5os and 60s and treat me like dog crap. ive already moved through several schools experiencesing the same problmes everywhere i go. they holler at me, put me down, try to get me in trouble. im tierd of it. anyone else would get out of the job and find something else? What should i do?Sick of workiing in a '; man's '; Job. can someone give me some advice?
Start looking, but better yet, why don't you work on going back to school and bettering yourself.Sick of workiing in a '; man's '; Job. can someone give me some advice?
If I were you I would find something different. One really good option is self employment or do an online search for home business opportunities. I know of a few and I will list them below. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
At the college where I work women out number men 3 to one on the custodial staff. Perhaps your problem isn't gender based. There is always potential for problems when people are expected to work together as a team but pulling the gender card when its not warranted is certain to make things worse.
Then work for yourself. I am a homeschooling stay at home mom of 3 very active boys. I love the company that I am with. We are publicly traded and a member of the BBB. I own my own on line travel agency with YTB. We have excellent mentoring and training, no experience required. If you would like to travel at HUGE discounts, make the best commissions in the industry, and enjoy awesome tax benefits- email me.
Aren't you pregnant? Who the hell pushes a pregnant woman down?! I would press charges.
Start looking, but better yet, why don't you work on going back to school and bettering yourself.Sick of workiing in a '; man's '; Job. can someone give me some advice?
If I were you I would find something different. One really good option is self employment or do an online search for home business opportunities. I know of a few and I will list them below. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
At the college where I work women out number men 3 to one on the custodial staff. Perhaps your problem isn't gender based. There is always potential for problems when people are expected to work together as a team but pulling the gender card when its not warranted is certain to make things worse.
Then work for yourself. I am a homeschooling stay at home mom of 3 very active boys. I love the company that I am with. We are publicly traded and a member of the BBB. I own my own on line travel agency with YTB. We have excellent mentoring and training, no experience required. If you would like to travel at HUGE discounts, make the best commissions in the industry, and enjoy awesome tax benefits- email me.
Aren't you pregnant? Who the hell pushes a pregnant woman down?! I would press charges.
Sick of workiing in a '; man's '; Job. can someone give me some advice?
I'm a custodian at a school distric.t yes its obvoius you don have to be a man to do the job. but the men all think so . they all in thier 5os and 60s and treat me like dog crap. ive already moved through several schools experiencesing the same problmes everywhere i go. they holler at me, put me down, try to get me in trouble. im tierd of it. anyone else would get out of the job and find something else? What should i do?Sick of workiing in a '; man's '; Job. can someone give me some advice?
Start looking, but better yet, why don't you work on going back to school and bettering yourself.Sick of workiing in a '; man's '; Job. can someone give me some advice?
If I were you I would find something different. One really good option is self employment or do an online search for home business opportunities. I know of a few and I will list them below. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
At the college where I work women out number men 3 to one on the custodial staff. Perhaps your problem isn't gender based. There is always potential for problems when people are expected to work together as a team but pulling the gender card when its not warranted is certain to make things worse.
Then work for yourself. I am a homeschooling stay at home mom of 3 very active boys. I love the company that I am with. We are publicly traded and a member of the BBB. I own my own on line travel agency with YTB. We have excellent mentoring and training, no experience required. If you would like to travel at HUGE discounts, make the best commissions in the industry, and enjoy awesome tax benefits- email me.
Aren't you pregnant? Who the hell pushes a pregnant woman down?! I would press charges.
Start looking, but better yet, why don't you work on going back to school and bettering yourself.Sick of workiing in a '; man's '; Job. can someone give me some advice?
If I were you I would find something different. One really good option is self employment or do an online search for home business opportunities. I know of a few and I will list them below. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
At the college where I work women out number men 3 to one on the custodial staff. Perhaps your problem isn't gender based. There is always potential for problems when people are expected to work together as a team but pulling the gender card when its not warranted is certain to make things worse.
Then work for yourself. I am a homeschooling stay at home mom of 3 very active boys. I love the company that I am with. We are publicly traded and a member of the BBB. I own my own on line travel agency with YTB. We have excellent mentoring and training, no experience required. If you would like to travel at HUGE discounts, make the best commissions in the industry, and enjoy awesome tax benefits- email me.
Aren't you pregnant? Who the hell pushes a pregnant woman down?! I would press charges.
Long question pleas help, strong women, could you give me some advice please? man trouble?
basically i was 'the other woman,' and though my guy had a son to his original girlfriend, they were not married, and he implied they were not together in the past but rather had just gotten together recently before i came along. i had no intention of falling in love with this man, but after 6 months of us being together i really have, and though i know the right thing to do is to leave him, i really dont have the strength to do it, it is not an option because i am in love with him.
The thing is, it seems to me he is still with this woman; he only meets me once a week and we dont chat during the week though i would like to, but i like to test him, see if he texts,) it seems hes with this other girl still, though he told me about 2 months ago he broke up with her (i'd waited,) but i mean he's lied to me a couple of times its a long story but lots of things really suggest hes still with her, shes even the wallpaper open his phone. Hes never taken me out properly, only bought me a coffee, he wants me to move in with him an though i would love to, i dont believe he really does, im worried hes tagging me along but really wants to be with her. im sick of his inconsistancy, hes made me almost suicidal, bu never been mean he supports me, the only person i n my life who has ever done that and i cant let go, but im sick of him clubbin every nightm, having no time for me and im 70% sure hes still with this woman. im 19 hes 29. please help i dont know what to do im not strong enough and i feel depressed and just want to die i know that sounds stupid but please help,
serious answers only please
TY much appreciated xxLong question pleas help, strong women, could you give me some advice please? man trouble?
ok.. basically if a guy REALLY loves you and wants to be with you he will move heaven and earth to do so! its harder when kids are involved and maybe he is having a hard time leaving his child.. but you need to sit him down and set it straight! the fact that you are showing him that you are a strong person who doesn't NEED a man, will show him you mean business! if he comes back and says he cant live without you and leave the other woman.. then go right ahead! but watch your back and stay strong :)Long question pleas help, strong women, could you give me some advice please? man trouble?
I'm sorry to say this, but he is using you. If he wanted to be with you, he would. Have some strength and get rid of him!
Please try and find the strength to walk away from this relationship. He doesn't love you, he doesn't respect you, he doesn't spend any time with you, he has no loyalty toward you, he isn't honest with you, you don't trust him! What more do you need to know? I don't think that you do love him - I think that you're frightened of being alone. Go and see a professional about your lack of self esteem. No woman should have so little self esteem that they become a doormat. Please see someone before things get even worse.
K well first of all..you have to think of a few things
1. if he does want to be with you do you think you can handle being a mother at 19 cause i guarantee you will have to start because i doubt he will stop his clubbing ways and it sounds like he isn't caring for his son either
2. do you fee like you cant get anyone else because you definitely can someone with no baggage
3 i know letting go of someone you love is hard but sometimes in order to see if they're really into you you have to let them be on their own and if he doesn't come back then you know he's just dragging you on
4. It's called the 80-20 rule he currently has an 80 meaning the woman who has his child..holds him down..and will be with him when he screws up and she knows he will..and sadly you're the 20 the one who looks amazing single life and has everything going for her, but sadly he's gonna go back to his 80 every time.
i don't mean to hurt your feelings but yea that's my opinion anyways %26lt;3 good luck
xoxo
tell him what you feel, there's nothing worst than waiting on a guy when he's messing you around. well if he has no time for you then he doesn't love you that much? say to him'; i don't wanna be a thing on the side, if your not gonna respect me, then this relationship is over'; get yourself out there! go join a club, do new sports! find out new things and meet new people, go out with friends and family- all this should help you get over him.
:)
Girl, there is a ten year age difference there, that's problem number one. number two: He is still going out with a girl, supposedly, and she has had a child with him. Three: He never takes you out anywhere, but wants you to live with him. My dad asked a women he wasn't married to to live with him and later they got married, but they are about to divorce and it's barely been a year. There are plenty of guys out there who will treat you with lots of love, and will be your age. You just have to find them. A few suggestions are religious guys, I'm a Mormon and all the guys are nice and loving for us, but that's just a suggestion... Being with a guy that makes you feel depressed and suicidal immediately makes him a definite NO. Good luck girl.
The thing is, it seems to me he is still with this woman; he only meets me once a week and we dont chat during the week though i would like to, but i like to test him, see if he texts,) it seems hes with this other girl still, though he told me about 2 months ago he broke up with her (i'd waited,) but i mean he's lied to me a couple of times its a long story but lots of things really suggest hes still with her, shes even the wallpaper open his phone. Hes never taken me out properly, only bought me a coffee, he wants me to move in with him an though i would love to, i dont believe he really does, im worried hes tagging me along but really wants to be with her. im sick of his inconsistancy, hes made me almost suicidal, bu never been mean he supports me, the only person i n my life who has ever done that and i cant let go, but im sick of him clubbin every nightm, having no time for me and im 70% sure hes still with this woman. im 19 hes 29. please help i dont know what to do im not strong enough and i feel depressed and just want to die i know that sounds stupid but please help,
serious answers only please
TY much appreciated xxLong question pleas help, strong women, could you give me some advice please? man trouble?
ok.. basically if a guy REALLY loves you and wants to be with you he will move heaven and earth to do so! its harder when kids are involved and maybe he is having a hard time leaving his child.. but you need to sit him down and set it straight! the fact that you are showing him that you are a strong person who doesn't NEED a man, will show him you mean business! if he comes back and says he cant live without you and leave the other woman.. then go right ahead! but watch your back and stay strong :)Long question pleas help, strong women, could you give me some advice please? man trouble?
