Well, let's just say I'm in a bit of a dilemma. Recently I've realized that both of my children are being bf and gf to each other. My 15 year old daughter has been acting very clingy towards her brother, and my 17 year old son has been fiercely protective of his sister. They've even insisted on sleeping in the same room, in the same bed and in addition I suspect my son has gotten his own sister pregnant because she's been feeling sick in the morning and having odd cravings. Earlier today my son had gotten into a fight at school over some guys who were apparently checking out his sister. I had to excuse myself from an important meeting at work to have a parent teacher conference about his fight. Right now they're in their room with their door closed doing God knows what.
I know this isn't the best place to ask for advice like this, but I don't really know what to do.I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?
This story is too ridiculous to be true, in my opinion.
Sadly, it just as well might be.
First, take your daughter to the doctor.
Then some MAJOR family counseling.
Possibly send them to different schools.
NO MORE sleeping in the same room. if at all possible, put them in different sides of the house.
Go to Church.
If anyone, your family needs it.
If you made this up, YOU need it more than ever.I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Who needs advice.?
I hope you have talked to your wife about this she might have some insight on some of this. and then i would confront both of them ask them straight out whats going on don't forget to tell them you love them. dont let it go any longer. good luck
this is the second time you have posted this question.
you are the father! Get your head out of your *** and start acting like one! Get these kids into counseling,get your daughter to a Dr., take the doors off the bedroom, and why are you allowing this to happen, you need to regain control of your kids and your home!
Jerry Springer called, he wants you to make an appearance on his show.
You're not referring to the pitbull again are you? You little troll, don't you have homework or something to do? And isn't it past your bedtime?
If you're not a troll, I think you need to take your kids to a family counselor/psychologist to figure things out.
i think u better bring them for counselling.. to a psychiatrist... i know they're not crazy or have something wrong with their minds.. just for them to talk and express themselves freely.. and find out what seems to be bothering them...
You need to have a conversation w/ them RIGHT NOW! Obviously, something is going on in the household and/or school for them to be acting this way. Time to get down and dirty w/ your kids and nip this in the butt NOW! Also, if you cause conflict between you and your children, they may feel to continue this outside of the household.
thats disgusting... are they at least addopted?
i think you need serious professional help in your family
Why are you acting like a castrated father who has lost control over his kids? Take them to a counsellor and get yourself counselled too. Plus your wife/ partner...if you have one.
OMG! I would be opening that door, and having have a heart to heart with them and take her to the doctor to be checked out asap!
There definitely needs to be some family counseling going on here.
Well Frist off.. I wouldnt let them sleep in a room together there far to OLD for that.
2nd: Why are you still letting them stay in a room: Plus you should be opening that door. that is WRONG!
3rd: Is there mother around, what does she think you should do, Have you talked to her about it. I would talk to someone other then people on yahoo answers about this. You need a Doctor to talk to
4th: Talk to your children let them kno what you are thinking. and let them know that there FAR TO OLD to be acting like that.
I Hope this is a joke, because if its not you have a major problem on your hands.
It is your house!!. Why are you saying they are in their room with the door closed doing God knows what?!! Open the door and see what the heck they are doing. Let them know - not in your house. Unless you want a grandson who does know if daddy is uncle or daddy. Get some counseling for your children. Remember they are your children-they live in your house and should respect and follow your rules. Not saying they wont sneak but you can do something about what you do know about!! Take time cause no matter how important that meeting was your kids are even more important and they sound like they need your help not your friendship.
Well it sounds like your pretty clueless as to whats going on in your family so I taking you for the regular parent who works too much and ignores his children (or else you wouldnt be here all of the sudden... you would have been here way back when they moved into each others room).
