basically i was 'the other woman,' and though my guy had a son to his original girlfriend, they were not married, and he implied they were not together in the past but rather had just gotten together recently before i came along. i had no intention of falling in love with this man, but after 6 months of us being together i really have, and though i know the right thing to do is to leave him, i really dont have the strength to do it, it is not an option because i am in love with him.
The thing is, it seems to me he is still with this woman; he only meets me once a week and we dont chat during the week though i would like to, but i like to test him, see if he texts,) it seems hes with this other girl still, though he told me about 2 months ago he broke up with her (i'd waited,) but i mean he's lied to me a couple of times its a long story but lots of things really suggest hes still with her, shes even the wallpaper open his phone. Hes never taken me out properly, only bought me a coffee, he wants me to move in with him an though i would love to, i dont believe he really does, im worried hes tagging me along but really wants to be with her. im sick of his inconsistancy, hes made me almost suicidal, bu never been mean he supports me, the only person i n my life who has ever done that and i cant let go, but im sick of him clubbin every nightm, having no time for me and im 70% sure hes still with this woman. im 19 hes 29. please help i dont know what to do im not strong enough and i feel depressed and just want to die i know that sounds stupid but please help,
serious answers only please
TY much appreciated xxLong question pleas help, strong women, could you give me some advice please? man trouble?
ok.. basically if a guy REALLY loves you and wants to be with you he will move heaven and earth to do so! its harder when kids are involved and maybe he is having a hard time leaving his child.. but you need to sit him down and set it straight! the fact that you are showing him that you are a strong person who doesn't NEED a man, will show him you mean business! if he comes back and says he cant live without you and leave the other woman.. then go right ahead! but watch your back and stay strong :)Long question pleas help, strong women, could you give me some advice please? man trouble?
I'm sorry to say this, but he is using you. If he wanted to be with you, he would. Have some strength and get rid of him!
Please try and find the strength to walk away from this relationship. He doesn't love you, he doesn't respect you, he doesn't spend any time with you, he has no loyalty toward you, he isn't honest with you, you don't trust him! What more do you need to know? I don't think that you do love him - I think that you're frightened of being alone. Go and see a professional about your lack of self esteem. No woman should have so little self esteem that they become a doormat. Please see someone before things get even worse.
K well first of all..you have to think of a few things
1. if he does want to be with you do you think you can handle being a mother at 19 cause i guarantee you will have to start because i doubt he will stop his clubbing ways and it sounds like he isn't caring for his son either
2. do you fee like you cant get anyone else because you definitely can someone with no baggage
3 i know letting go of someone you love is hard but sometimes in order to see if they're really into you you have to let them be on their own and if he doesn't come back then you know he's just dragging you on
4. It's called the 80-20 rule he currently has an 80 meaning the woman who has his child..holds him down..and will be with him when he screws up and she knows he will..and sadly you're the 20 the one who looks amazing single life and has everything going for her, but sadly he's gonna go back to his 80 every time.
i don't mean to hurt your feelings but yea that's my opinion anyways %26lt;3 good luck
xoxo
tell him what you feel, there's nothing worst than waiting on a guy when he's messing you around. well if he has no time for you then he doesn't love you that much? say to him'; i don't wanna be a thing on the side, if your not gonna respect me, then this relationship is over'; get yourself out there! go join a club, do new sports! find out new things and meet new people, go out with friends and family- all this should help you get over him.
:)
Girl, there is a ten year age difference there, that's problem number one. number two: He is still going out with a girl, supposedly, and she has had a child with him. Three: He never takes you out anywhere, but wants you to live with him. My dad asked a women he wasn't married to to live with him and later they got married, but they are about to divorce and it's barely been a year. There are plenty of guys out there who will treat you with lots of love, and will be your age. You just have to find them. A few suggestions are religious guys, I'm a Mormon and all the guys are nice and loving for us, but that's just a suggestion... Being with a guy that makes you feel depressed and suicidal immediately makes him a definite NO. Good luck girl.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Ok i all ready posted this b4 and not one answer ! love advice, seeing man for?
