Confused! Advice on man! Mature comments please!?

let me set the scene -


I have been seeing this guy for about a month or soo - we were friends before for about 2 yrs and i have broken up from a long term relationship about 3 months ago...





The first night we made out was when we were both drunk and it was kinda awkward (as we were friends ) - from there we have continued to spend weekends and some nites together ...


He takes me out for dinner and does things that are really sweet..pays for everything ....





Last weekend we spent the whole weekend together and i had a really great time and he said he was falling for me etc and ';understands the position i'm in coming out of a relationship'; also - that us getting together ';wasn't in the script';...





But then we went out 2 dinner with a couple of friends last nite and he was different and very teasy in his comments %26amp; of course i felt a little bit sensitive...





He is a bit of a free agent and is popular with the ladies - and hasn't really been in a steady relationship for a long time..








So i'm feeling confused as this is a really tricky situation and i didn't expect this to happen - also i don't really have any one to talk to about it as i don't want my ex to find out - i don't want to be in a rebound situation and i also don't want to put myself out there and get hurt...





Do you think he sounds sincere? I haven't really opened myself up to him as i'm so confused and like i said I don't want to get hurt....Confused! Advice on man! Mature comments please!?
NO.... DON'T ALLOW URSELF GET FOOLED......


I HAVE SEEN MANY GUYS LIKE THIS 1.... THESE GUYS WON'T BE SINCERE AT ALL... ITS ALL JUST A ';TIME PASS';....


MOREOVER HE IS TEASING U INFRONT OF OTHERS... IT MEANS THERE IS NO SERIOUS LOVE IN HIS HEART...


DON'T GET CONFUSED...


ITS CRYSTAL CLEAR THAT THIS IS NOT AT ALL LOVE.... WHICH IS VERY PURE...





AS AN EXPERIENCED GIRL, I WOULD LIKE TO GIVE U A FRIENDLY ADVICE.... ';AVOID THIS GUY WHO IS 'POPULAR WITH LADIES'... IF U AVOID HIM, U CAN AVOID A BIG MISSERY/HURT/PAIN IN THIS PATH...';..





U CAN FIND HIM WITH SUMOTHER GIRL AFTER U LEAVE... THIS IS 4 SURE...





BE CAREFUL MY DEAR FRIEND!!!Confused! Advice on man! Mature comments please!?
You have only came out of a long relationship three months ago so you will be sensitive , but he did take you out with his friends and if he is known for being a ladies man he may have been playing the part his friends know ,If not you keep your guard up and go out with friends again and see if it happens again if so speak to him about it and then you may have to see where to go from there , Give yourself time
Nobody makes a better boy/girl friend than a friend. If you are really close then you should be excited that he is falling for you and you should take every opportunity to make it work. Friends are awesome boy/girl friend material, you already hang out so why not take it to another level, just be prepared to change your friendship should the realationship not work out.
If you go through life afraid of getting hurt you will end up alone, isn't that just logical? Whatever you do, whoever you're with, give yourself wholeheartedly, at the end of the day you're not the one regretting anything.
I think he's playing you. If he was teasing you in front of other woman that means that he is trying to look good to them, hence flirting with them.


Don't give (you know what) up to him, and see how long he sticks around.
Oh my gawd? How suppose for you to mend things up! You open-up completely...YOU play the game of betray, so please know the limits on the relationships double edge sword.Its sure a bloody end ,all way up or down.So practice abstaintence.
He sounds sincere to me. Just dont jump all in at once. Especially since youre coming out a relationship yourself. But, yeah. Give him a try
Sounds like trouble


I get the same feelings when you described him





better be safe than sorry





Keep your guard up
I think you should talk to him about it if you really like him.
I think you should talk to him about how you both feel in the relationship since it has taken a more 'serious' turn and see what he says. Don't pressure him but talking things out always helps. I understand having feelings for a friend is kind of awkward as it happened to me too,but you can still remain friends if you both decide not to be a couple anymore, there is nothing wrong with that. Just explain how you feel about being confused and he may be too. He may just be scared of the feelings he may be having. Sometimes guys get scared too,even though their macho exterior doesn't want us to think so.LOL