So before you assume that your children are having sex with each other, lets take a look at this. You the parent are not an active parent in your children's life. You dont know sh*t about whats going on. Did you ever think that maybe your daughter was attacked and maybe raped by some guy while you werent home or at school or at a party or whatever, and the only one who knows is her brother? She's scared out of her mind, maybe it happened at night, and she cant sleep by herself, so she's moved into her brother's room because he knows what happened and he understands. And maybe those kids at school werent checking out his sister, maybe one of them was the guy who attacked your daughter... i trust you're getting all your info from the school and not your children. And if nothing else, your son was doing the brotherly thing, especially since im sure this group of teenaged boys probably werent like 'o yea man shes hot' and stare as she walks by... I bet it was more of 'baby why dont you come over here and I'll give you a reason to bend over...' who knows, maybe they grabed her *** or any other parts of her. Different story now isnt it?
Grow up and be a parent, get your daughter in to see a doctor, find out whats going on, get the police involved if she's been attacked and get your head out of the sand. And if your right, send your kids into councelling, and check yourself in with them. And dont let them sleep in the same bed together
Why, for God's sake, are you leaving them alone in a room together? I'd get her an abortion and military school him! Yuk!
OMG! That's awful! She needs to go to the doctor asap! If she is pregnant, she really needs to have an abortion. I do not really agree with abortion, but there's such a huge chance of problems with a child conceived out of incest. You need to bust down the door and confront them about it. No Mr. Nice Guy. You need to let them know that this is WAY wrong, and no more being in the same room with the door closed. You should probably even send one of them off for awhile. Maybe to a military school or a grandparent's house. Regardless of what you do, you need to let them know that you mean business!
First defeat all the latches in their rooms. It is not at all normal. A brother and sister shall have affection - not lust. You really have to open the subject and explain them why a relation should not be with in them. If you are not sure to convince them, take them to some one who can do it in your place. There are councilors available. One of my friend (16 yrs girl) had the same issue with her 17 yrs old bro. They decided to send the guy to college away from home. When the news came out, all the friends started looking at her like.... (you know what).... She is totally depressed and stopped schooling last year. Please do not allow such situation to your children. They have to grow yet and you need to do all in Private. To avoid leaving them together in the night, sleep with them for atleast one month. That will keep them away. I am 15 girl.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks!
Remember, its whats in YOUR heart that matters. If you love him then who cares about the age. Age is just a number! Do it!! :-)I am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
it just ur S.E.X. GURL TAKE A DEEP BREATHE N THINK BE 4 U LET IT GO
CAUSE LIFES A TRIPI am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
wer, I see this too... the yonger woman look a old guy for safty,stronger figure,better live in the paticurar mode of confidens enter 2 persons and esperienses ...kiss...
I don't know what kind of advise you are seeking, but generally, women prefer their men to be older than themselves. They also, generally, prefer their men to be taller than themselves, as well.
Remember, its whats in YOUR heart that matters. If you love him then who cares about the age. Age is just a number! Do it!! :-)I am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
it just ur S.E.X. GURL TAKE A DEEP BREATHE N THINK BE 4 U LET IT GO
CAUSE LIFES A TRIPI am looking for advice on older man/younger woman relationships?
wer, I see this too... the yonger woman look a old guy for safty,stronger figure,better live in the paticurar mode of confidens enter 2 persons and esperienses ...kiss...
I don't know what kind of advise you are seeking, but generally, women prefer their men to be older than themselves. They also, generally, prefer their men to be taller than themselves, as well.
Are there any good books or websites that offer advice for men on dating and getting laid?
Why would you recommend them
Thank you very much :)Are there any good books or websites that offer advice for men on dating and getting laid?
To think that I wonder why women call us pigs.Are there any good books or websites that offer advice for men on dating and getting laid?
As a girl I wouldn't recommend a single one. They are written by guys that view all women as the same and think that they know everything.
Treat a girl with respect and you will get far. But far doesn't mean sex. If you are going after a girl just for sex, we can detect it. And it is a huge turn off.
Find a girl that you like, treat her well, let her know that you care and go from there.
yes go to interactplace.com and click on articles there is flirting advice and tips
Ubiation.com has some info on dating for you, also lots of products.
www.zanperrion.com
He also has some talks on YouTube. Good luck. You`ll be a stud by the time he`s done with you!
classy
are you that clueless
Thank you very much :)Are there any good books or websites that offer advice for men on dating and getting laid?