3 years we were actually together for less then a year and we broke up but continued to see each other , we broke up because all we did was argue and every time we argued it some how or another was my fault no mater what it was i was in the wrong . and for awhile he wouldn't make a commitment to me such as moving in w me or more well any ways last nite we got in to an argument becuz i have a myspace page witch is ridicules because were not even together and he has no right to be tripping on me like that .im really at the point ware im about to cut him loose ,granted he is there for me when i need him and hes good with my kids but he is really immature and does stuff that drive me crazy like mock me or switch my words around when im talking , like if i say something say for instance i wanna go to the movies he copy me and say bla blana blo do bovies or something stupid like that and really gets on my nerves and when i get mad he'll be like calm down and tell me im up tight or some more **** . i dont know what to do . i tried talking to him and his excuse is that he ben that way forever so why should he change . he gets on my god dam nerves . one more example is one time when i was leaving his house he said get out of here hoodrat i got really mad he says hes playing around and could not get why i was mad it turned into a big arguement and it was my fault according to him .. someone give me some input pleaseOk i all ready posted this b4 and not one answer ! love advice, seeing man for?
Why are you waisting your time with this man? you have kids to think of,to give them and yourself a happy life.You need to close one door before you can open another.Do yourself and the kids a favor and close the door for a better one to open.If you don't close it, another wont open.Ok i all ready posted this b4 and not one answer ! love advice, seeing man for?
You obviously can't stand this guy, why are you with him? Woman please respect yourself, find a man who respects you.
i dont think anyone will answer because its tooo long. noone wantsto read that. :( sorry
just move on man/
Sorry sweetie... but it sounds to me that neither of you are mature enough to be in a relationship. If you can't get along, be apart... and you said you have kids... what the heck type of example are you setting for them? Allow me to answer that for you:
1. Mommy is immature
2. It is normal to fight constantly in a relationship
3. You have to put up with disrespect from whoever you are with
4. Mommy doesn't have the guts to stand up for herself
5. It works when Mommy's man does it... our turn !
Is that what you really want? Either work it out or throw him out !
Wow. It looks as though he doesn't respect u at ALL! Just let him go. So what, if he's good with your kids, you can find someone else who is good with ur kids and good with u. I mean, he doesn't deserve u. If he's gonna mock u like some 5 year old does, twist your words just so that it doesn't look like its HIS fault, and insult u, then u need to just tell him to shut the f*ck up, and to go away.
Why are you waisting your time with this man? you have kids to think of,to give them and yourself a happy life.You need to close one door before you can open another.Do yourself and the kids a favor and close the door for a better one to open.If you don't close it, another wont open.Ok i all ready posted this b4 and not one answer ! love advice, seeing man for?
You obviously can't stand this guy, why are you with him? Woman please respect yourself, find a man who respects you.
i dont think anyone will answer because its tooo long. noone wantsto read that. :( sorry
just move on man/
Sorry sweetie... but it sounds to me that neither of you are mature enough to be in a relationship. If you can't get along, be apart... and you said you have kids... what the heck type of example are you setting for them? Allow me to answer that for you:
1. Mommy is immature
2. It is normal to fight constantly in a relationship
3. You have to put up with disrespect from whoever you are with
4. Mommy doesn't have the guts to stand up for herself
5. It works when Mommy's man does it... our turn !
Is that what you really want? Either work it out or throw him out !
Wow. It looks as though he doesn't respect u at ALL! Just let him go. So what, if he's good with your kids, you can find someone else who is good with ur kids and good with u. I mean, he doesn't deserve u. If he's gonna mock u like some 5 year old does, twist your words just so that it doesn't look like its HIS fault, and insult u, then u need to just tell him to shut the f*ck up, and to go away.