I'm sorry to say this, but he is using you. If he wanted to be with you, he would. Have some strength and get rid of him!
Please try and find the strength to walk away from this relationship. He doesn't love you, he doesn't respect you, he doesn't spend any time with you, he has no loyalty toward you, he isn't honest with you, you don't trust him! What more do you need to know? I don't think that you do love him - I think that you're frightened of being alone. Go and see a professional about your lack of self esteem. No woman should have so little self esteem that they become a doormat. Please see someone before things get even worse.
K well first of all..you have to think of a few things
1. if he does want to be with you do you think you can handle being a mother at 19 cause i guarantee you will have to start because i doubt he will stop his clubbing ways and it sounds like he isn't caring for his son either
2. do you fee like you cant get anyone else because you definitely can someone with no baggage
3 i know letting go of someone you love is hard but sometimes in order to see if they're really into you you have to let them be on their own and if he doesn't come back then you know he's just dragging you on
4. It's called the 80-20 rule he currently has an 80 meaning the woman who has his child..holds him down..and will be with him when he screws up and she knows he will..and sadly you're the 20 the one who looks amazing single life and has everything going for her, but sadly he's gonna go back to his 80 every time.
i don't mean to hurt your feelings but yea that's my opinion anyways %26lt;3 good luck
xoxo
tell him what you feel, there's nothing worst than waiting on a guy when he's messing you around. well if he has no time for you then he doesn't love you that much? say to him'; i don't wanna be a thing on the side, if your not gonna respect me, then this relationship is over'; get yourself out there! go join a club, do new sports! find out new things and meet new people, go out with friends and family- all this should help you get over him.
:)
Girl, there is a ten year age difference there, that's problem number one. number two: He is still going out with a girl, supposedly, and she has had a child with him. Three: He never takes you out anywhere, but wants you to live with him. My dad asked a women he wasn't married to to live with him and later they got married, but they are about to divorce and it's barely been a year. There are plenty of guys out there who will treat you with lots of love, and will be your age. You just have to find them. A few suggestions are religious guys, I'm a Mormon and all the guys are nice and loving for us, but that's just a suggestion... Being with a guy that makes you feel depressed and suicidal immediately makes him a definite NO. Good luck girl.
Ok i all ready posted this b4 and not one answer ! love advice, seeing man for?
3 years we were actually together for less then a year and we broke up but continued to see each other , we broke up because all we did was argue and every time we argued it some how or another was my fault no mater what it was i was in the wrong . and for awhile he wouldn't make a commitment to me such as moving in w me or more well any ways last nite we got in to an argument becuz i have a myspace page witch is ridicules because were not even together and he has no right to be tripping on me like that .im really at the point ware im about to cut him loose ,granted he is there for me when i need him and hes good with my kids but he is really immature and does stuff that drive me crazy like mock me or switch my words around when im talking , like if i say something say for instance i wanna go to the movies he copy me and say bla blana blo do bovies or something stupid like that and really gets on my nerves and when i get mad he'll be like calm down and tell me im up tight or some more **** . i dont know what to do . i tried talking to him and his excuse is that he ben that way forever so why should he change . he gets on my god dam nerves . one more example is one time when i was leaving his house he said get out of here hoodrat i got really mad he says hes playing around and could not get why i was mad it turned into a big arguement and it was my fault according to him .. someone give me some input pleaseOk i all ready posted this b4 and not one answer ! love advice, seeing man for?
Why are you waisting your time with this man? you have kids to think of,to give them and yourself a happy life.You need to close one door before you can open another.Do yourself and the kids a favor and close the door for a better one to open.If you don't close it, another wont open.Ok i all ready posted this b4 and not one answer ! love advice, seeing man for?
You obviously can't stand this guy, why are you with him? Woman please respect yourself, find a man who respects you.
i dont think anyone will answer because its tooo long. noone wantsto read that. :( sorry
just move on man/
Sorry sweetie... but it sounds to me that neither of you are mature enough to be in a relationship. If you can't get along, be apart... and you said you have kids... what the heck type of example are you setting for them? Allow me to answer that for you:
1. Mommy is immature
2. It is normal to fight constantly in a relationship
3. You have to put up with disrespect from whoever you are with
4. Mommy doesn't have the guts to stand up for herself
5. It works when Mommy's man does it... our turn !
Is that what you really want? Either work it out or throw him out !
Wow. It looks as though he doesn't respect u at ALL! Just let him go. So what, if he's good with your kids, you can find someone else who is good with ur kids and good with u. I mean, he doesn't deserve u. If he's gonna mock u like some 5 year old does, twist your words just so that it doesn't look like its HIS fault, and insult u, then u need to just tell him to shut the f*ck up, and to go away.
Why are you waisting your time with this man? you have kids to think of,to give them and yourself a happy life.You need to close one door before you can open another.Do yourself and the kids a favor and close the door for a better one to open.If you don't close it, another wont open.Ok i all ready posted this b4 and not one answer ! love advice, seeing man for?
You obviously can't stand this guy, why are you with him? Woman please respect yourself, find a man who respects you.
i dont think anyone will answer because its tooo long. noone wantsto read that. :( sorry
just move on man/
Sorry sweetie... but it sounds to me that neither of you are mature enough to be in a relationship. If you can't get along, be apart... and you said you have kids... what the heck type of example are you setting for them? Allow me to answer that for you:
1. Mommy is immature
2. It is normal to fight constantly in a relationship
3. You have to put up with disrespect from whoever you are with
4. Mommy doesn't have the guts to stand up for herself
5. It works when Mommy's man does it... our turn !
Is that what you really want? Either work it out or throw him out !
Wow. It looks as though he doesn't respect u at ALL! Just let him go. So what, if he's good with your kids, you can find someone else who is good with ur kids and good with u. I mean, he doesn't deserve u. If he's gonna mock u like some 5 year old does, twist your words just so that it doesn't look like its HIS fault, and insult u, then u need to just tell him to shut the f*ck up, and to go away.
A single male 24 years old man need some advice.?
I am a single male 24 years old. I am trying to get back into the dating scene. I need some advice about where is the best place to meet women. I tend to be shy. I am tried of the bar scene. Has anybody ever tried speed dating and or online dating? If so was your experience good or bad. I have been thinking about joining a gym.A single male 24 years old man need some advice.?
Joining a gym isn't great for meeting women. Not if that's your reason for doing it.
If you wanna work out, and you go work out, you'll meet women... but if you're going to meet women, you're not gonna do well.
Speed dating looks fun, I've never done it. And online dating is a sad sort of process. I don't endorse it.
Just get out into the world. A lot of it is geographical. If you live in a busy city, you have so many options. Museums are great actually. And you meet a better class of people than you would at a bar.A single male 24 years old man need some advice.?
Don't do the dodgy sites or speed dating... my guess is gym... or join a local group or something to meet new people.
Good luck!
join a group or club that interests you to maybe meet a woman with similar interests.
Joining a gym isn't great for meeting women. Not if that's your reason for doing it.
If you wanna work out, and you go work out, you'll meet women... but if you're going to meet women, you're not gonna do well.
Speed dating looks fun, I've never done it. And online dating is a sad sort of process. I don't endorse it.
Just get out into the world. A lot of it is geographical. If you live in a busy city, you have so many options. Museums are great actually. And you meet a better class of people than you would at a bar.A single male 24 years old man need some advice.?
Don't do the dodgy sites or speed dating... my guess is gym... or join a local group or something to meet new people.
Good luck!
join a group or club that interests you to maybe meet a woman with similar interests.
Any youth football coaches have advice for 8 man 3rd and 4th grade new coach??
Set your game plan up around the best 3 or 4 players. The remaining players can be used to clog up the middle lanes.
Use whatever team speed you might haveAny youth football coaches have advice for 8 man 3rd and 4th grade new coach??
YEAH, GET 3 MORE PLAYERSAny youth football coaches have advice for 8 man 3rd and 4th grade new coach??
hell yea do you watch sports or drink tea with your mom!beauty
Use whatever team speed you might haveAny youth football coaches have advice for 8 man 3rd and 4th grade new coach??
YEAH, GET 3 MORE PLAYERSAny youth football coaches have advice for 8 man 3rd and 4th grade new coach??
hell yea do you watch sports or drink tea with your mom!
As a Black Man, who seems to be graying prematurely (37), I need advice on what product to buy to combat same?
Well, I can't help with a product but I don't think they sell self esteem anyway. Come on dude, 37 and some gray? The women probably think it looks 'distinguished', and that is a good thing. Just look at me. I have lots of gray hair, and the women just don't quit. Might be because I am a single doctor - I really don't know. Stand tall and be proud of a bit of gray. It is earned.