To think that I wonder why women call us pigs.Are there any good books or websites that offer advice for men on dating and getting laid?
As a girl I wouldn't recommend a single one. They are written by guys that view all women as the same and think that they know everything.
Treat a girl with respect and you will get far. But far doesn't mean sex. If you are going after a girl just for sex, we can detect it. And it is a huge turn off.
Find a girl that you like, treat her well, let her know that you care and go from there.
yes go to interactplace.com and click on articles there is flirting advice and tips
Ubiation.com has some info on dating for you, also lots of products.
www.zanperrion.com
He also has some talks on YouTube. Good luck. You`ll be a stud by the time he`s done with you!
classy
are you that clueless
I dont feel like a man. I need advice?
I'm 18 years old, athletic with a good diet and health. I have had two long term relationships and in each i have had erection problems. It works like this, during any type of foreplay i am very erect. but when i go to put on a condom or insert i simply go limp making insertion impossible. I've also lost my erection during as well. Or blown it prematurely. I suck prettyy much haha. My grilfriends have both been really understanding and my current girlfirend and i are extremly in love. She tells me not to worry, but it upsets me because i want her so bad and she wants us to be able to have sex as well. It really hurts me. My confidence otherwise is very high and i have a lot going well for me but i have tryed for monthes to find a solution. I have no pressure and im not nervous when i go to grab a condom but i still dont succeed. Im too young for this. I need some adviceI dont feel like a man. I need advice?
Honestly I'd have to say forget the floorplay an me the ideal bf. Then your erection problems cuz my bf did the same thing but after awhile once we became eachothers ';Match'; the erection problem fixed itself. Good Luck and I hope this helps you!~Alison~
OK this would be my IDEAL BOYFRIED.........ALL GUYS SHOULD READ!
Ladies: this will make you tear up :)
fellas: read it, all of it! :)
1-touch their waist
2-talk to her
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly
are you remembering this?
6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when you're with your friends
keep reading
11-smile with her
12-take pictures with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back
15-when her friends say I love her more than you deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can鈥檛 get to her friends. It makes her feel loved
are you thinking about someone?
16-always hug her and say I love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
19-tell her she鈥檚 beautiful not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!
20 u need to show her you mean it too
21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You buy HER stuff
23-tell her what feels good
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her stuff. small things can still help
we might deny it but we actually like and kind of want you to get us things
26-don't lie to her
27-dont cheat on her
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, %26amp; even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you
are you still reading this u better be its important
31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If she鈥檚 upset, comfort her
remember this next time you are with her
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHE鈥橲 LOVED
41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always Remind her how much you love her.
you鈥檒l never know when she needs just a little more love
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Some expectations of a good boyfriend
12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.
11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.
10) Kisses you every chance he gets.
9) Holds you close when your cold.
8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.
7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)
6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.
5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you.
4) When people diss you he stands up for you.
3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.
2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.
1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!)
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If you think the one you love is worried about you two having a relationship then do the following:
1. Relax. Dont think so much.
2. With the parents, speak only when you know exactly what you鈥檙e going to say and you know they will reply well to what you have said.
3. With the ex. If you think she鈥檚 still into him ask her. Dont be accusing though that could be bad. Say something like: if you say you like only me ill believe you I just want to hear it from you.
4. Good luck and dont forget to chill.
Here's a list out of my little black book. I hope it helps and Good Luck in your journey! ~Alison~I dont feel like a man. I need advice?
just keep your self up. think about what made you get horny and continue to think about that.
I don't think you're being truthful about being nervous. Or you could totally dislike the feeling of the condom. Which is really unfortunate because they're important! Maybe try a different brand of condom and see if that helps. Something is turning you off right when you're about to penetrate. Maybe you can try fantasizing? Just don't tell your girlfriend it isn't her that you're thinking about!!!!