A single male 24 years old man need some advice.?
I am a single male 24 years old. I am trying to get back into the dating scene. I need some advice about where is the best place to meet women. I tend to be shy. I am tried of the bar scene. Has anybody ever tried speed dating and or online dating? If so was your experience good or bad. I have been thinking about joining a gym.A single male 24 years old man need some advice.?
Joining a gym isn't great for meeting women. Not if that's your reason for doing it.
If you wanna work out, and you go work out, you'll meet women... but if you're going to meet women, you're not gonna do well.
Speed dating looks fun, I've never done it. And online dating is a sad sort of process. I don't endorse it.
Just get out into the world. A lot of it is geographical. If you live in a busy city, you have so many options. Museums are great actually. And you meet a better class of people than you would at a bar.A single male 24 years old man need some advice.?
Don't do the dodgy sites or speed dating... my guess is gym... or join a local group or something to meet new people.
Good luck!
join a group or club that interests you to maybe meet a woman with similar interests.
Joining a gym isn't great for meeting women. Not if that's your reason for doing it.
If you wanna work out, and you go work out, you'll meet women... but if you're going to meet women, you're not gonna do well.
Speed dating looks fun, I've never done it. And online dating is a sad sort of process. I don't endorse it.
Just get out into the world. A lot of it is geographical. If you live in a busy city, you have so many options. Museums are great actually. And you meet a better class of people than you would at a bar.A single male 24 years old man need some advice.?
Don't do the dodgy sites or speed dating... my guess is gym... or join a local group or something to meet new people.
Good luck!
join a group or club that interests you to maybe meet a woman with similar interests.
Any youth football coaches have advice for 8 man 3rd and 4th grade new coach??
Set your game plan up around the best 3 or 4 players. The remaining players can be used to clog up the middle lanes.
Use whatever team speed you might haveAny youth football coaches have advice for 8 man 3rd and 4th grade new coach??
YEAH, GET 3 MORE PLAYERSAny youth football coaches have advice for 8 man 3rd and 4th grade new coach??
hell yea do you watch sports or drink tea with your mom!beauty
Use whatever team speed you might haveAny youth football coaches have advice for 8 man 3rd and 4th grade new coach??
YEAH, GET 3 MORE PLAYERSAny youth football coaches have advice for 8 man 3rd and 4th grade new coach??
hell yea do you watch sports or drink tea with your mom!
As a Black Man, who seems to be graying prematurely (37), I need advice on what product to buy to combat same?
Well, I can't help with a product but I don't think they sell self esteem anyway. Come on dude, 37 and some gray? The women probably think it looks 'distinguished', and that is a good thing. Just look at me. I have lots of gray hair, and the women just don't quit. Might be because I am a single doctor - I really don't know. Stand tall and be proud of a bit of gray. It is earned.
And now on the brighter side - diet plays a small roll in this. If you improve your diet, by cutting out saturated fats, and anything white (flour, sugar, rice), replacing all of this with fruits and vegetables, beans, brown rice etc. and at 37 a vitamin supplement wouldn't hurt, with some Omega 3 to top it off, then over a space of a year or two, as your hair grows out, it could recover some of it's darker tone. Hope this helps.As a Black Man, who seems to be graying prematurely (37), I need advice on what product to buy to combat same?
As a black woman, don't meet to many brothers that still have their hair. You are truly blessed in that area. You can always color it, if you don't like it, but before you do. Have you asked some of your lady friends what they thought? I like the salt and pepper look. Brother just do you and ROCK IT!!!!As a Black Man, who seems to be graying prematurely (37), I need advice on what product to buy to combat same?
I went pearly white at 30. I'd colored my hair for years and stopped. Whoa...I was about 95% white.
Sometimes, a folic acid deficiency is responsible for premature graying. You could try 800 mcg. of folic acid per day. It's not that unusual for people in the USA to be folic acid deficient for some reason. More often than not, though, graying is genetic.
