Would like some advice about men and datiing?

When you are in a new relationship and you want to know what the man is thinking, what do you do, sit back and wait to see what happens? If he brings up that when it gets warm we will do this or that, I know he is thinking about futuristic, but seems distant...How do I figure he out?Would like some advice about men and datiing?
Don't ';figure'; him out.


You don't ';test'; a guy to figure him out.





This kind of stuff leads to miscommunication. Guys are not as complex in thinking.


I have lots of guy friends. If he really likes you, he will TELL you. If he falls in love with you, he will TELL you. Stop acting like everything he does is a signal or it means something.





I have lots of guy friends who feel like their girls need to calm down and just ENJOY being in each other's company. Don't assume anything. If you like him, tell him. If you love him, tell him. Don't think he's hiding his feelings or something like that. Guys are straightforward. If they get quiet, they could be thinking about putting gasoline in their car, getting their oil changed, or the stats from last night's football game.