Honestly I'd have to say forget the floorplay an me the ideal bf. Then your erection problems cuz my bf did the same thing but after awhile once we became eachothers ';Match'; the erection problem fixed itself. Good Luck and I hope this helps you!~Alison~
OK this would be my IDEAL BOYFRIED.........ALL GUYS SHOULD READ!
Ladies: this will make you tear up :)
fellas: read it, all of it! :)
1-touch their waist
2-talk to her
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly
are you remembering this?
6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when you're with your friends
keep reading
11-smile with her
12-take pictures with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back
15-when her friends say I love her more than you deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can鈥檛 get to her friends. It makes her feel loved
are you thinking about someone?
16-always hug her and say I love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
19-tell her she鈥檚 beautiful not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!
20 u need to show her you mean it too
21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You buy HER stuff
23-tell her what feels good
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her stuff. small things can still help
we might deny it but we actually like and kind of want you to get us things
26-don't lie to her
27-dont cheat on her
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, %26amp; even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you
are you still reading this u better be its important
31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If she鈥檚 upset, comfort her
remember this next time you are with her
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHE鈥橲 LOVED
41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always Remind her how much you love her.
you鈥檒l never know when she needs just a little more love
--------------------------------------鈥?br>
Some expectations of a good boyfriend
12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.
11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.
10) Kisses you every chance he gets.
9) Holds you close when your cold.
8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.
7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)
6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.
5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you.
4) When people diss you he stands up for you.
3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.
2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.
1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!)
--------------------------------------鈥?br>
If you think the one you love is worried about you two having a relationship then do the following:
1. Relax. Dont think so much.
2. With the parents, speak only when you know exactly what you鈥檙e going to say and you know they will reply well to what you have said.
3. With the ex. If you think she鈥檚 still into him ask her. Dont be accusing though that could be bad. Say something like: if you say you like only me ill believe you I just want to hear it from you.
4. Good luck and dont forget to chill.
Here's a list out of my little black book. I hope it helps and Good Luck in your journey! ~Alison~I dont feel like a man. I need advice?
just keep your self up. think about what made you get horny and continue to think about that.
I don't think you're being truthful about being nervous. Or you could totally dislike the feeling of the condom. Which is really unfortunate because they're important! Maybe try a different brand of condom and see if that helps. Something is turning you off right when you're about to penetrate. Maybe you can try fantasizing? Just don't tell your girlfriend it isn't her that you're thinking about!!!!
Calling all silly men.! I need advice on my man.?
My boyfriend is very silly and fun to be around.. I'm not too much of a ''creative'' person, so I need some fun and creative date ideas.... The more silly, the better !! C'mon help a girl out.. what kind of things do you really like to do?Calling all silly men.! I need advice on my man.?
Paint Ball is fun, but can hurt a lot after... :S
Today I went climbing up a mountain, that was really fun, also some romantic stops.
You could buy a big canvas and buy some water balloons but fill them up with paint, then tape them to the canvas all over and then get a dart with you and your boy friend and try and hit the paint balloons and once your done you will have a great memory to hang upon your wall. Fun times.
You could always build something together... Whether its a new desk you got or an old cubby house you never finished, but it always fun.
Hiking might be fun! Always good to get out and fresh air.
Theme parks might be fun too
Water balloon fight? hehe they are always great fun!
I hope these ideas are good, and you might consider or use them.
Good luck!!
鈾bbeyCalling all silly men.! I need advice on my man.?
gun range, golf range, concerts, or just get drunk thats always fun
i'm not silly, so i'm not qualify to answer....sorry
my b/f plays with me, keeps him straight.
Okay diamond_...,
Good Question. Here is what you do. Sit down, close your eyes and relax. Imagine that when you open your eyes there is someone in front of you waving there arms and making ';silly'; gestures in front of their body and in your direction. This is essentially what guys do. They will put things out there that are so grandiose and big that it distracts from what may be seen as mundane. Most people will look at what is right in front of them {ex. the waving arms, funny hand movements, etc}, but few people will bother to look past that and see what is going on closer to home. That is to say a lot of people will not bother to look at the face and notice the expression. Is it happy as the hands and arms suggest? Or is it sad, pensive, curious, unsure, etc... ? Sometimes folks aren't looking for someone to match what they can do (and why should they, they already have that covered.), sometimes they are looking for what complements what they already bring to the table. It is kinda like the saying everyone has baggage, look for someone who's baggage goes with yours. Don' t think you MUST change yourself to keep up. It could be that what you bring to the table is the perfect complement to what he already has.