If you want to color the grey, I'd suggest going to Sally's Beauty Supply and buying a DEMI-permanent hair color by Color Charm. You have to buy an activator to go with it. Demi permanent hair color lasts longer than semi but isn't as harmful to the hair as permanent. It works great for covering the grays.
After care of your hair is important. If you use ';clear'; shampoos, they will strip the hair color out of your hair in no time. It's best to use a shampoo for color-treated hair or use a moisturizing shampoo. You might consider what a lot of us ';curly girls'; do, no matter the ethnicity. We are washing our hair with conditioner instead of shampoo. We use cheap conditioners like V05 or Suave to wash our hair. They really aren't good as conditioners but work great to wash hair! We then use a little leave in conditioner of heavier conditioner as needed. You could even spray olive oil or something like that on your hair for additional conditionining. At any rate, washing with conditioner will help keep your hair healthy and keep it from fading as fast if you color it.
The Roux rinses probably won't work if you have lots of grey. A waste of $.
And now on the brighter side - diet plays a small roll in this. If you improve your diet, by cutting out saturated fats, and anything white (flour, sugar, rice), replacing all of this with fruits and vegetables, beans, brown rice etc. and at 37 a vitamin supplement wouldn't hurt, with some Omega 3 to top it off, then over a space of a year or two, as your hair grows out, it could recover some of it's darker tone. Hope this helps.As a Black Man, who seems to be graying prematurely (37), I need advice on what product to buy to combat same?
As a black woman, don't meet to many brothers that still have their hair. You are truly blessed in that area. You can always color it, if you don't like it, but before you do. Have you asked some of your lady friends what they thought? I like the salt and pepper look. Brother just do you and ROCK IT!!!!As a Black Man, who seems to be graying prematurely (37), I need advice on what product to buy to combat same?
I went pearly white at 30. I'd colored my hair for years and stopped. Whoa...I was about 95% white.
Sometimes, a folic acid deficiency is responsible for premature graying. You could try 800 mcg. of folic acid per day. It's not that unusual for people in the USA to be folic acid deficient for some reason. More often than not, though, graying is genetic.
If you want to color the grey, I'd suggest going to Sally's Beauty Supply and buying a DEMI-permanent hair color by Color Charm. You have to buy an activator to go with it. Demi permanent hair color lasts longer than semi but isn't as harmful to the hair as permanent. It works great for covering the grays.
After care of your hair is important. If you use ';clear'; shampoos, they will strip the hair color out of your hair in no time. It's best to use a shampoo for color-treated hair or use a moisturizing shampoo. You might consider what a lot of us ';curly girls'; do, no matter the ethnicity. We are washing our hair with conditioner instead of shampoo. We use cheap conditioners like V05 or Suave to wash our hair. They really aren't good as conditioners but work great to wash hair! We then use a little leave in conditioner of heavier conditioner as needed. You could even spray olive oil or something like that on your hair for additional conditionining. At any rate, washing with conditioner will help keep your hair healthy and keep it from fading as fast if you color it.
The Roux rinses probably won't work if you have lots of grey. A waste of $.
I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?
Well, let's just say I'm in a bit of a dilemma. Recently I've realized that both of my children are being bf and gf to each other. My 15 year old daughter has been acting very clingy towards her brother, and my 17 year old son has been fiercely protective of his sister. They've even insisted on sleeping in the same room, in the same bed and in addition I suspect my son has gotten his own sister pregnant because she's been feeling sick in the morning and having odd cravings. Earlier today my son had gotten into a fight at school over some guys who were apparently checking out his sister. I had to excuse myself from an important meeting at work to have a parent teacher conference about his fight. Right now they're in their room with their door closed doing God knows what.
I know this isn't the best place to ask for advice like this, but I don't really know what to do.I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?
This story is too ridiculous to be true, in my opinion.
Sadly, it just as well might be.
First, take your daughter to the doctor.
