Tuesday, July 27, 2010

I'm seeing an older man, need advice

I'm 19 and am currently seeing a 29 year old. I've know him for two years but we just recently starting ';talking'; in a romantic sense.





We've been spending a lot of time together. However he's blown me off 2 times. Once we were supposed to go bowling but didn't (his friend backed out but he didn't tell me until the last minute). This was the day after we had sex so I was really confused. The second time was tonight. I was supposed to come over after hanging out with friends but when I called to tell him I was on the way he asked if we could hang tomorrow. I said yes because I've been over his house for about 4 days straight. But he said he didn't have anything to do tonight so I don't get why he suddenly canceled.





Should I bring it up tomorrow? We have been spending a lot of time together but I kinda feel like he should cancel sooner and not just leave me hanging, you know? We aren't exclusive yet so I don't want to scare him off by nagging about it yet at the same time I think he should be respectful. What's a good way to put it? Or is it even worth mentioning?





I'm seeing an older man, need advice
Uh and you're seeing him because...? If he isn't committed to a relationship and only staying for sex, he isn't worth your time! Just cos he's odler does not mean he's ';more mature';.

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