And now on the brighter side - diet plays a small roll in this. If you improve your diet, by cutting out saturated fats, and anything white (flour, sugar, rice), replacing all of this with fruits and vegetables, beans, brown rice etc. and at 37 a vitamin supplement wouldn't hurt, with some Omega 3 to top it off, then over a space of a year or two, as your hair grows out, it could recover some of it's darker tone. Hope this helps.As a Black Man, who seems to be graying prematurely (37), I need advice on what product to buy to combat same?
As a black woman, don't meet to many brothers that still have their hair. You are truly blessed in that area. You can always color it, if you don't like it, but before you do. Have you asked some of your lady friends what they thought? I like the salt and pepper look. Brother just do you and ROCK IT!!!!As a Black Man, who seems to be graying prematurely (37), I need advice on what product to buy to combat same?
I went pearly white at 30. I'd colored my hair for years and stopped. Whoa...I was about 95% white.
Sometimes, a folic acid deficiency is responsible for premature graying. You could try 800 mcg. of folic acid per day. It's not that unusual for people in the USA to be folic acid deficient for some reason. More often than not, though, graying is genetic.
If you want to color the grey, I'd suggest going to Sally's Beauty Supply and buying a DEMI-permanent hair color by Color Charm. You have to buy an activator to go with it. Demi permanent hair color lasts longer than semi but isn't as harmful to the hair as permanent. It works great for covering the grays.
After care of your hair is important. If you use ';clear'; shampoos, they will strip the hair color out of your hair in no time. It's best to use a shampoo for color-treated hair or use a moisturizing shampoo. You might consider what a lot of us ';curly girls'; do, no matter the ethnicity. We are washing our hair with conditioner instead of shampoo. We use cheap conditioners like V05 or Suave to wash our hair. They really aren't good as conditioners but work great to wash hair! We then use a little leave in conditioner of heavier conditioner as needed. You could even spray olive oil or something like that on your hair for additional conditionining. At any rate, washing with conditioner will help keep your hair healthy and keep it from fading as fast if you color it.
The Roux rinses probably won't work if you have lots of grey. A waste of $.
And now on the brighter side - diet plays a small roll in this. If you improve your diet, by cutting out saturated fats, and anything white (flour, sugar, rice), replacing all of this with fruits and vegetables, beans, brown rice etc. and at 37 a vitamin supplement wouldn't hurt, with some Omega 3 to top it off, then over a space of a year or two, as your hair grows out, it could recover some of it's darker tone. Hope this helps.As a Black Man, who seems to be graying prematurely (37), I need advice on what product to buy to combat same?
As a black woman, don't meet to many brothers that still have their hair. You are truly blessed in that area. You can always color it, if you don't like it, but before you do. Have you asked some of your lady friends what they thought? I like the salt and pepper look. Brother just do you and ROCK IT!!!!As a Black Man, who seems to be graying prematurely (37), I need advice on what product to buy to combat same?
I went pearly white at 30. I'd colored my hair for years and stopped. Whoa...I was about 95% white.
Sometimes, a folic acid deficiency is responsible for premature graying. You could try 800 mcg. of folic acid per day. It's not that unusual for people in the USA to be folic acid deficient for some reason. More often than not, though, graying is genetic.
If you want to color the grey, I'd suggest going to Sally's Beauty Supply and buying a DEMI-permanent hair color by Color Charm. You have to buy an activator to go with it. Demi permanent hair color lasts longer than semi but isn't as harmful to the hair as permanent. It works great for covering the grays.
After care of your hair is important. If you use ';clear'; shampoos, they will strip the hair color out of your hair in no time. It's best to use a shampoo for color-treated hair or use a moisturizing shampoo. You might consider what a lot of us ';curly girls'; do, no matter the ethnicity. We are washing our hair with conditioner instead of shampoo. We use cheap conditioners like V05 or Suave to wash our hair. They really aren't good as conditioners but work great to wash hair! We then use a little leave in conditioner of heavier conditioner as needed. You could even spray olive oil or something like that on your hair for additional conditionining. At any rate, washing with conditioner will help keep your hair healthy and keep it from fading as fast if you color it.
The Roux rinses probably won't work if you have lots of grey. A waste of $.
I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?
Well, let's just say I'm in a bit of a dilemma. Recently I've realized that both of my children are being bf and gf to each other. My 15 year old daughter has been acting very clingy towards her brother, and my 17 year old son has been fiercely protective of his sister. They've even insisted on sleeping in the same room, in the same bed and in addition I suspect my son has gotten his own sister pregnant because she's been feeling sick in the morning and having odd cravings. Earlier today my son had gotten into a fight at school over some guys who were apparently checking out his sister. I had to excuse myself from an important meeting at work to have a parent teacher conference about his fight. Right now they're in their room with their door closed doing God knows what.
I know this isn't the best place to ask for advice like this, but I don't really know what to do.I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?
This story is too ridiculous to be true, in my opinion.
Sadly, it just as well might be.
First, take your daughter to the doctor.
Then some MAJOR family counseling.
Possibly send them to different schools.
NO MORE sleeping in the same room. if at all possible, put them in different sides of the house.
Go to Church.
If anyone, your family needs it.
If you made this up, YOU need it more than ever.I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?
I hope you have talked to your wife about this she might have some insight on some of this. and then i would confront both of them ask them straight out whats going on don't forget to tell them you love them. dont let it go any longer. good luck
this is the second time you have posted this question.
you are the father! Get your head out of your *** and start acting like one! Get these kids into counseling,get your daughter to a Dr., take the doors off the bedroom, and why are you allowing this to happen, you need to regain control of your kids and your home!
Jerry Springer called, he wants you to make an appearance on his show.
You're not referring to the pitbull again are you? You little troll, don't you have homework or something to do? And isn't it past your bedtime?
If you're not a troll, I think you need to take your kids to a family counselor/psychologist to figure things out.
i think u better bring them for counselling.. to a psychiatrist... i know they're not crazy or have something wrong with their minds.. just for them to talk and express themselves freely.. and find out what seems to be bothering them...
You need to have a conversation w/ them RIGHT NOW! Obviously, something is going on in the household and/or school for them to be acting this way. Time to get down and dirty w/ your kids and nip this in the butt NOW! Also, if you cause conflict between you and your children, they may feel to continue this outside of the household.
thats disgusting... are they at least addopted?
i think you need serious professional help in your family
Why are you acting like a castrated father who has lost control over his kids? Take them to a counsellor and get yourself counselled too. Plus your wife/ partner...if you have one.
OMG! I would be opening that door, and having have a heart to heart with them and take her to the doctor to be checked out asap!
There definitely needs to be some family counseling going on here.
Well Frist off.. I wouldnt let them sleep in a room together there far to OLD for that.
2nd: Why are you still letting them stay in a room: Plus you should be opening that door. that is WRONG!
3rd: Is there mother around, what does she think you should do, Have you talked to her about it. I would talk to someone other then people on yahoo answers about this. You need a Doctor to talk to
4th: Talk to your children let them kno what you are thinking. and let them know that there FAR TO OLD to be acting like that.
I Hope this is a joke, because if its not you have a major problem on your hands.
It is your house!!. Why are you saying they are in their room with the door closed doing God knows what?!! Open the door and see what the heck they are doing. Let them know - not in your house. Unless you want a grandson who does know if daddy is uncle or daddy. Get some counseling for your children. Remember they are your children-they live in your house and should respect and follow your rules. Not saying they wont sneak but you can do something about what you do know about!! Take time cause no matter how important that meeting was your kids are even more important and they sound like they need your help not your friendship.
Well it sounds like your pretty clueless as to whats going on in your family so I taking you for the regular parent who works too much and ignores his children (or else you wouldnt be here all of the sudden... you would have been here way back when they moved into each others room).
So before you assume that your children are having sex with each other, lets take a look at this. You the parent are not an active parent in your children's life. You dont know sh*t about whats going on. Did you ever think that maybe your daughter was attacked and maybe raped by some guy while you werent home or at school or at a party or whatever, and the only one who knows is her brother? She's scared out of her mind, maybe it happened at night, and she cant sleep by herself, so she's moved into her brother's room because he knows what happened and he understands. And maybe those kids at school werent checking out his sister, maybe one of them was the guy who attacked your daughter... i trust you're getting all your info from the school and not your children. And if nothing else, your son was doing the brotherly thing, especially since im sure this group of teenaged boys probably werent like 'o yea man shes hot' and stare as she walks by... I bet it was more of 'baby why dont you come over here and I'll give you a reason to bend over...' who knows, maybe they grabed her *** or any other parts of her. Different story now isnt it?
Grow up and be a parent, get your daughter in to see a doctor, find out whats going on, get the police involved if she's been attacked and get your head out of the sand. And if your right, send your kids into councelling, and check yourself in with them. And dont let them sleep in the same bed together
Why, for God's sake, are you leaving them alone in a room together? I'd get her an abortion and military school him! Yuk!
OMG! That's awful! She needs to go to the doctor asap! If she is pregnant, she really needs to have an abortion. I do not really agree with abortion, but there's such a huge chance of problems with a child conceived out of incest. You need to bust down the door and confront them about it. No Mr. Nice Guy. You need to let them know that this is WAY wrong, and no more being in the same room with the door closed. You should probably even send one of them off for awhile. Maybe to a military school or a grandparent's house. Regardless of what you do, you need to let them know that you mean business!