Then some MAJOR family counseling.
Possibly send them to different schools.
NO MORE sleeping in the same room. if at all possible, put them in different sides of the house.
Go to Church.
If anyone, your family needs it.
If you made this up, YOU need it more than ever.I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?
I hope you have talked to your wife about this she might have some insight on some of this. and then i would confront both of them ask them straight out whats going on don't forget to tell them you love them. dont let it go any longer. good luck
this is the second time you have posted this question.
you are the father! Get your head out of your *** and start acting like one! Get these kids into counseling,get your daughter to a Dr., take the doors off the bedroom, and why are you allowing this to happen, you need to regain control of your kids and your home!
Jerry Springer called, he wants you to make an appearance on his show.
You're not referring to the pitbull again are you? You little troll, don't you have homework or something to do? And isn't it past your bedtime?
If you're not a troll, I think you need to take your kids to a family counselor/psychologist to figure things out.
i think u better bring them for counselling.. to a psychiatrist... i know they're not crazy or have something wrong with their minds.. just for them to talk and express themselves freely.. and find out what seems to be bothering them...
You need to have a conversation w/ them RIGHT NOW! Obviously, something is going on in the household and/or school for them to be acting this way. Time to get down and dirty w/ your kids and nip this in the butt NOW! Also, if you cause conflict between you and your children, they may feel to continue this outside of the household.
thats disgusting... are they at least addopted?
i think you need serious professional help in your family
Why are you acting like a castrated father who has lost control over his kids? Take them to a counsellor and get yourself counselled too. Plus your wife/ partner...if you have one.
OMG! I would be opening that door, and having have a heart to heart with them and take her to the doctor to be checked out asap!
There definitely needs to be some family counseling going on here.
Well Frist off.. I wouldnt let them sleep in a room together there far to OLD for that.
2nd: Why are you still letting them stay in a room: Plus you should be opening that door. that is WRONG!
3rd: Is there mother around, what does she think you should do, Have you talked to her about it. I would talk to someone other then people on yahoo answers about this. You need a Doctor to talk to
4th: Talk to your children let them kno what you are thinking. and let them know that there FAR TO OLD to be acting like that.
I Hope this is a joke, because if its not you have a major problem on your hands.
It is your house!!. Why are you saying they are in their room with the door closed doing God knows what?!! Open the door and see what the heck they are doing. Let them know - not in your house. Unless you want a grandson who does know if daddy is uncle or daddy. Get some counseling for your children. Remember they are your children-they live in your house and should respect and follow your rules. Not saying they wont sneak but you can do something about what you do know about!! Take time cause no matter how important that meeting was your kids are even more important and they sound like they need your help not your friendship.
Well it sounds like your pretty clueless as to whats going on in your family so I taking you for the regular parent who works too much and ignores his children (or else you wouldnt be here all of the sudden... you would have been here way back when they moved into each others room).
So before you assume that your children are having sex with each other, lets take a look at this. You the parent are not an active parent in your children's life. You dont know sh*t about whats going on. Did you ever think that maybe your daughter was attacked and maybe raped by some guy while you werent home or at school or at a party or whatever, and the only one who knows is her brother? She's scared out of her mind, maybe it happened at night, and she cant sleep by herself, so she's moved into her brother's room because he knows what happened and he understands. And maybe those kids at school werent checking out his sister, maybe one of them was the guy who attacked your daughter... i trust you're getting all your info from the school and not your children. And if nothing else, your son was doing the brotherly thing, especially since im sure this group of teenaged boys probably werent like 'o yea man shes hot' and stare as she walks by... I bet it was more of 'baby why dont you come over here and I'll give you a reason to bend over...' who knows, maybe they grabed her *** or any other parts of her. Different story now isnt it?
Grow up and be a parent, get your daughter in to see a doctor, find out whats going on, get the police involved if she's been attacked and get your head out of the sand. And if your right, send your kids into councelling, and check yourself in with them. And dont let them sleep in the same bed together
Why, for God's sake, are you leaving them alone in a room together? I'd get her an abortion and military school him! Yuk!
