Does anyone understand me, please help any advice appreciated, man trouble ='(?

Well Ive not had a boyfriend for 13 years (when I was in primary school and it dosnt exactly matter), I've always been dead insecure about myself and about saying the right things to fit in, anyway there's a man I've met and really fallen in the deep with, he's just so perfect for me and I feel I totally understand him and we're so compatible, he's definately single but a bit of a womaniser and a flirt, when I'm with him and we're having a chat I see deeper than that front he puts on and see a man who who is passionate about the things her does and music, he dosnt know how I feel about him and I'm so clumsy and unexperienced I really dint know what to do or say, I'd hate to loose him to some other woman who didn't love him as much as me or understand him, please help me, I really appreciate it, xxxxxxDoes anyone understand me, please help any advice appreciated, man trouble ='(?
As shy as you are (and believe me I know shy) just try to subtly get in his personal space. Lean a little closer to him when you talk and even closer when he talks. Once you are into his personal space just look in his eyes and don't flinch. If he doesn't move on you then slightly brush his arm or whatever other body part you are close to. Oh yeah, don't forget to smile in his eyes!Does anyone understand me, please help any advice appreciated, man trouble ='(?
wear wool and make a baaaaaing noise.. he'll love you forever.. yakki da!
Ok, this means you are 14 and have met a man who is after you.


Welcome to puberty.


There is no man on the planet perfect for a 14-year-old inexperienced girl.


If he is older than 17, he is a pedophile. No matter how perfect he is, he is a user and abuser FIRST.Stay away from him.


If you aren't 14, you sound 14. Same thing.


Some guys will SAY ANYTHING to get your drawers off. If he is a womanizer and a flirt, he is not interested in YOU as a person, but as a thing to overcome/ a trophy.


RUN!Unless you want to end of feeling like trash.


If you are dead insecure about yourself-you do not need


a womanizing jerk to make you feel better about yourself. You need to do some personal homework. You need to learn to accept yourself and love your body. You need to understand that everyone is insecure about something. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses.


You do not need a guy to buck you up


Meditate, exercise, eat well, develop your brain, find a PASSION of your own-not some stupid man, but YOUR OWN LIFE. Do you like animals? Become a vet.


You like dancing? Become a critic.


You like baking? Open a bakery.


You like money, take accounting.


As you grow up and embrace your own contribution to the world, you will find a MAN who is interested in YOU-all of you- and you MIGHT LET HIM IN. Or not!


You won't be in the position of taking what he wants to give you.


I wish I could save you from the pain you are going to experience by letting some man give you your sense of self --value. If he gives it, he can take it away, and what have you got?


Him, him, him///do you hear yourself? Where are you? Who are you?


Good luck, hon.
You must tell him. Its time to take a chance my friend. You'll kick yourself if you dont
Well shy gal...the only way you will kill 2 birds with one stone is to bed him!...yoI'll soon find out what he really wanted...and secondly...u'll get out of your shyness in that area of life...go on..have fun..but don't get toooo emotionally involved till you are sure about this womaniser
if you don t tell him your feelings he wont understand what your feelings and you wont understand his either
You are never going to know how he feels unless you talk to him about it. Hiding it will never get you anywhere. If he feels the same, great. If not, you will get over him with time. Besides, if he really is such a flirt, it is hard to break men of that habit. Analise things a bit but don't be to quick to judgment, it could mean nothing and be harmless.
first of all: be yourself. Forget about your fears, about the way u talk or act- it doesn't matter as much as being yourself.it means you will appear in front of him like a unusual personality as many others will play the game of being attractive.i would say it often fails to be the right one.





Let's say, you are trying to say very nice things and play like a marionette in front of him; but can u realize that is he is a little smart he will see just a simple mask, a think u can see every day.


Eventually, being yourself, u will appear as unique,as a pink flamingo in a crowd of pinguins:)


wish u good luck.
try going out on a ';romantic style '; dinner and wine and see how it goes ?


if he doesnt ';pounce '; on you by then, he is probabaly not interested !
Awww. That is so sweet. Hmmm. I guess, if you really think that you could be together, try waiting a little bit. You said he was a flirt, maybe he's just playing with that girl or something. But when that guy respects you %26amp; treats you very special, maybe you guys will really fit together. Push a little more effort in knowing this guy. Get him closer to you by inviting him in a lunch, or asking him to go watch a movie. You can do it! Just hang on a little more %26amp; when the right time comes, he'll be yours =)
Just straight up and tell him how you feel.