First defeat all the latches in their rooms. It is not at all normal. A brother and sister shall have affection - not lust. You really have to open the subject and explain them why a relation should not be with in them. If you are not sure to convince them, take them to some one who can do it in your place. There are councilors available. One of my friend (16 yrs girl) had the same issue with her 17 yrs old bro. They decided to send the guy to college away from home. When the news came out, all the friends started looking at her like.... (you know what).... She is totally depressed and stopped schooling last year. Please do not allow such situation to your children. They have to grow yet and you need to do all in Private. To avoid leaving them together in the night, sleep with them for atleast one month. That will keep them away. I am 15 girl.
I know this isn't the best place to ask for advice like this, but I don't really know what to do.I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?
This story is too ridiculous to be true, in my opinion.
Sadly, it just as well might be.
First, take your daughter to the doctor.
Then some MAJOR family counseling.
Possibly send them to different schools.
NO MORE sleeping in the same room. if at all possible, put them in different sides of the house.
Go to Church.
If anyone, your family needs it.
If you made this up, YOU need it more than ever.I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?
I hope you have talked to your wife about this she might have some insight on some of this. and then i would confront both of them ask them straight out whats going on don't forget to tell them you love them. dont let it go any longer. good luck
this is the second time you have posted this question.
you are the father! Get your head out of your *** and start acting like one! Get these kids into counseling,get your daughter to a Dr., take the doors off the bedroom, and why are you allowing this to happen, you need to regain control of your kids and your home!
Jerry Springer called, he wants you to make an appearance on his show.
You're not referring to the pitbull again are you? You little troll, don't you have homework or something to do? And isn't it past your bedtime?
If you're not a troll, I think you need to take your kids to a family counselor/psychologist to figure things out.
i think u better bring them for counselling.. to a psychiatrist... i know they're not crazy or have something wrong with their minds.. just for them to talk and express themselves freely.. and find out what seems to be bothering them...
You need to have a conversation w/ them RIGHT NOW! Obviously, something is going on in the household and/or school for them to be acting this way. Time to get down and dirty w/ your kids and nip this in the butt NOW! Also, if you cause conflict between you and your children, they may feel to continue this outside of the household.
thats disgusting... are they at least addopted?
i think you need serious professional help in your family
Why are you acting like a castrated father who has lost control over his kids? Take them to a counsellor and get yourself counselled too. Plus your wife/ partner...if you have one.
OMG! I would be opening that door, and having have a heart to heart with them and take her to the doctor to be checked out asap!
There definitely needs to be some family counseling going on here.
Well Frist off.. I wouldnt let them sleep in a room together there far to OLD for that.
2nd: Why are you still letting them stay in a room: Plus you should be opening that door. that is WRONG!
3rd: Is there mother around, what does she think you should do, Have you talked to her about it. I would talk to someone other then people on yahoo answers about this. You need a Doctor to talk to
4th: Talk to your children let them kno what you are thinking. and let them know that there FAR TO OLD to be acting like that.
I Hope this is a joke, because if its not you have a major problem on your hands.
It is your house!!. Why are you saying they are in their room with the door closed doing God knows what?!! Open the door and see what the heck they are doing. Let them know - not in your house. Unless you want a grandson who does know if daddy is uncle or daddy. Get some counseling for your children. Remember they are your children-they live in your house and should respect and follow your rules. Not saying they wont sneak but you can do something about what you do know about!! Take time cause no matter how important that meeting was your kids are even more important and they sound like they need your help not your friendship.
Well it sounds like your pretty clueless as to whats going on in your family so I taking you for the regular parent who works too much and ignores his children (or else you wouldnt be here all of the sudden... you would have been here way back when they moved into each others room).
So before you assume that your children are having sex with each other, lets take a look at this. You the parent are not an active parent in your children's life. You dont know sh*t about whats going on. Did you ever think that maybe your daughter was attacked and maybe raped by some guy while you werent home or at school or at a party or whatever, and the only one who knows is her brother? She's scared out of her mind, maybe it happened at night, and she cant sleep by herself, so she's moved into her brother's room because he knows what happened and he understands. And maybe those kids at school werent checking out his sister, maybe one of them was the guy who attacked your daughter... i trust you're getting all your info from the school and not your children. And if nothing else, your son was doing the brotherly thing, especially since im sure this group of teenaged boys probably werent like 'o yea man shes hot' and stare as she walks by... I bet it was more of 'baby why dont you come over here and I'll give you a reason to bend over...' who knows, maybe they grabed her *** or any other parts of her. Different story now isnt it?
Grow up and be a parent, get your daughter in to see a doctor, find out whats going on, get the police involved if she's been attacked and get your head out of the sand. And if your right, send your kids into councelling, and check yourself in with them. And dont let them sleep in the same bed together
Why, for God's sake, are you leaving them alone in a room together? I'd get her an abortion and military school him! Yuk!
OMG! That's awful! She needs to go to the doctor asap! If she is pregnant, she really needs to have an abortion. I do not really agree with abortion, but there's such a huge chance of problems with a child conceived out of incest. You need to bust down the door and confront them about it. No Mr. Nice Guy. You need to let them know that this is WAY wrong, and no more being in the same room with the door closed. You should probably even send one of them off for awhile. Maybe to a military school or a grandparent's house. Regardless of what you do, you need to let them know that you mean business!
First defeat all the latches in their rooms. It is not at all normal. A brother and sister shall have affection - not lust. You really have to open the subject and explain them why a relation should not be with in them. If you are not sure to convince them, take them to some one who can do it in your place. There are councilors available. One of my friend (16 yrs girl) had the same issue with her 17 yrs old bro. They decided to send the guy to college away from home. When the news came out, all the friends started looking at her like.... (you know what).... She is totally depressed and stopped schooling last year. Please do not allow such situation to your children. They have to grow yet and you need to do all in Private. To avoid leaving them together in the night, sleep with them for atleast one month. That will keep them away. I am 15 girl.
I am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks!
Remember, its whats in YOUR heart that matters. If you love him then who cares about the age. Age is just a number! Do it!! :-)I am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
it just ur S.E.X. GURL TAKE A DEEP BREATHE N THINK BE 4 U LET IT GO
CAUSE LIFES A TRIPI am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
wer, I see this too... the yonger woman look a old guy for safty,stronger figure,better live in the paticurar mode of confidens enter 2 persons and esperienses ...kiss...
I don't know what kind of advise you are seeking, but generally, women prefer their men to be older than themselves. They also, generally, prefer their men to be taller than themselves, as well.
Remember, its whats in YOUR heart that matters. If you love him then who cares about the age. Age is just a number! Do it!! :-)I am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
it just ur S.E.X. GURL TAKE A DEEP BREATHE N THINK BE 4 U LET IT GO
CAUSE LIFES A TRIPI am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
wer, I see this too... the yonger woman look a old guy for safty,stronger figure,better live in the paticurar mode of confidens enter 2 persons and esperienses ...kiss...
I don't know what kind of advise you are seeking, but generally, women prefer their men to be older than themselves. They also, generally, prefer their men to be taller than themselves, as well.
Are there any good books or websites that offer advice for men on dating and getting laid?
Why would you recommend them
Thank you very much :)Are there any good books or websites that offer advice for men on dating and getting laid?
To think that I wonder why women call us pigs.Are there any good books or websites that offer advice for men on dating and getting laid?
As a girl I wouldn't recommend a single one. They are written by guys that view all women as the same and think that they know everything.
Treat a girl with respect and you will get far. But far doesn't mean sex. If you are going after a girl just for sex, we can detect it. And it is a huge turn off.
Find a girl that you like, treat her well, let her know that you care and go from there.
yes go to interactplace.com and click on articles there is flirting advice and tips
Ubiation.com has some info on dating for you, also lots of products.
www.zanperrion.com
He also has some talks on YouTube. Good luck. You`ll be a stud by the time he`s done with you!
classy
are you that clueless
Thank you very much :)Are there any good books or websites that offer advice for men on dating and getting laid?
To think that I wonder why women call us pigs.Are there any good books or websites that offer advice for men on dating and getting laid?
As a girl I wouldn't recommend a single one. They are written by guys that view all women as the same and think that they know everything.
Treat a girl with respect and you will get far. But far doesn't mean sex. If you are going after a girl just for sex, we can detect it. And it is a huge turn off.
Find a girl that you like, treat her well, let her know that you care and go from there.
yes go to interactplace.com and click on articles there is flirting advice and tips
Ubiation.com has some info on dating for you, also lots of products.
www.zanperrion.com
He also has some talks on YouTube. Good luck. You`ll be a stud by the time he`s done with you!
classy
are you that clueless
I dont feel like a man. I need advice?
I'm 18 years old, athletic with a good diet and health. I have had two long term relationships and in each i have had erection problems. It works like this, during any type of foreplay i am very erect. but when i go to put on a condom or insert i simply go limp making insertion impossible. I've also lost my erection during as well. Or blown it prematurely. I suck prettyy much haha. My grilfriends have both been really understanding and my current girlfirend and i are extremly in love. She tells me not to worry, but it upsets me because i want her so bad and she wants us to be able to have sex as well. It really hurts me. My confidence otherwise is very high and i have a lot going well for me but i have tryed for monthes to find a solution. I have no pressure and im not nervous when i go to grab a condom but i still dont succeed. Im too young for this. I need some adviceI dont feel like a man. I need advice?