OMG! That's awful! She needs to go to the doctor asap! If she is pregnant, she really needs to have an abortion. I do not really agree with abortion, but there's such a huge chance of problems with a child conceived out of incest. You need to bust down the door and confront them about it. No Mr. Nice Guy. You need to let them know that this is WAY wrong, and no more being in the same room with the door closed. You should probably even send one of them off for awhile. Maybe to a military school or a grandparent's house. Regardless of what you do, you need to let them know that you mean business!
First defeat all the latches in their rooms. It is not at all normal. A brother and sister shall have affection - not lust. You really have to open the subject and explain them why a relation should not be with in them. If you are not sure to convince them, take them to some one who can do it in your place. There are councilors available. One of my friend (16 yrs girl) had the same issue with her 17 yrs old bro. They decided to send the guy to college away from home. When the news came out, all the friends started looking at her like.... (you know what).... She is totally depressed and stopped schooling last year. Please do not allow such situation to your children. They have to grow yet and you need to do all in Private. To avoid leaving them together in the night, sleep with them for atleast one month. That will keep them away. I am 15 girl.
I know this isn't the best place to ask for advice like this, but I don't really know what to do.I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?
This story is too ridiculous to be true, in my opinion.
Sadly, it just as well might be.
First, take your daughter to the doctor.
Then some MAJOR family counseling.
Possibly send them to different schools.
NO MORE sleeping in the same room. if at all possible, put them in different sides of the house.
Go to Church.
If anyone, your family needs it.
If you made this up, YOU need it more than ever.I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?
I hope you have talked to your wife about this she might have some insight on some of this. and then i would confront both of them ask them straight out whats going on don't forget to tell them you love them. dont let it go any longer. good luck
this is the second time you have posted this question.
you are the father! Get your head out of your *** and start acting like one! Get these kids into counseling,get your daughter to a Dr., take the doors off the bedroom, and why are you allowing this to happen, you need to regain control of your kids and your home!
Jerry Springer called, he wants you to make an appearance on his show.
You're not referring to the pitbull again are you? You little troll, don't you have homework or something to do? And isn't it past your bedtime?
If you're not a troll, I think you need to take your kids to a family counselor/psychologist to figure things out.
i think u better bring them for counselling.. to a psychiatrist... i know they're not crazy or have something wrong with their minds.. just for them to talk and express themselves freely.. and find out what seems to be bothering them...
You need to have a conversation w/ them RIGHT NOW! Obviously, something is going on in the household and/or school for them to be acting this way. Time to get down and dirty w/ your kids and nip this in the butt NOW! Also, if you cause conflict between you and your children, they may feel to continue this outside of the household.
thats disgusting... are they at least addopted?
i think you need serious professional help in your family
Why are you acting like a castrated father who has lost control over his kids? Take them to a counsellor and get yourself counselled too. Plus your wife/ partner...if you have one.
OMG! I would be opening that door, and having have a heart to heart with them and take her to the doctor to be checked out asap!
There definitely needs to be some family counseling going on here.
Well Frist off.. I wouldnt let them sleep in a room together there far to OLD for that.
2nd: Why are you still letting them stay in a room: Plus you should be opening that door. that is WRONG!
3rd: Is there mother around, what does she think you should do, Have you talked to her about it. I would talk to someone other then people on yahoo answers about this. You need a Doctor to talk to
4th: Talk to your children let them kno what you are thinking. and let them know that there FAR TO OLD to be acting like that.
I Hope this is a joke, because if its not you have a major problem on your hands.
It is your house!!. Why are you saying they are in their room with the door closed doing God knows what?!! Open the door and see what the heck they are doing. Let them know - not in your house. Unless you want a grandson who does know if daddy is uncle or daddy. Get some counseling for your children. Remember they are your children-they live in your house and should respect and follow your rules. Not saying they wont sneak but you can do something about what you do know about!! Take time cause no matter how important that meeting was your kids are even more important and they sound like they need your help not your friendship.
