I need advice....man issues?

ok so ive been with this guy for almost 3 years and i love him. for like the past year i have had to beg him to go out or just watch a movie with me...he plays his online game 24/7...doesnt go to bed with me at all anymore...he sleeps on the couch with his computer.....ok so i have met this other guy that i am falling for and he likes me...i want to be with him but im scared of what will happen to my current boyfriend if i leave....i want him to be ok but i dont know....please help im so confusedI need advice....man issues?
your guy has ditched you for the online game. he's neglecting your needs and wants and looks like he doesn't care enough about the relationship to fix it.





if you're unhappy, i would ask for a break from him and pursue the new guy.





i know you're worried about and you love your boyfriend, but he'll come around and realize he lost someone good if you leave. or he might find someone else who plays games 24/7 and treats him poorly and then change. but it's not up to you to take care of him if he can't take care of you. can you see yourself with him for the rest of your life if he keeps acting this way?





i would first talk to the boyfriend and tell him what i would like in the relationship, like making more time for me, going to bed or going out with me, etc. instead of always playing games... and after like a week, if the boyfriend hasn't tried to put enough effort into you, go for the guy who actually likes you and who you like back.





good luck girl.I need advice....man issues?
if he would rather sleep with his computer on the couch than with you, then obviusly there is a problem. Why don't you sit down and talk to him before you make any rash decisions and tell him how you feel. If he is not open for change then you don't need him.
The first guy is using his game (played all the time) as a way to escape from life and conflict and responsibility. Perhaps he's tired of routine or unhappy with his job?





I think you should talk to this first guy and break up with him before moving on. Give him a chance because maybe he doesn't know how you feel. You can't easily replace someone you've been with for that long, so make sure it's the best thing to do before breaking up.
umm seems complicant to met listen to your mind not to your heart
He's a loser. Dump him now, move on and don't look in the rear view mirror
you obviously still care about your boyfriend, so i think you should talk to him, tell him that things are growing apart between you, tell him about how hes on the computer all the time and its driving you away and you dont know if your relationship will work if it continues. if he changes then, hopefully you two can fix your relationship, and if he doesnt, then you for-warned him of what will happen, and then you can pursue the new guy.
sounds like your bf dumped you for his pc. get the new guy :)