Honestly I'd have to say forget the floorplay an me the ideal bf. Then your erection problems cuz my bf did the same thing but after awhile once we became eachothers ';Match'; the erection problem fixed itself. Good Luck and I hope this helps you!~Alison~
OK this would be my IDEAL BOYFRIED.........ALL GUYS SHOULD READ!
Ladies: this will make you tear up :)
fellas: read it, all of it! :)
1-touch their waist
2-talk to her
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly
are you remembering this?
6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when you're with your friends
keep reading
11-smile with her
12-take pictures with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back
15-when her friends say I love her more than you deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can鈥檛 get to her friends. It makes her feel loved
are you thinking about someone?
16-always hug her and say I love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
19-tell her she鈥檚 beautiful not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!
20 u need to show her you mean it too
21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You buy HER stuff
23-tell her what feels good
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her stuff. small things can still help
we might deny it but we actually like and kind of want you to get us things
26-don't lie to her
27-dont cheat on her
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, %26amp; even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you
are you still reading this u better be its important
31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If she鈥檚 upset, comfort her
remember this next time you are with her
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHE鈥橲 LOVED
41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always Remind her how much you love her.
you鈥檒l never know when she needs just a little more love
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Some expectations of a good boyfriend
12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.
11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.
10) Kisses you every chance he gets.
9) Holds you close when your cold.
8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.
7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)
6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.
5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you.
4) When people diss you he stands up for you.
3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.
2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.
1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!)
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If you think the one you love is worried about you two having a relationship then do the following:
1. Relax. Dont think so much.
2. With the parents, speak only when you know exactly what you鈥檙e going to say and you know they will reply well to what you have said.
3. With the ex. If you think she鈥檚 still into him ask her. Dont be accusing though that could be bad. Say something like: if you say you like only me ill believe you I just want to hear it from you.
4. Good luck and dont forget to chill.
Here's a list out of my little black book. I hope it helps and Good Luck in your journey! ~Alison~I dont feel like a man. I need advice?
just keep your self up. think about what made you get horny and continue to think about that.
I don't think you're being truthful about being nervous. Or you could totally dislike the feeling of the condom. Which is really unfortunate because they're important! Maybe try a different brand of condom and see if that helps. Something is turning you off right when you're about to penetrate. Maybe you can try fantasizing? Just don't tell your girlfriend it isn't her that you're thinking about!!!!
Honestly I'd have to say forget the floorplay an me the ideal bf. Then your erection problems cuz my bf did the same thing but after awhile once we became eachothers ';Match'; the erection problem fixed itself. Good Luck and I hope this helps you!~Alison~
OK this would be my IDEAL BOYFRIED.........ALL GUYS SHOULD READ!
Ladies: this will make you tear up :)
fellas: read it, all of it! :)
1-touch their waist
2-talk to her
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly
are you remembering this?
6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when you're with your friends
keep reading
11-smile with her
12-take pictures with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back
15-when her friends say I love her more than you deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can鈥檛 get to her friends. It makes her feel loved
are you thinking about someone?
16-always hug her and say I love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
19-tell her she鈥檚 beautiful not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!
20 u need to show her you mean it too
21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You buy HER stuff
23-tell her what feels good
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her stuff. small things can still help
we might deny it but we actually like and kind of want you to get us things
26-don't lie to her
27-dont cheat on her
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, %26amp; even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you
are you still reading this u better be its important
31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If she鈥檚 upset, comfort her
remember this next time you are with her
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHE鈥橲 LOVED
41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always Remind her how much you love her.
you鈥檒l never know when she needs just a little more love
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Some expectations of a good boyfriend
12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.
11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.
10) Kisses you every chance he gets.
9) Holds you close when your cold.
8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.
7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)
6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.
5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you.
4) When people diss you he stands up for you.
3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.
2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.
1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!)
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If you think the one you love is worried about you two having a relationship then do the following:
1. Relax. Dont think so much.
2. With the parents, speak only when you know exactly what you鈥檙e going to say and you know they will reply well to what you have said.
3. With the ex. If you think she鈥檚 still into him ask her. Dont be accusing though that could be bad. Say something like: if you say you like only me ill believe you I just want to hear it from you.
4. Good luck and dont forget to chill.
Here's a list out of my little black book. I hope it helps and Good Luck in your journey! ~Alison~I dont feel like a man. I need advice?
just keep your self up. think about what made you get horny and continue to think about that.
I don't think you're being truthful about being nervous. Or you could totally dislike the feeling of the condom. Which is really unfortunate because they're important! Maybe try a different brand of condom and see if that helps. Something is turning you off right when you're about to penetrate. Maybe you can try fantasizing? Just don't tell your girlfriend it isn't her that you're thinking about!!!!
Calling all silly men.! I need advice on my man.?
My boyfriend is very silly and fun to be around.. I'm not too much of a ''creative'' person, so I need some fun and creative date ideas.... The more silly, the better !! C'mon help a girl out.. what kind of things do you really like to do?Calling all silly men.! I need advice on my man.?
Paint Ball is fun, but can hurt a lot after... :S
Today I went climbing up a mountain, that was really fun, also some romantic stops.
You could buy a big canvas and buy some water balloons but fill them up with paint, then tape them to the canvas all over and then get a dart with you and your boy friend and try and hit the paint balloons and once your done you will have a great memory to hang upon your wall. Fun times.
You could always build something together... Whether its a new desk you got or an old cubby house you never finished, but it always fun.
Hiking might be fun! Always good to get out and fresh air.
Theme parks might be fun too
Water balloon fight? hehe they are always great fun!
I hope these ideas are good, and you might consider or use them.
Good luck!!
鈾bbeyCalling all silly men.! I need advice on my man.?
gun range, golf range, concerts, or just get drunk thats always fun
i'm not silly, so i'm not qualify to answer....sorry
my b/f plays with me, keeps him straight.
Okay diamond_...,
Good Question. Here is what you do. Sit down, close your eyes and relax. Imagine that when you open your eyes there is someone in front of you waving there arms and making ';silly'; gestures in front of their body and in your direction. This is essentially what guys do. They will put things out there that are so grandiose and big that it distracts from what may be seen as mundane. Most people will look at what is right in front of them {ex. the waving arms, funny hand movements, etc}, but few people will bother to look past that and see what is going on closer to home. That is to say a lot of people will not bother to look at the face and notice the expression. Is it happy as the hands and arms suggest? Or is it sad, pensive, curious, unsure, etc... ? Sometimes folks aren't looking for someone to match what they can do (and why should they, they already have that covered.), sometimes they are looking for what complements what they already bring to the table. It is kinda like the saying everyone has baggage, look for someone who's baggage goes with yours. Don' t think you MUST change yourself to keep up. It could be that what you bring to the table is the perfect complement to what he already has.
If you still think that you need to be more exciting, well...that is hard to fake if you don't mean it. Go along for the ride (either figuratively or literally) and ask him to include you in on some of his ideas either for someone else (so you see his process in action), or for the both of you. Once you see his process and not just the end result you will have a better idea of weather this is something you think you will be truly interested in mimicking. Just remember some people are hunters, and some are gatherers. BUT, both are equally necessary. Hope that helps.
HAVE A DATE AT ZOO HE WILL ENJOY WITH OTHER ANIMALS AND YOU CAN SLEEP UNDER A TREE .
TOYS R US!!
there's so much fun stuff there, especially the bicycle section with the little ramps and stuff. The little house section is cool also.
My ex girl friend never wanted to go with me to Toys R Us, she was convinced it was ';immature'; and ';childish'; even though she admitted to being immature many times.
DAMN HER!!!
supermarket trolley races !
this is always fun.
then have a laugh together when you get kicked out.
PAint Ball GunZ....
BASeBAll GamE....
Water balloon Fight
Finger PAint(Each other)
Cookin' Classes or somethin'
ohh boxin' that sounds fun, not something that would sound great for a date but sounds fun.
sports game. local baseball/hockey/soccer team.
watch movies, go out for a drive, play cards, go for a walk, work out together, gossip, drink, sex, go window shopping
i like to wear a superman outfit, and have my girl wear mouse ears, ya know, like on the mickey mouse club. then we smear each other up with crunchy p=nut butter, add some whipped cream, turn the stereo up real loud to the ';battle hymn of the republic';, and the rest i cant say here.
Arey yaar then you must try PLANETORIUM.........itz really cool place to be...u will have a feeling of just being under the sky wid the one u luv...and also u can make it quite RoManTiC....
Whatever his interests are. You really need to pay attention to those. Do whatever he normally does with his friends or whatever, except do it alone with him.
how silly ? go to a themed restaurant ? hiring roller blades and a fairy out fit put him in a shopping trolley and push him through your local bottle shop buy him some beers go to the park and finish what you started?cosmetics
Paint Ball is fun, but can hurt a lot after... :S
Today I went climbing up a mountain, that was really fun, also some romantic stops.
You could buy a big canvas and buy some water balloons but fill them up with paint, then tape them to the canvas all over and then get a dart with you and your boy friend and try and hit the paint balloons and once your done you will have a great memory to hang upon your wall. Fun times.