If you still think that you need to be more exciting, well...that is hard to fake if you don't mean it. Go along for the ride (either figuratively or literally) and ask him to include you in on some of his ideas either for someone else (so you see his process in action), or for the both of you. Once you see his process and not just the end result you will have a better idea of weather this is something you think you will be truly interested in mimicking. Just remember some people are hunters, and some are gatherers. BUT, both are equally necessary. Hope that helps.
HAVE A DATE AT ZOO HE WILL ENJOY WITH OTHER ANIMALS AND YOU CAN SLEEP UNDER A TREE .
TOYS R US!!
there's so much fun stuff there, especially the bicycle section with the little ramps and stuff. The little house section is cool also.
My ex girl friend never wanted to go with me to Toys R Us, she was convinced it was ';immature'; and ';childish'; even though she admitted to being immature many times.
DAMN HER!!!
supermarket trolley races !
this is always fun.
then have a laugh together when you get kicked out.
PAint Ball GunZ....
BASeBAll GamE....
Water balloon Fight
Finger PAint(Each other)
Cookin' Classes or somethin'
ohh boxin' that sounds fun, not something that would sound great for a date but sounds fun.
sports game. local baseball/hockey/soccer team.
watch movies, go out for a drive, play cards, go for a walk, work out together, gossip, drink, sex, go window shopping
i like to wear a superman outfit, and have my girl wear mouse ears, ya know, like on the mickey mouse club. then we smear each other up with crunchy p=nut butter, add some whipped cream, turn the stereo up real loud to the ';battle hymn of the republic';, and the rest i cant say here.
Arey yaar then you must try PLANETORIUM.........itz really cool place to be...u will have a feeling of just being under the sky wid the one u luv...and also u can make it quite RoManTiC....
Whatever his interests are. You really need to pay attention to those. Do whatever he normally does with his friends or whatever, except do it alone with him.
how silly ? go to a themed restaurant ? hiring roller blades and a fairy out fit put him in a shopping trolley and push him through your local bottle shop buy him some beers go to the park and finish what you started?cosmetics
Paint Ball is fun, but can hurt a lot after... :S
Today I went climbing up a mountain, that was really fun, also some romantic stops.
You could buy a big canvas and buy some water balloons but fill them up with paint, then tape them to the canvas all over and then get a dart with you and your boy friend and try and hit the paint balloons and once your done you will have a great memory to hang upon your wall. Fun times.
You could always build something together... Whether its a new desk you got or an old cubby house you never finished, but it always fun.
Hiking might be fun! Always good to get out and fresh air.
Theme parks might be fun too
Water balloon fight? hehe they are always great fun!
I hope these ideas are good, and you might consider or use them.
Good luck!!
鈾bbeyCalling all silly men.! I need advice on my man.?
gun range, golf range, concerts, or just get drunk thats always fun
i'm not silly, so i'm not qualify to answer....sorry
my b/f plays with me, keeps him straight.
Okay diamond_...,
Good Question. Here is what you do. Sit down, close your eyes and relax. Imagine that when you open your eyes there is someone in front of you waving there arms and making ';silly'; gestures in front of their body and in your direction. This is essentially what guys do. They will put things out there that are so grandiose and big that it distracts from what may be seen as mundane. Most people will look at what is right in front of them {ex. the waving arms, funny hand movements, etc}, but few people will bother to look past that and see what is going on closer to home. That is to say a lot of people will not bother to look at the face and notice the expression. Is it happy as the hands and arms suggest? Or is it sad, pensive, curious, unsure, etc... ? Sometimes folks aren't looking for someone to match what they can do (and why should they, they already have that covered.), sometimes they are looking for what complements what they already bring to the table. It is kinda like the saying everyone has baggage, look for someone who's baggage goes with yours. Don' t think you MUST change yourself to keep up. It could be that what you bring to the table is the perfect complement to what he already has.
