to make his wife happy?
p.s.
I seen many men who claimed to understand the woman, but most of them really don't.
i myself is divorced .. but still got big hopes : )Ladies: Whats the best advice would you give to a man?
Don't take your wife for granted.. Help with chores without being asked. Make her feel like she is the sexiest women to you. Listen to her. Try and remain good humored and happy through the rough stuff. Find out what stresses her out and try not to do those things. She will in turn make you happy.
Best of Luck to You!Ladies: Whats the best advice would you give to a man?
DON'T CHEAT!!! DON'T check out other women right in front of your wife/girlfriend/fiance!!!~ even if you think their not watching because they are...they know when something tempting is about to cross your path and they find a way to see you check her out whether by looking straight at you, out of the corner of her eye, or thru a reflection. Most of all DON'T LIE--no matter how small or large the situation is that you're lying about, we always find out when you're lying and once a woman catches you lying she can't ever trust you again after that and there goes the relationship because you can't have a relationship without trust!
Make her feel that she is the most Beautiful woman in your eyes. Make sure you are faithful, loving, honest, helpful and her best friend. Make sure you are satisfying her to the fullest in and out of the bedroom. Being a great lover is a biggie. Help her around the house. It should be a 50/50 relationship. Communication is the key to a happy marriage.
A woman wants the world to revolve around her. Always keep that in mind. There's no simple formula but keep your eye open for chances to make her feel like she's on a pedestal. This can be as simple as asking what she thinks and taking her advice. Do it without making a show of it, naturally so it seems sincere. Remember we're not as oblivious to little things as you guys are so be subtle.
Also remember that we care what other people think more than you do so look to attack the problem indirectly through her friends. If her friends think you're great, so will she. Remember that if you say something good about her to one of her friends it will reach her ears eventually. Just a simple comment about her looks or smarts or talents.
Good luck!
1) Ask her what she wants.
2) Listen to what she tells you.
3) Follow through.
Woman really aren't that difficult to get. Most women will honestly tell you what they want you just have to be open enough to listen, then act on what you have heard. Many men are lazy when it comes to follow through. When you are dating someone you know how to woo them, just keep that up once your in a relationship never get to complacent or too comfortable.
my husband makes me very happy and the craziest thing is its the little things he does and he always has since we first got together.. most mens main problem is they dont realize that whatever it was about them that made the women attracted to them in the first place sometimes they change and the women dont like who they turned into...my husband before we were married would take me out every to dinner every thurs. night and we would go to the movies every other sat. even if there was no movie we wanted to see he will surprise me at work with cards and flowers and i never know when there going to come and the messages he has on them always makes me feel like im the only women in the world well anyway ive been with now for 4 years and i dont plan on giving him up for anything... I HOPE THIS HELPS
to listen to the, to really sit down and listen to them. and help around the house, with the kids. and make family night out. one day a week to forget the madness, no matter if your fighting or not. to have a family day out. most woman like flowers, but, they really want is someone to have fun with and to be able to talk to them and they actually answerer back. and if they are a busy couple date night is so important. words are words and sometimes cheap, show it.
For starters..
don't be a jerk,
be a gentleman,
show good manners,
be respectful %26amp; responsible,
show affection,
compliment your woman,
be faithful,
be generous,
don't annoy her,
don't abuse (physically, mentally, sexually) her,
don't make her your personal slave,
support her or help her financially if she needs you,
don't be an alcoholic,
kick out your addictions,
don't get a jerk for a friend,
don't stay in touch with other women,
don't come home late after work without a good excuse,
don't disrespect her family,
respect her hobbies,
don't throw away her things without permission,
don't be rude,
never give up,
don't spend your money unwisely,
don't talk bad about her,
don't flirt,
only watch porn together,
do things for the family,
make her breakfast, lunch or dinner sometimes,
be romantic,
send her roses,
don't treat her like your daughter,
don't forget to satisfy her,
don't be monster sometimes,
take her to new places,
spend time talking to her,
listen to her suggestions,
respect her space %26amp; things,
show her you care,
kiss her everyday at least 3 times a day,
tell her how much you love her,
plan things to do,
don't have special girlfriends,
work on things together,
tell her how you feel,
share your thoughts and plans,
decide on future plans together,
let her make important decisions too,
do chores around the house for her that are manly,
help her when she's in trouble,
don't speak for her,
please her in the bedroom,
LOVE her...
Listen, really listen and she will tell you what she needs from you to be happy. There is no one answer for every woman, we are all different. We have different needs, emotions, desires. We view love differently. Love her the way she needs to be loved:physically, emotionally mentally.
It may be corny but I think this song says it all: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01geJOKowgk
Love her sincerely and understand her and her feelings, vice versa 2 and den build your relationship on trust, love, understanding. Inshallah your future holds a amazing wife, have patience and pray to allah (swt) to bless you with a wonderful wife.
try your very best to understand that we run on hormones we sometimes can not control all of our feelings/emotions so show patience and understanding. were doing our best! we expect men to do there best too. think about things before you say them,and put yourself in our shoe's for every situation! good luck to you!
When my husband takes the time to listen to me, talk to me, share with me, and be with me. We have our space and space together. We respect each others space and each other. We fight at times and yet we take time out and then talk things out. With this we stay very intimate and close and he has truly become my best friend.
Support her in every way that she needs. Emotionally, physically, and mentally. Try as hard as you can to be her equal. Ask questions. Point things out that you find interesting, and discover what interests her, and learn to know, and try to love, those interests.
ok my best advice is to make them feel really special, flowers ect... and to give them no worry or anything that you have eyes for anyone else!!! different people like different things but i like people with a good sense of humour, charming but doesnt flirt with other people, and confident :D
good luck!!
be faithful, dont try to fix our feelings, just validate them, and pick up around the house without being told.
these are obviously very general. it would very from woman to woman, man to man.
Be a best friend. Literally.
Male enhancement like that guy Bob on TV all the women envy his wife.
the same you had to do to win her over in the begginning you will need to keep doing to keep her happy
Get a good education.
Make a lot of money.
Be honest. Be nice, but be yourself! Then she will love you for you, all your good and bad qualities.
Be faithful :)
By giving her lots and lots of money.
respect her
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