You could always build something together... Whether its a new desk you got or an old cubby house you never finished, but it always fun.
Hiking might be fun! Always good to get out and fresh air.
Theme parks might be fun too
Water balloon fight? hehe they are always great fun!
I hope these ideas are good, and you might consider or use them.
Good luck!!
鈾bbeyCalling all silly men.! I need advice on my man.?
gun range, golf range, concerts, or just get drunk thats always fun
i'm not silly, so i'm not qualify to answer....sorry
my b/f plays with me, keeps him straight.
Okay diamond_...,
Good Question. Here is what you do. Sit down, close your eyes and relax. Imagine that when you open your eyes there is someone in front of you waving there arms and making ';silly'; gestures in front of their body and in your direction. This is essentially what guys do. They will put things out there that are so grandiose and big that it distracts from what may be seen as mundane. Most people will look at what is right in front of them {ex. the waving arms, funny hand movements, etc}, but few people will bother to look past that and see what is going on closer to home. That is to say a lot of people will not bother to look at the face and notice the expression. Is it happy as the hands and arms suggest? Or is it sad, pensive, curious, unsure, etc... ? Sometimes folks aren't looking for someone to match what they can do (and why should they, they already have that covered.), sometimes they are looking for what complements what they already bring to the table. It is kinda like the saying everyone has baggage, look for someone who's baggage goes with yours. Don' t think you MUST change yourself to keep up. It could be that what you bring to the table is the perfect complement to what he already has.
If you still think that you need to be more exciting, well...that is hard to fake if you don't mean it. Go along for the ride (either figuratively or literally) and ask him to include you in on some of his ideas either for someone else (so you see his process in action), or for the both of you. Once you see his process and not just the end result you will have a better idea of weather this is something you think you will be truly interested in mimicking. Just remember some people are hunters, and some are gatherers. BUT, both are equally necessary. Hope that helps.
HAVE A DATE AT ZOO HE WILL ENJOY WITH OTHER ANIMALS AND YOU CAN SLEEP UNDER A TREE .
TOYS R US!!
there's so much fun stuff there, especially the bicycle section with the little ramps and stuff. The little house section is cool also.
My ex girl friend never wanted to go with me to Toys R Us, she was convinced it was ';immature'; and ';childish'; even though she admitted to being immature many times.
DAMN HER!!!
supermarket trolley races !
this is always fun.
then have a laugh together when you get kicked out.
PAint Ball GunZ....
BASeBAll GamE....
Water balloon Fight
Finger PAint(Each other)
Cookin' Classes or somethin'
ohh boxin' that sounds fun, not something that would sound great for a date but sounds fun.
sports game. local baseball/hockey/soccer team.
watch movies, go out for a drive, play cards, go for a walk, work out together, gossip, drink, sex, go window shopping
i like to wear a superman outfit, and have my girl wear mouse ears, ya know, like on the mickey mouse club. then we smear each other up with crunchy p=nut butter, add some whipped cream, turn the stereo up real loud to the ';battle hymn of the republic';, and the rest i cant say here.
Arey yaar then you must try PLANETORIUM.........itz really cool place to be...u will have a feeling of just being under the sky wid the one u luv...and also u can make it quite RoManTiC....
Whatever his interests are. You really need to pay attention to those. Do whatever he normally does with his friends or whatever, except do it alone with him.
how silly ? go to a themed restaurant ? hiring roller blades and a fairy out fit put him in a shopping trolley and push him through your local bottle shop buy him some beers go to the park and finish what you started?
Need advice on dating a seperated man that still needs a divorce?
I have been dating a married but seperated man for about a year and a half. He also has 2 kids, 5 and 2. I've had nothing but stress in this relationship and he is extremely lazy. he lets everything in his life go including his car, has a crappy job and can barely afford to take care of his kids. He has had to move back in with his mother. Can this relationship really work or am i wasting my time?Need advice on dating a seperated man that still needs a divorce?
It sounds like you already know in your heart that this situation is problematic, which doesn't mean that this man is a good or bad person. You should be selective with who you spend your time and how you spend your time. Sure, everyone has problems but right off the bat you know this guy is still married. There's a reason why this relationship hasn't been legally determined. You mention that you have had ';nothing but stress in this relationship';--is this really how you envisioned a relationship? People who are married, especially with children, have a lot of ties and history. This situation would have more potential if he was at least divorced. Personally, I dated someone who was recently divorced. Generally speaking, guys don't sort and process things the way women do (we want closure darnit!) so it could take awhile for this man to be able to really look at his life and figure out what he wants. Don't just sit around waiting for him to get things together when Mr. Much-Closer-to-Perfect could be right around the corner.Need advice on dating a seperated man that still needs a divorce?
Where is your self respect?
Drop this loser and move on with your life.
You are most definitely wasting your time.
Ask yourself a question, do you really want to be with someone who is lazy, who leaves everything for you to do, who can barely support his kids? How is he going to support you? Do you want to be the one taking care of EVERYTHING? He's a grown man and he should act his age. Save yourself a lot of stress, time and misery and find someone who'll take care of you, and treat you like you deserve to be treated. Good Luck.
Now you know why his wife left him. He is so lazy and such a procratinator that he hasn't got a divorce, and so broke that can't even afford a lawyer or a place f his own.
He is a loser, drop him, there is no future here,. He is married and can't afford you. Don't keep on wasting time on this reject,.
Good luck
And what was it that attracted you to this loser? Wasn't the sex was it?
You sound as though you despise this man. Why are you dating him?
First of all, you should not be dating a married man - whatever the disposition is between him and his wife, the fact remains that he is married. In 5 lined of text, you called him lazy %26amp; stressful, with a crappy car %26amp; job who lives with his mom and can't take care of his kids. Why are you with him - he sounds like a LOSER! Dump him - plain %26amp; simple.
Rebound Loves, NEVER WORK. I'm Divorced,. And my first one didn't last. Look at making your future elsewhere.
You just answered your own question, move on and be happy, life's too short.Buy a book titled ';Women who love too much'; by the author Robin Norwood, empower yourself and only accept what you trully deserve out of life,never settle for second best.
It sounds like you already know in your heart that this situation is problematic, which doesn't mean that this man is a good or bad person. You should be selective with who you spend your time and how you spend your time. Sure, everyone has problems but right off the bat you know this guy is still married. There's a reason why this relationship hasn't been legally determined. You mention that you have had ';nothing but stress in this relationship';--is this really how you envisioned a relationship? People who are married, especially with children, have a lot of ties and history. This situation would have more potential if he was at least divorced. Personally, I dated someone who was recently divorced. Generally speaking, guys don't sort and process things the way women do (we want closure darnit!) so it could take awhile for this man to be able to really look at his life and figure out what he wants. Don't just sit around waiting for him to get things together when Mr. Much-Closer-to-Perfect could be right around the corner.Need advice on dating a seperated man that still needs a divorce?
Where is your self respect?
Drop this loser and move on with your life.
You are most definitely wasting your time.
Ask yourself a question, do you really want to be with someone who is lazy, who leaves everything for you to do, who can barely support his kids? How is he going to support you? Do you want to be the one taking care of EVERYTHING? He's a grown man and he should act his age. Save yourself a lot of stress, time and misery and find someone who'll take care of you, and treat you like you deserve to be treated. Good Luck.
Now you know why his wife left him. He is so lazy and such a procratinator that he hasn't got a divorce, and so broke that can't even afford a lawyer or a place f his own.
He is a loser, drop him, there is no future here,. He is married and can't afford you. Don't keep on wasting time on this reject,.
Good luck
And what was it that attracted you to this loser? Wasn't the sex was it?
You sound as though you despise this man. Why are you dating him?
First of all, you should not be dating a married man - whatever the disposition is between him and his wife, the fact remains that he is married. In 5 lined of text, you called him lazy %26amp; stressful, with a crappy car %26amp; job who lives with his mom and can't take care of his kids. Why are you with him - he sounds like a LOSER! Dump him - plain %26amp; simple.
Rebound Loves, NEVER WORK. I'm Divorced,. And my first one didn't last. Look at making your future elsewhere.
You just answered your own question, move on and be happy, life's too short.Buy a book titled ';Women who love too much'; by the author Robin Norwood, empower yourself and only accept what you trully deserve out of life,never settle for second best.
What kind of advice would a 18 yr.young man give to a new step parent coming into our home?
I have been a divorced mother for 18 yrs my son is 18 and I am getting married soon he'll be there for awhile until he decides to move out what advice would you give to him since there will be a step parent in the home and to the new husband i told my fiance you cant tell him what to do or get involved in the relationship between him and I unless i ask and it would be in the privacy of our room we can also talk all three of us but he is to be respectful to him if hes not happy he can move out anytime his feelings are importantWhat kind of advice would a 18 yr.young man give to a new step parent coming into our home?