If you still think that you need to be more exciting, well...that is hard to fake if you don't mean it. Go along for the ride (either figuratively or literally) and ask him to include you in on some of his ideas either for someone else (so you see his process in action), or for the both of you. Once you see his process and not just the end result you will have a better idea of weather this is something you think you will be truly interested in mimicking. Just remember some people are hunters, and some are gatherers. BUT, both are equally necessary. Hope that helps.
HAVE A DATE AT ZOO HE WILL ENJOY WITH OTHER ANIMALS AND YOU CAN SLEEP UNDER A TREE .
TOYS R US!!
there's so much fun stuff there, especially the bicycle section with the little ramps and stuff. The little house section is cool also.
My ex girl friend never wanted to go with me to Toys R Us, she was convinced it was ';immature'; and ';childish'; even though she admitted to being immature many times.
DAMN HER!!!
supermarket trolley races !
this is always fun.
then have a laugh together when you get kicked out.
PAint Ball GunZ....
BASeBAll GamE....
Water balloon Fight
Finger PAint(Each other)
Cookin' Classes or somethin'
ohh boxin' that sounds fun, not something that would sound great for a date but sounds fun.
sports game. local baseball/hockey/soccer team.
watch movies, go out for a drive, play cards, go for a walk, work out together, gossip, drink, sex, go window shopping
i like to wear a superman outfit, and have my girl wear mouse ears, ya know, like on the mickey mouse club. then we smear each other up with crunchy p=nut butter, add some whipped cream, turn the stereo up real loud to the ';battle hymn of the republic';, and the rest i cant say here.
Arey yaar then you must try PLANETORIUM.........itz really cool place to be...u will have a feeling of just being under the sky wid the one u luv...and also u can make it quite RoManTiC....
Whatever his interests are. You really need to pay attention to those. Do whatever he normally does with his friends or whatever, except do it alone with him.
how silly ? go to a themed restaurant ? hiring roller blades and a fairy out fit put him in a shopping trolley and push him through your local bottle shop buy him some beers go to the park and finish what you started?
Need advice on dating a seperated man that still needs a divorce?
I have been dating a married but seperated man for about a year and a half. He also has 2 kids, 5 and 2. I've had nothing but stress in this relationship and he is extremely lazy. he lets everything in his life go including his car, has a crappy job and can barely afford to take care of his kids. He has had to move back in with his mother. Can this relationship really work or am i wasting my time?Need advice on dating a seperated man that still needs a divorce?
It sounds like you already know in your heart that this situation is problematic, which doesn't mean that this man is a good or bad person. You should be selective with who you spend your time and how you spend your time. Sure, everyone has problems but right off the bat you know this guy is still married. There's a reason why this relationship hasn't been legally determined. You mention that you have had ';nothing but stress in this relationship';--is this really how you envisioned a relationship? People who are married, especially with children, have a lot of ties and history. This situation would have more potential if he was at least divorced. Personally, I dated someone who was recently divorced. Generally speaking, guys don't sort and process things the way women do (we want closure darnit!) so it could take awhile for this man to be able to really look at his life and figure out what he wants. Don't just sit around waiting for him to get things together when Mr. Much-Closer-to-Perfect could be right around the corner.Need advice on dating a seperated man that still needs a divorce?
Where is your self respect?
Drop this loser and move on with your life.
You are most definitely wasting your time.
Ask yourself a question, do you really want to be with someone who is lazy, who leaves everything for you to do, who can barely support his kids? How is he going to support you? Do you want to be the one taking care of EVERYTHING? He's a grown man and he should act his age. Save yourself a lot of stress, time and misery and find someone who'll take care of you, and treat you like you deserve to be treated. Good Luck.
