Sex problems with my man...any advice??

the guy i'm seeing is insecure about his penis size, and constantly asks me if its the biggest i've seen when we are intimate, and he brags about his size on a regualr basis. (but he's average). Then he never climaxes when we do mess around. He always initiates stuff and he's always gets erections. he drinks beer a lot and smokes daily. Does all this contribute to him not being able to climax? and how can i talk to him about this without hurting or offending him? Does he need therapy because maybe this is something i can't help him with.Sex problems with my man...any advice??
he has lots of problems. are you sure you want to put up with all of this?Sex problems with my man...any advice??
Your guy sounds like at least a partial head case. The alcohol and smoking don't help things....BTW is he on antidepressants? They can often inhibit the ability to have an orgasm.
I don't know!! Just be honest and tell him the truth.
When he asks you again about his size tell him you will have to get your glasses and he is probably suffering from brewers droop and will only get worse so good luck
He probably gets Whiskey Dick from drinking and smoking....





I get that too if ive had enough to drink...i wont be able to go. Ask him to stay sober for a day and see what happens. Best of luck to you
Sounds like your boyfriend has a drinking problem, which is what causes him to not get climaxes. You can only encourage him to go to Alcoholics Anonymous, you cannot make him stop drinking, he needs to realize he has a problems.You could try talking to his family to see if they can help you set up an intervention to force him to ge help.


Best of Luck
Lot's of guys brag about their size. They are probably small.


It's the guys that talk about how small theirs are that are freakishly huge.


And if he isn't climaxing, and it doesn't bother him.....it shouldn't bother you. Better that....than if he went off like a Roman Candle as soon as he hauls it out.
Sounds to me like someone over-compensates for his anxieties by bragging! Alcohol can lead to delayed ejaculation, but sounds like there's more this than 'brewer's droop'. You guys really need to talk, so that you can at least get some idea of what's going on in his mind. It's always gonna be a tricky topic to negotiate, but you need to make sure he understands that you just want him to have a good time.





Good luck
okay...drinking definantly has a lot to do with it...my bf can never *** after he has had a few...not unless its his first time of the night...but smoking...naw...and you should definintly talk to him about it...i tell my bf he is small so he doesn't get a big head...that way i don't have to worry about it...and counseling would be a yes if you plan on stayin with him...but if you are you should search deeper than sex and ask yourself if you really want to be with a possible alcoholic for the rest of your life...i think not...girl you can do better.
smoking and dring does...
Alot of men have an insecurity about their size - although making you say it's the largest you've seen and such seems alittle rediculous, but whatever.





As for not being able to climax - I am unsure of what exactly could cause this, the only thing I could think of is him having an unhealthy heart and heartrate from smoking and drinking. This can lead to heart problems, and hence, erectile disfunction from bad blood flow.





I'm not much help, but maybe you could ask him about it, although I do realize it would be an odd thing to just randomly talk about.
Its ur fault he cnt climax. Stop taking down his self esteem and blaming him! Its u!