I moved in with my fiancee (now husband) when my son was 19. It was decided by my fiancee and I that things would be discussed by the two of us before a final decision was made (just like we were already married). So, if my son wanted to do something that would normally require both parents to decide, my fiancee and I would discuss it first. I asked my son to show respect to my fiancee, and my fiancee to respect my son. We all lived together for 2 1/2 years before we married. Six months before we got married we set the ground rules regarding a time limit of how long he could live in the house with us. He moved out one month before his deadline. My son now loves his step-father like he was his own father, because my husband was there for him on a day to day basis helping him along life's path more than my ex ever did. I hope this helps.What kind of advice would a 18 yr.young man give to a new step parent coming into our home?
I think what you've done so far is a good start. I might word the ';if you're not happy, you can leave'; bit (although I know that isn't how you wrote it, it might sound that way to an 18 year old).
When I remarried, the only concern my oldest son (who has always said he wanted to live at home ';forever';) had was if he could ';still'; live at home for as long as he wanted with a new stepdad. My answer was yes (although he makes me question my sanity daily now that he's 16)....lol.
I think the important thing is that you remind your son (and maybe new husband) that you're all adults. Your son doesn't have to like your husband, but he has to respect him, simply because of the fact that you chose him. Your new husband in return, MUST realize that you and your son have a bond that will not be broken.
Good luck to you.
he need to show the new comer respect and your man needs to show him respect.that's the best i have good luck
I think you got it right. At 18 he should not have to start dealing with an authoritarian step-dad. He is a young adult and should be treated as one. Good luck.
Wonder how you can communicate in a 3-some if you can't even organize your thoughts here. Ask a 18 yr old to give advice to a new step parent?
Your son is now 18. He doesn't have to acknowledge the new guy as his STEP PARENT because technically he is not. The new guy marries his mom and that's about it. Your son doesn't have to call the guy Dad in any form because he needs no more parenting. All depends if you had asked your son for endorsement of the marriage.
And you gave the new guy 1/2 of the authority position in your house over your son and tell him what to do. You are setting up 2 men to butt head to be the alpha male of the house.
I moved in with my fiancee (now husband) when my son was 19. It was decided by my fiancee and I that things would be discussed by the two of us before a final decision was made (just like we were already married). So, if my son wanted to do something that would normally require both parents to decide, my fiancee and I would discuss it first. I asked my son to show respect to my fiancee, and my fiancee to respect my son. We all lived together for 2 1/2 years before we married. Six months before we got married we set the ground rules regarding a time limit of how long he could live in the house with us. He moved out one month before his deadline. My son now loves his step-father like he was his own father, because my husband was there for him on a day to day basis helping him along life's path more than my ex ever did. I hope this helps.What kind of advice would a 18 yr.young man give to a new step parent coming into our home?
I think what you've done so far is a good start. I might word the ';if you're not happy, you can leave'; bit (although I know that isn't how you wrote it, it might sound that way to an 18 year old).
When I remarried, the only concern my oldest son (who has always said he wanted to live at home ';forever';) had was if he could ';still'; live at home for as long as he wanted with a new stepdad. My answer was yes (although he makes me question my sanity daily now that he's 16)....lol.
I think the important thing is that you remind your son (and maybe new husband) that you're all adults. Your son doesn't have to like your husband, but he has to respect him, simply because of the fact that you chose him. Your new husband in return, MUST realize that you and your son have a bond that will not be broken.
Good luck to you.
he need to show the new comer respect and your man needs to show him respect.that's the best i have good luck
I think you got it right. At 18 he should not have to start dealing with an authoritarian step-dad. He is a young adult and should be treated as one. Good luck.
Wonder how you can communicate in a 3-some if you can't even organize your thoughts here. Ask a 18 yr old to give advice to a new step parent?
Your son is now 18. He doesn't have to acknowledge the new guy as his STEP PARENT because technically he is not. The new guy marries his mom and that's about it. Your son doesn't have to call the guy Dad in any form because he needs no more parenting. All depends if you had asked your son for endorsement of the marriage.
And you gave the new guy 1/2 of the authority position in your house over your son and tell him what to do. You are setting up 2 men to butt head to be the alpha male of the house.
What advice would you give a woman (or a man) who is being physically abused?
GET OUT. Find a friend, find a family member, find a shelter. JUST GET OUT.What advice would you give a woman (or a man) who is being physically abused?
GO TO THE POLICE AND GET HELP RIGHT AWAY.What advice would you give a woman (or a man) who is being physically abused?
That person needs to get out of the house. Ask them if they have a child. Would they place their child in a yard where a dangerous dog lives? They are doing that by staying in the same house as an abuser. There are shelters available for women and most people can find a friend or family member who they can stay with. The abuser needs serious help and the abused person needs to not go back to them until they get help...and maybe not even then.
to get some help with improving their sense of self-worth.
You don't deserve this. He may never stop. It doesn't matter how much you love him, you can't change him. You don't need a him. That sort of thing, though it rarely works.
for one you don't deserve to get hit you know you don't so take a stand and leave yes you love that person and they say i love you but they don't or they would not hit you so you need to get out go to the cops file a report and don't give in go all the way put that person in jail give them what they deserve
no one deserves that you are better than that
It's not worth it in the long run, nothing is ever going to change, it won't get better, stop being a voluntary victim.
GEt help run away from the person contact professional help
to leave that dangerous situation immediately. Every city has shelters that can help the person. Stay and you may never be able to leave. Abuse only gets worse. Seek help immediately
Talk to sumone who they can trust and get help from them!!! Friend and family r always the best but if they dun want to talk to them ..see a counsellor...
I'll throw in with get out. As soon as possible. Any larger city will have a number of resources available to the abused. No one should stay in such a situation.
Once out, call the cops.
well I was in this situation before, and he used to always say that he would change, and by now I have pretty much figured out that you can't change anyone. It still happened and I still stayed because i was in love and he made me feel like I couldn't do any better. But my advice is to get ouyt as soon as you can and don't ever for a minute think he is going to change, cuz he isn't. It will only get worse. After I left i realized that that was the happiest I have been for the last 5 years that I was with him, but it is really funny how I still miss the sex, lol
If they've done it once, they'll do it again. It is not your fault or anything that YOU have done wrong. You just need to ask yourself this question ';is this what I REALLY deserve?'; NO ONE DESERVES TO BE PHYSICALLY ABUSED!!!
first get out any way possible....friends, family, co worker, any one u can TRUST....then call the cops...and get that jack *** arrested for abuse or assault what ever it is called in the police lingo....u dont need ot be in that place at all
GO TO THE POLICE AND GET HELP RIGHT AWAY.What advice would you give a woman (or a man) who is being physically abused?
That person needs to get out of the house. Ask them if they have a child. Would they place their child in a yard where a dangerous dog lives? They are doing that by staying in the same house as an abuser. There are shelters available for women and most people can find a friend or family member who they can stay with. The abuser needs serious help and the abused person needs to not go back to them until they get help...and maybe not even then.
to get some help with improving their sense of self-worth.
You don't deserve this. He may never stop. It doesn't matter how much you love him, you can't change him. You don't need a him. That sort of thing, though it rarely works.
for one you don't deserve to get hit you know you don't so take a stand and leave yes you love that person and they say i love you but they don't or they would not hit you so you need to get out go to the cops file a report and don't give in go all the way put that person in jail give them what they deserve
no one deserves that you are better than that
It's not worth it in the long run, nothing is ever going to change, it won't get better, stop being a voluntary victim.
GEt help run away from the person contact professional help
to leave that dangerous situation immediately. Every city has shelters that can help the person. Stay and you may never be able to leave. Abuse only gets worse. Seek help immediately
Talk to sumone who they can trust and get help from them!!! Friend and family r always the best but if they dun want to talk to them ..see a counsellor...
I'll throw in with get out. As soon as possible. Any larger city will have a number of resources available to the abused. No one should stay in such a situation.
Once out, call the cops.
well I was in this situation before, and he used to always say that he would change, and by now I have pretty much figured out that you can't change anyone. It still happened and I still stayed because i was in love and he made me feel like I couldn't do any better. But my advice is to get ouyt as soon as you can and don't ever for a minute think he is going to change, cuz he isn't. It will only get worse. After I left i realized that that was the happiest I have been for the last 5 years that I was with him, but it is really funny how I still miss the sex, lol
If they've done it once, they'll do it again. It is not your fault or anything that YOU have done wrong. You just need to ask yourself this question ';is this what I REALLY deserve?'; NO ONE DESERVES TO BE PHYSICALLY ABUSED!!!
first get out any way possible....friends, family, co worker, any one u can TRUST....then call the cops...and get that jack *** arrested for abuse or assault what ever it is called in the police lingo....u dont need ot be in that place at all
ALL BROTHERS HELP A LOST BROTHER OUT PLESE. give me some bro to bro advice on chicks man?
when a girl says she is 'distressed and not very impressed', when you say you are 'feeling great'.
this girl used to like me. she said this on myspaceALL BROTHERS HELP A LOST BROTHER OUT PLESE. give me some bro to bro advice on chicks man?
It means she thinks you are FOS.ALL BROTHERS HELP A LOST BROTHER OUT PLESE. give me some bro to bro advice on chicks man?
women are beyond confusing. you can be married 40 years and 40 nights without really knowin what is going on in their head
UR SCKREWED
SORRY BRA
this girl used to like me. she said this on myspaceALL BROTHERS HELP A LOST BROTHER OUT PLESE. give me some bro to bro advice on chicks man?