Now you know why his wife left him. He is so lazy and such a procratinator that he hasn't got a divorce, and so broke that can't even afford a lawyer or a place f his own.
He is a loser, drop him, there is no future here,. He is married and can't afford you. Don't keep on wasting time on this reject,.
Good luck
And what was it that attracted you to this loser? Wasn't the sex was it?
You sound as though you despise this man. Why are you dating him?
First of all, you should not be dating a married man - whatever the disposition is between him and his wife, the fact remains that he is married. In 5 lined of text, you called him lazy %26amp; stressful, with a crappy car %26amp; job who lives with his mom and can't take care of his kids. Why are you with him - he sounds like a LOSER! Dump him - plain %26amp; simple.
Rebound Loves, NEVER WORK. I'm Divorced,. And my first one didn't last. Look at making your future elsewhere.
You just answered your own question, move on and be happy, life's too short.Buy a book titled ';Women who love too much'; by the author Robin Norwood, empower yourself and only accept what you trully deserve out of life,never settle for second best.
It sounds like you already know in your heart that this situation is problematic, which doesn't mean that this man is a good or bad person. You should be selective with who you spend your time and how you spend your time. Sure, everyone has problems but right off the bat you know this guy is still married. There's a reason why this relationship hasn't been legally determined. You mention that you have had ';nothing but stress in this relationship';--is this really how you envisioned a relationship? People who are married, especially with children, have a lot of ties and history. This situation would have more potential if he was at least divorced. Personally, I dated someone who was recently divorced. Generally speaking, guys don't sort and process things the way women do (we want closure darnit!) so it could take awhile for this man to be able to really look at his life and figure out what he wants. Don't just sit around waiting for him to get things together when Mr. Much-Closer-to-Perfect could be right around the corner.Need advice on dating a seperated man that still needs a divorce?
Where is your self respect?
Drop this loser and move on with your life.
You are most definitely wasting your time.
Ask yourself a question, do you really want to be with someone who is lazy, who leaves everything for you to do, who can barely support his kids? How is he going to support you? Do you want to be the one taking care of EVERYTHING? He's a grown man and he should act his age. Save yourself a lot of stress, time and misery and find someone who'll take care of you, and treat you like you deserve to be treated. Good Luck.
Now you know why his wife left him. He is so lazy and such a procratinator that he hasn't got a divorce, and so broke that can't even afford a lawyer or a place f his own.
He is a loser, drop him, there is no future here,. He is married and can't afford you. Don't keep on wasting time on this reject,.
Good luck
And what was it that attracted you to this loser? Wasn't the sex was it?
You sound as though you despise this man. Why are you dating him?
First of all, you should not be dating a married man - whatever the disposition is between him and his wife, the fact remains that he is married. In 5 lined of text, you called him lazy %26amp; stressful, with a crappy car %26amp; job who lives with his mom and can't take care of his kids. Why are you with him - he sounds like a LOSER! Dump him - plain %26amp; simple.
Rebound Loves, NEVER WORK. I'm Divorced,. And my first one didn't last. Look at making your future elsewhere.
You just answered your own question, move on and be happy, life's too short.Buy a book titled ';Women who love too much'; by the author Robin Norwood, empower yourself and only accept what you trully deserve out of life,never settle for second best.
What kind of advice would a 18 yr.young man give to a new step parent coming into our home?
I have been a divorced mother for 18 yrs my son is 18 and I am getting married soon he'll be there for awhile until he decides to move out what advice would you give to him since there will be a step parent in the home and to the new husband i told my fiance you cant tell him what to do or get involved in the relationship between him and I unless i ask and it would be in the privacy of our room we can also talk all three of us but he is to be respectful to him if hes not happy he can move out anytime his feelings are importantWhat kind of advice would a 18 yr.young man give to a new step parent coming into our home?