Well it sounds like your pretty clueless as to whats going on in your family so I taking you for the regular parent who works too much and ignores his children (or else you wouldnt be here all of the sudden... you would have been here way back when they moved into each others room).
So before you assume that your children are having sex with each other, lets take a look at this. You the parent are not an active parent in your children's life. You dont know sh*t about whats going on. Did you ever think that maybe your daughter was attacked and maybe raped by some guy while you werent home or at school or at a party or whatever, and the only one who knows is her brother? She's scared out of her mind, maybe it happened at night, and she cant sleep by herself, so she's moved into her brother's room because he knows what happened and he understands. And maybe those kids at school werent checking out his sister, maybe one of them was the guy who attacked your daughter... i trust you're getting all your info from the school and not your children. And if nothing else, your son was doing the brotherly thing, especially since im sure this group of teenaged boys probably werent like 'o yea man shes hot' and stare as she walks by... I bet it was more of 'baby why dont you come over here and I'll give you a reason to bend over...' who knows, maybe they grabed her *** or any other parts of her. Different story now isnt it?
Grow up and be a parent, get your daughter in to see a doctor, find out whats going on, get the police involved if she's been attacked and get your head out of the sand. And if your right, send your kids into councelling, and check yourself in with them. And dont let them sleep in the same bed together
Why, for God's sake, are you leaving them alone in a room together? I'd get her an abortion and military school him! Yuk!
OMG! That's awful! She needs to go to the doctor asap! If she is pregnant, she really needs to have an abortion. I do not really agree with abortion, but there's such a huge chance of problems with a child conceived out of incest. You need to bust down the door and confront them about it. No Mr. Nice Guy. You need to let them know that this is WAY wrong, and no more being in the same room with the door closed. You should probably even send one of them off for awhile. Maybe to a military school or a grandparent's house. Regardless of what you do, you need to let them know that you mean business!
First defeat all the latches in their rooms. It is not at all normal. A brother and sister shall have affection - not lust. You really have to open the subject and explain them why a relation should not be with in them. If you are not sure to convince them, take them to some one who can do it in your place. There are councilors available. One of my friend (16 yrs girl) had the same issue with her 17 yrs old bro. They decided to send the guy to college away from home. When the news came out, all the friends started looking at her like.... (you know what).... She is totally depressed and stopped schooling last year. Please do not allow such situation to your children. They have to grow yet and you need to do all in Private. To avoid leaving them together in the night, sleep with them for atleast one month. That will keep them away. I am 15 girl.
I am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks!
Remember, its whats in YOUR heart that matters. If you love him then who cares about the age. Age is just a number! Do it!! :-)I am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
it just ur S.E.X. GURL TAKE A DEEP BREATHE N THINK BE 4 U LET IT GO
CAUSE LIFES A TRIPI am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
wer, I see this too... the yonger woman look a old guy for safty,stronger figure,better live in the paticurar mode of confidens enter 2 persons and esperienses ...kiss...
I don't know what kind of advise you are seeking, but generally, women prefer their men to be older than themselves. They also, generally, prefer their men to be taller than themselves, as well.
Remember, its whats in YOUR heart that matters. If you love him then who cares about the age. Age is just a number! Do it!! :-)I am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
it just ur S.E.X. GURL TAKE A DEEP BREATHE N THINK BE 4 U LET IT GO
CAUSE LIFES A TRIPI am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
wer, I see this too... the yonger woman look a old guy for safty,stronger figure,better live in the paticurar mode of confidens enter 2 persons and esperienses ...kiss...
I don't know what kind of advise you are seeking, but generally, women prefer their men to be older than themselves. They also, generally, prefer their men to be taller than themselves, as well.
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