It means she thinks you are FOS.ALL BROTHERS HELP A LOST BROTHER OUT PLESE. give me some bro to bro advice on chicks man?
women are beyond confusing. you can be married 40 years and 40 nights without really knowin what is going on in their head
UR SCKREWED
SORRY BRA
I am a strait man, i need hair advice.. cause face it we suck :D?
im looking to cut my hair more scene like, any good ideas?I am a strait man, i need hair advice.. cause face it we suck :D?
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I like this.. Its not too scene.. And it looks like he doesnt spend too much time doing it..
It looks hot.
:) xI am a strait man, i need hair advice.. cause face it we suck :D?
have it like zac effron if ur hairs long enough or short and spikey
I'm too old to even know what you are talking about. Scene??
i am a strait man, yeah sure
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I like this.. Its not too scene.. And it looks like he doesnt spend too much time doing it..
It looks hot.
:) xI am a strait man, i need hair advice.. cause face it we suck :D?
have it like zac effron if ur hairs long enough or short and spikey
I'm too old to even know what you are talking about. Scene??
i am a strait man, yeah sure
Please help - I need your advice on this man...
I stupidly had an affair with a married man which ended a year ago and although for a while we remained friends, (only speaking on the phone) I decided in April of this year to stop all contact in order for both of us to get on with our lives.
He seems to text me once a month, saying 'not a day goes by when he does not think about me' and 'he would love me to get in touch', so far I have deleted his texts and have no intention of making further contact.
Thing is, I am beggining to wonder how long this will continue, I love my husband and made a mistake and now I want to work on my marriage and feel this other guy should be doing the same.
Do I continue to ignore him or ring and ask him to not contact me further?
I know I was completely in the wrong to start this affair, so please no telling me what a silly cow I have been.Please help - I need your advice on this man...
You need to have a new phone number for starters. Also you need to not have any contact with him whatsoever. He probably feels that you got involved with him once so it should be easy for him to talk you into it again!! If you call him to ask him to not contact you he just may think it's because you are vulnerable and can't resist him. Just cut all ties. It's nice that you are trying to work on your marriage but it's probably stressful as well with this guy texting you and you having to try and keep everything from the affair quiet. Good Luck.Please help - I need your advice on this man...
I don't think there's too much you can do. I'm glad that you've come to your senses tho :) People make mistakes and we pay for them. You are now paying for yours unfortunately. I would continue to ignore his texts, think about changing your number. If he lives in the same town, you need to think about possibly running into him somewhere. That's something really hard to keep from your husband. You may even want to think about coming clean. I wish you the best.
I would call him and reiterate your need and want to be with your husband.
I would nicely ask him to stop calling because you are trying to put this period behind you.
Hopefully he is not a stalker and calls your husband. You may have to be honest with your husband and confess, as you may need his help to get rid of this guy if he does not stop calling.
The next time he texts you, text him back telling him to ';STOP IT';! Let it clearly be known to him that it is OVER. Tell him that your in love with your husband and your working hard at your marriage now. Tell him that he is the last person you will ever have an affair with and just tell him it was plain stupid on your part to have pursued it.
i would block his number on your cell. does he know where you live? does he know where you work? i ask this because hell sometimes has no fury like a psycho scorned. he might drive by your job, your house, or decide to narc you out to your husband. you might want to prepare for that fact or consider coming clean. it's gonna be better coming from you, than from your husband hearing intimate details of the sex with you, from this other guy.
If you ring him, he will get you all fuzzed up again. Ignore him. If possible, ';loose'; your cell phone and get a new one. But please, don't talk to him ever again. He had a way of talking himself into your life, and he can do it again in a heartbeat. Don't risk it.
You were a silly Cow. Does your husband know? Maybe you should tell him. Do you love this other guy or was it just about the sex? If you know what you want go for it but don't lead your husband to believe that you really meant the vows you stated on your wedding day when you don't.
Keep deleting his messages %26amp; ring your mobile provider today and ask for a new number. They do it for free. If you hubby asks why you changed the number, say you kept getting junk texts and stuff on it - premium rate ones etc and you don't know why.
:)
Lets be honest: **** happens. I would say, you write him a goodbye message saying like you wanna live your life and he should live his or so... If you really feel like he's stalking you, tell your husband. If he loves you, he'll understand and help you out of this mess.
simple...change ur no. and all the communicable details and have a deep sigh of relief..dun ever answer up any of texts or calls..sure u will change ur mind if u start to listen him....sobe awre of it..nd try not to do the same mistak again...
How ridiculous ! ...... get yourself a new ID
so he can't make anymore calls to you, do what you
have to , to get this with your other phone and make some
excuse.
What you need to do is block his # Completely!
I hope you told your Husband about your Affair!
just ignore him. any contact with him is just going to give him a glimmer of hope that he can get with you again. focus on your relationship with your husband
block his number or change yours, make no more contact with him leave him in your past, good luck
JUST TOTALLY IGNORE HIM. plus on the off chance your hubby doesn't know and you think this man may decide to let your hubby know if he doesn't already some howI would fill hiim in if he doesn't know and he finds out through someone else that may cause bigger problems but on the same hand if you tell him yourself it will still cause problems but maybe not as bad if he did hear it from someone else, or if he doesn't know you could go down the roadand not say anything hoping everything will be fine and the man won't take it any furthercosmetics
He seems to text me once a month, saying 'not a day goes by when he does not think about me' and 'he would love me to get in touch', so far I have deleted his texts and have no intention of making further contact.
Thing is, I am beggining to wonder how long this will continue, I love my husband and made a mistake and now I want to work on my marriage and feel this other guy should be doing the same.
Do I continue to ignore him or ring and ask him to not contact me further?
I know I was completely in the wrong to start this affair, so please no telling me what a silly cow I have been.Please help - I need your advice on this man...
You need to have a new phone number for starters. Also you need to not have any contact with him whatsoever. He probably feels that you got involved with him once so it should be easy for him to talk you into it again!! If you call him to ask him to not contact you he just may think it's because you are vulnerable and can't resist him. Just cut all ties. It's nice that you are trying to work on your marriage but it's probably stressful as well with this guy texting you and you having to try and keep everything from the affair quiet. Good Luck.Please help - I need your advice on this man...
I don't think there's too much you can do. I'm glad that you've come to your senses tho :) People make mistakes and we pay for them. You are now paying for yours unfortunately. I would continue to ignore his texts, think about changing your number. If he lives in the same town, you need to think about possibly running into him somewhere. That's something really hard to keep from your husband. You may even want to think about coming clean. I wish you the best.
I would call him and reiterate your need and want to be with your husband.
I would nicely ask him to stop calling because you are trying to put this period behind you.
Hopefully he is not a stalker and calls your husband. You may have to be honest with your husband and confess, as you may need his help to get rid of this guy if he does not stop calling.
The next time he texts you, text him back telling him to ';STOP IT';! Let it clearly be known to him that it is OVER. Tell him that your in love with your husband and your working hard at your marriage now. Tell him that he is the last person you will ever have an affair with and just tell him it was plain stupid on your part to have pursued it.
i would block his number on your cell. does he know where you live? does he know where you work? i ask this because hell sometimes has no fury like a psycho scorned. he might drive by your job, your house, or decide to narc you out to your husband. you might want to prepare for that fact or consider coming clean. it's gonna be better coming from you, than from your husband hearing intimate details of the sex with you, from this other guy.
If you ring him, he will get you all fuzzed up again. Ignore him. If possible, ';loose'; your cell phone and get a new one. But please, don't talk to him ever again. He had a way of talking himself into your life, and he can do it again in a heartbeat. Don't risk it.
You were a silly Cow. Does your husband know? Maybe you should tell him. Do you love this other guy or was it just about the sex? If you know what you want go for it but don't lead your husband to believe that you really meant the vows you stated on your wedding day when you don't.
Keep deleting his messages %26amp; ring your mobile provider today and ask for a new number. They do it for free. If you hubby asks why you changed the number, say you kept getting junk texts and stuff on it - premium rate ones etc and you don't know why.
:)
Lets be honest: **** happens. I would say, you write him a goodbye message saying like you wanna live your life and he should live his or so... If you really feel like he's stalking you, tell your husband. If he loves you, he'll understand and help you out of this mess.
simple...change ur no. and all the communicable details and have a deep sigh of relief..dun ever answer up any of texts or calls..sure u will change ur mind if u start to listen him....sobe awre of it..nd try not to do the same mistak again...
How ridiculous ! ...... get yourself a new ID
so he can't make anymore calls to you, do what you
have to , to get this with your other phone and make some
excuse.
What you need to do is block his # Completely!
I hope you told your Husband about your Affair!
just ignore him. any contact with him is just going to give him a glimmer of hope that he can get with you again. focus on your relationship with your husband
block his number or change yours, make no more contact with him leave him in your past, good luck
JUST TOTALLY IGNORE HIM. plus on the off chance your hubby doesn't know and you think this man may decide to let your hubby know if he doesn't already some howI would fill hiim in if he doesn't know and he finds out through someone else that may cause bigger problems but on the same hand if you tell him yourself it will still cause problems but maybe not as bad if he did hear it from someone else, or if he doesn't know you could go down the roadand not say anything hoping everything will be fine and the man won't take it any further
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