I moved in with my fiancee (now husband) when my son was 19. It was decided by my fiancee and I that things would be discussed by the two of us before a final decision was made (just like we were already married). So, if my son wanted to do something that would normally require both parents to decide, my fiancee and I would discuss it first. I asked my son to show respect to my fiancee, and my fiancee to respect my son. We all lived together for 2 1/2 years before we married. Six months before we got married we set the ground rules regarding a time limit of how long he could live in the house with us. He moved out one month before his deadline. My son now loves his step-father like he was his own father, because my husband was there for him on a day to day basis helping him along life's path more than my ex ever did. I hope this helps.What kind of advice would a 18 yr.young man give to a new step parent coming into our home?
I think what you've done so far is a good start. I might word the ';if you're not happy, you can leave'; bit (although I know that isn't how you wrote it, it might sound that way to an 18 year old).
When I remarried, the only concern my oldest son (who has always said he wanted to live at home ';forever';) had was if he could ';still'; live at home for as long as he wanted with a new stepdad. My answer was yes (although he makes me question my sanity daily now that he's 16)....lol.
I think the important thing is that you remind your son (and maybe new husband) that you're all adults. Your son doesn't have to like your husband, but he has to respect him, simply because of the fact that you chose him. Your new husband in return, MUST realize that you and your son have a bond that will not be broken.
Good luck to you.
he need to show the new comer respect and your man needs to show him respect.that's the best i have good luck
I think you got it right. At 18 he should not have to start dealing with an authoritarian step-dad. He is a young adult and should be treated as one. Good luck.
Wonder how you can communicate in a 3-some if you can't even organize your thoughts here. Ask a 18 yr old to give advice to a new step parent?
Your son is now 18. He doesn't have to acknowledge the new guy as his STEP PARENT because technically he is not. The new guy marries his mom and that's about it. Your son doesn't have to call the guy Dad in any form because he needs no more parenting. All depends if you had asked your son for endorsement of the marriage.
And you gave the new guy 1/2 of the authority position in your house over your son and tell him what to do. You are setting up 2 men to butt head to be the alpha male of the house.
I moved in with my fiancee (now husband) when my son was 19. It was decided by my fiancee and I that things would be discussed by the two of us before a final decision was made (just like we were already married). So, if my son wanted to do something that would normally require both parents to decide, my fiancee and I would discuss it first. I asked my son to show respect to my fiancee, and my fiancee to respect my son. We all lived together for 2 1/2 years before we married. Six months before we got married we set the ground rules regarding a time limit of how long he could live in the house with us. He moved out one month before his deadline. My son now loves his step-father like he was his own father, because my husband was there for him on a day to day basis helping him along life's path more than my ex ever did. I hope this helps.What kind of advice would a 18 yr.young man give to a new step parent coming into our home?
I think what you've done so far is a good start. I might word the ';if you're not happy, you can leave'; bit (although I know that isn't how you wrote it, it might sound that way to an 18 year old).
When I remarried, the only concern my oldest son (who has always said he wanted to live at home ';forever';) had was if he could ';still'; live at home for as long as he wanted with a new stepdad. My answer was yes (although he makes me question my sanity daily now that he's 16)....lol.
I think the important thing is that you remind your son (and maybe new husband) that you're all adults. Your son doesn't have to like your husband, but he has to respect him, simply because of the fact that you chose him. Your new husband in return, MUST realize that you and your son have a bond that will not be broken.
Good luck to you.
he need to show the new comer respect and your man needs to show him respect.that's the best i have good luck
I think you got it right. At 18 he should not have to start dealing with an authoritarian step-dad. He is a young adult and should be treated as one. Good luck.
Wonder how you can communicate in a 3-some if you can't even organize your thoughts here. Ask a 18 yr old to give advice to a new step parent?
Your son is now 18. He doesn't have to acknowledge the new guy as his STEP PARENT because technically he is not. The new guy marries his mom and that's about it. Your son doesn't have to call the guy Dad in any form because he needs no more parenting. All depends if you had asked your son for endorsement of the marriage.
And you gave the new guy 1/2 of the authority position in your house over your son and tell him what to do. You are setting up 2 men to butt head to be the alpha male of the house.
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