Need advice on dating a seperated man that still needs a divorce?

I have been dating a married but seperated man for about a year and a half. He also has 2 kids, 5 and 2. I've had nothing but stress in this relationship and he is extremely lazy. he lets everything in his life go including his car, has a crappy job and can barely afford to take care of his kids. He has had to move back in with his mother. Can this relationship really work or am i wasting my time?Need advice on dating a seperated man that still needs a divorce?
It sounds like you already know in your heart that this situation is problematic, which doesn't mean that this man is a good or bad person. You should be selective with who you spend your time and how you spend your time. Sure, everyone has problems but right off the bat you know this guy is still married. There's a reason why this relationship hasn't been legally determined. You mention that you have had ';nothing but stress in this relationship';--is this really how you envisioned a relationship? People who are married, especially with children, have a lot of ties and history. This situation would have more potential if he was at least divorced. Personally, I dated someone who was recently divorced. Generally speaking, guys don't sort and process things the way women do (we want closure darnit!) so it could take awhile for this man to be able to really look at his life and figure out what he wants. Don't just sit around waiting for him to get things together when Mr. Much-Closer-to-Perfect could be right around the corner.Need advice on dating a seperated man that still needs a divorce?
Where is your self respect?
Drop this loser and move on with your life.
You are most definitely wasting your time.
Ask yourself a question, do you really want to be with someone who is lazy, who leaves everything for you to do, who can barely support his kids? How is he going to support you? Do you want to be the one taking care of EVERYTHING? He's a grown man and he should act his age. Save yourself a lot of stress, time and misery and find someone who'll take care of you, and treat you like you deserve to be treated. Good Luck.
Now you know why his wife left him. He is so lazy and such a procratinator that he hasn't got a divorce, and so broke that can't even afford a lawyer or a place f his own.





He is a loser, drop him, there is no future here,. He is married and can't afford you. Don't keep on wasting time on this reject,.





Good luck
And what was it that attracted you to this loser? Wasn't the sex was it?
You sound as though you despise this man. Why are you dating him?





First of all, you should not be dating a married man - whatever the disposition is between him and his wife, the fact remains that he is married. In 5 lined of text, you called him lazy %26amp; stressful, with a crappy car %26amp; job who lives with his mom and can't take care of his kids. Why are you with him - he sounds like a LOSER! Dump him - plain %26amp; simple.
Rebound Loves, NEVER WORK. I'm Divorced,. And my first one didn't last. Look at making your future elsewhere.
You just answered your own question, move on and be happy, life's too short.Buy a book titled ';Women who love too much'; by the author Robin Norwood, empower yourself and only accept what you trully deserve out of life,never settle for second best.