I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?

Well, let's just say I'm in a bit of a dilemma. Recently I've realized that both of my children are being bf and gf to each other. My 15 year old daughter has been acting very clingy towards her brother, and my 17 year old son has been fiercely protective of his sister. They've even insisted on sleeping in the same room, in the same bed and in addition I suspect my son has gotten his own sister pregnant because she's been feeling sick in the morning and having odd cravings. Earlier today my son had gotten into a fight at school over some guys who were apparently checking out his sister. I had to excuse myself from an important meeting at work to have a parent teacher conference about his fight. Right now they're in their room with their door closed doing God knows what.





I know this isn't the best place to ask for advice like this, but I don't really know what to do.I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?
This story is too ridiculous to be true, in my opinion.





Sadly, it just as well might be.


First, take your daughter to the doctor.


Then some MAJOR family counseling.


Possibly send them to different schools.


NO MORE sleeping in the same room. if at all possible, put them in different sides of the house.


Go to Church.


If anyone, your family needs it.


If you made this up, YOU need it more than ever.I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?
I hope you have talked to your wife about this she might have some insight on some of this. and then i would confront both of them ask them straight out whats going on don't forget to tell them you love them. dont let it go any longer. good luck
this is the second time you have posted this question.
you are the father! Get your head out of your *** and start acting like one! Get these kids into counseling,get your daughter to a Dr., take the doors off the bedroom, and why are you allowing this to happen, you need to regain control of your kids and your home!
Jerry Springer called, he wants you to make an appearance on his show.
You're not referring to the pitbull again are you? You little troll, don't you have homework or something to do? And isn't it past your bedtime?
If you're not a troll, I think you need to take your kids to a family counselor/psychologist to figure things out.
i think u better bring them for counselling.. to a psychiatrist... i know they're not crazy or have something wrong with their minds.. just for them to talk and express themselves freely.. and find out what seems to be bothering them...
You need to have a conversation w/ them RIGHT NOW! Obviously, something is going on in the household and/or school for them to be acting this way. Time to get down and dirty w/ your kids and nip this in the butt NOW! Also, if you cause conflict between you and your children, they may feel to continue this outside of the household.
thats disgusting... are they at least addopted?


i think you need serious professional help in your family
Why are you acting like a castrated father who has lost control over his kids? Take them to a counsellor and get yourself counselled too. Plus your wife/ partner...if you have one.
OMG! I would be opening that door, and having have a heart to heart with them and take her to the doctor to be checked out asap!


There definitely needs to be some family counseling going on here.
Well Frist off.. I wouldnt let them sleep in a room together there far to OLD for that.





2nd: Why are you still letting them stay in a room: Plus you should be opening that door. that is WRONG!





3rd: Is there mother around, what does she think you should do, Have you talked to her about it. I would talk to someone other then people on yahoo answers about this. You need a Doctor to talk to





4th: Talk to your children let them kno what you are thinking. and let them know that there FAR TO OLD to be acting like that.





I Hope this is a joke, because if its not you have a major problem on your hands.
It is your house!!. Why are you saying they are in their room with the door closed doing God knows what?!! Open the door and see what the heck they are doing. Let them know - not in your house. Unless you want a grandson who does know if daddy is uncle or daddy. Get some counseling for your children. Remember they are your children-they live in your house and should respect and follow your rules. Not saying they wont sneak but you can do something about what you do know about!! Take time cause no matter how important that meeting was your kids are even more important and they sound like they need your help not your friendship.
Well it sounds like your pretty clueless as to whats going on in your family so I taking you for the regular parent who works too much and ignores his children (or else you wouldnt be here all of the sudden... you would have been here way back when they moved into each others room).


So before you assume that your children are having sex with each other, lets take a look at this. You the parent are not an active parent in your children's life. You dont know sh*t about whats going on. Did you ever think that maybe your daughter was attacked and maybe raped by some guy while you werent home or at school or at a party or whatever, and the only one who knows is her brother? She's scared out of her mind, maybe it happened at night, and she cant sleep by herself, so she's moved into her brother's room because he knows what happened and he understands. And maybe those kids at school werent checking out his sister, maybe one of them was the guy who attacked your daughter... i trust you're getting all your info from the school and not your children. And if nothing else, your son was doing the brotherly thing, especially since im sure this group of teenaged boys probably werent like 'o yea man shes hot' and stare as she walks by... I bet it was more of 'baby why dont you come over here and I'll give you a reason to bend over...' who knows, maybe they grabed her *** or any other parts of her. Different story now isnt it?


Grow up and be a parent, get your daughter in to see a doctor, find out whats going on, get the police involved if she's been attacked and get your head out of the sand. And if your right, send your kids into councelling, and check yourself in with them. And dont let them sleep in the same bed together
Why, for God's sake, are you leaving them alone in a room together? I'd get her an abortion and military school him! Yuk!
OMG! That's awful! She needs to go to the doctor asap! If she is pregnant, she really needs to have an abortion. I do not really agree with abortion, but there's such a huge chance of problems with a child conceived out of incest. You need to bust down the door and confront them about it. No Mr. Nice Guy. You need to let them know that this is WAY wrong, and no more being in the same room with the door closed. You should probably even send one of them off for awhile. Maybe to a military school or a grandparent's house. Regardless of what you do, you need to let them know that you mean business!
First defeat all the latches in their rooms. It is not at all normal. A brother and sister shall have affection - not lust. You really have to open the subject and explain them why a relation should not be with in them. If you are not sure to convince them, take them to some one who can do it in your place. There are councilors available. One of my friend (16 yrs girl) had the same issue with her 17 yrs old bro. They decided to send the guy to college away from home. When the news came out, all the friends started looking at her like.... (you know what).... She is totally depressed and stopped schooling last year. Please do not allow such situation to your children. They have to grow yet and you need to do all in Private. To avoid leaving them together in the night, sleep with them for atleast one month. That will keep them away. I am 15 girl.