It's time to step up, your going to have to do it sometime or another.


If you stumble/stutter he will probably think it's just cute!


If he is as good as a guy as you have made him sound, he will be gentle.


What's the worst he can say, he can't.


Just tell him how you feel.


You got to do it sometime,


Good luck!!
just go for it honey, by the sound of it he may feel the same way as you do. you have to tell him how you feel or you'll go crazy, i came out of a very bad relationship didn't feel if i wanted to know any man then don't ya know it i meet someone who was perfect for me, i prowled around him for months got to know him as i friend 1st then thought why the hell not, told him how i felt that, i loved him etc............. he told me he felt the same! now we live together have a beautiful daughter and I'm going to ask him to marry me next year(leap yr) that's if he doesn't beat me to it tho! good luck my fingers are crossed for you xxx
Well if you feel so strong about it what are you waiting for? if you say nothing to him then he meets some one else you may regret it for the rest of ur life...... However if you think he is a womaniser im unsure of why you want him so bad, unless its just ur sure u can change him (which btw u cant) anyway u just need to let ur feelings be known to this guy and let him know that u wont tollerate his womanising ways and that he should be sure of what he wants from the relationship b4 he commits his self....... or else lol. good luck with it all hope it goes the way u want.
Be yourself is the main thing.Take it slowly .Tell him that you find it interesting to talk to him and enjoy his company,buy admit you are a shy person as there is nothing wrong in that.See what his reaction is but dont fall in love to much and jump in to fast.Be honest with him as men apprciate that.You have been without a boyfriend for so long and this may seem so good.Try to find out what he is looking for friend/girlfriend Be interested in what he does and tell him you understand that. Dont get hurt though.You have a crush,but how does he see you
Why not just come out and tell him? I you have taken your time and gotten to know him and put some time into making sure it would work then I don't see why jumping in now isn't a good idea, especially if you have gotten close.





There is always one point where you have to put all your cards on the table so to speak and when you do it can either turn out great i he likes you to or it can be that he only wants to be friends. But if you never ask him then you will never know.





Wait until you have some time together alone and tell him you really like him and see what he says, you don't have to tell him you are paranoid of another women taking him just tell him how you feel. If you don't someone else will eventually.
I understand your need to want to be with one some one special,


but you really need to look at the possibilities , that it is not meant to be, just be your self and be nice around him drop subtle hints and pray, but if it is not meant to be then it will not.
Why don't you open up to him and tell him how you feel. We are in the millenium so you can't expect to let him figure it out. Now a days we women go for what we want. If you don't someone else will. tell him that you have feelings for him, a lot of feelings for him. tell him what you like about him and while you're at it tell him what you don't.
OI! you're british right? take your time try to think of a way you can telll him about how you feel, it wont come out perfect no matter how you try, but its ok, because if he feels a bit of the same way as you do, he will understand, all i can say is good luck, i hope everything turns out good for you
Try and make it better
Well, just be yourself, don't try too hard to impress him.





You said yourself he's a bit of a womanizer and a flirt, you have to be VERY careful there, as this could lead to a broken heart. I'ts better to be single with your heart intact, than with somebody who will break it.





Give him some signals that you are interested, and see if he picks them up, if he's interested he should, if he's not, keep searching, as there's more guys out there!





good luck!
Let him know that you like being with him and spending time with him. Tell him that you care about him. But dont tell him that you love him, you could scare him. Men are easily frightened.


See what he says. But chances are he likes you if he hangs with you and spends time with you. Maybe he likes you just as a friend or more?
Pray about it!
just try to make it better and forget it!
first step is to tell him how you feel, or at least let him know that you're interested in him as more than a friend. if you don't do that, you'll never get a chance.
i know that this is a real hard thing to do. when you next see him, just kiss him, right there on the spot. and then tell him how you feel about him. it's hard but go for it!