GET OUT. Find a friend, find a family member, find a shelter. JUST GET OUT.What advice would you give a woman (or a man) who is being physically abused?
GO TO THE POLICE AND GET HELP RIGHT AWAY.What advice would you give a woman (or a man) who is being physically abused?
That person needs to get out of the house. Ask them if they have a child. Would they place their child in a yard where a dangerous dog lives? They are doing that by staying in the same house as an abuser. There are shelters available for women and most people can find a friend or family member who they can stay with. The abuser needs serious help and the abused person needs to not go back to them until they get help...and maybe not even then.
to get some help with improving their sense of self-worth.
You don't deserve this. He may never stop. It doesn't matter how much you love him, you can't change him. You don't need a him. That sort of thing, though it rarely works.
for one you don't deserve to get hit you know you don't so take a stand and leave yes you love that person and they say i love you but they don't or they would not hit you so you need to get out go to the cops file a report and don't give in go all the way put that person in jail give them what they deserve
no one deserves that you are better than that
It's not worth it in the long run, nothing is ever going to change, it won't get better, stop being a voluntary victim.
GEt help run away from the person contact professional help
to leave that dangerous situation immediately. Every city has shelters that can help the person. Stay and you may never be able to leave. Abuse only gets worse. Seek help immediately
Talk to sumone who they can trust and get help from them!!! Friend and family r always the best but if they dun want to talk to them ..see a counsellor...
I'll throw in with get out. As soon as possible. Any larger city will have a number of resources available to the abused. No one should stay in such a situation.
Once out, call the cops.
well I was in this situation before, and he used to always say that he would change, and by now I have pretty much figured out that you can't change anyone. It still happened and I still stayed because i was in love and he made me feel like I couldn't do any better. But my advice is to get ouyt as soon as you can and don't ever for a minute think he is going to change, cuz he isn't. It will only get worse. After I left i realized that that was the happiest I have been for the last 5 years that I was with him, but it is really funny how I still miss the sex, lol
If they've done it once, they'll do it again. It is not your fault or anything that YOU have done wrong. You just need to ask yourself this question ';is this what I REALLY deserve?'; NO ONE DESERVES TO BE PHYSICALLY ABUSED!!!
first get out any way possible....friends, family, co worker, any one u can TRUST....then call the cops...and get that jack *** arrested for abuse or assault what ever it is called in the police lingo....u dont need ot be in that place at all
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
ALL BROTHERS HELP A LOST BROTHER OUT PLESE. give me some bro to bro advice on chicks man?
when a girl says she is 'distressed and not very impressed', when you say you are 'feeling great'.
this girl used to like me. she said this on myspaceALL BROTHERS HELP A LOST BROTHER OUT PLESE. give me some bro to bro advice on chicks man?
It means she thinks you are FOS.ALL BROTHERS HELP A LOST BROTHER OUT PLESE. give me some bro to bro advice on chicks man?
women are beyond confusing. you can be married 40 years and 40 nights without really knowin what is going on in their head
UR SCKREWED
SORRY BRA
this girl used to like me. she said this on myspaceALL BROTHERS HELP A LOST BROTHER OUT PLESE. give me some bro to bro advice on chicks man?
It means she thinks you are FOS.ALL BROTHERS HELP A LOST BROTHER OUT PLESE. give me some bro to bro advice on chicks man?
women are beyond confusing. you can be married 40 years and 40 nights without really knowin what is going on in their head
UR SCKREWED
SORRY BRA
I am a strait man, i need hair advice.. cause face it we suck :D?
im looking to cut my hair more scene like, any good ideas?I am a strait man, i need hair advice.. cause face it we suck :D?
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I like this.. Its not too scene.. And it looks like he doesnt spend too much time doing it..
It looks hot.
:) xI am a strait man, i need hair advice.. cause face it we suck :D?
have it like zac effron if ur hairs long enough or short and spikey
I'm too old to even know what you are talking about. Scene??
i am a strait man, yeah sure
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I like this.. Its not too scene.. And it looks like he doesnt spend too much time doing it..
It looks hot.
:) xI am a strait man, i need hair advice.. cause face it we suck :D?
have it like zac effron if ur hairs long enough or short and spikey
I'm too old to even know what you are talking about. Scene??
i am a strait man, yeah sure
Please help - I need your advice on this man...
I stupidly had an affair with a married man which ended a year ago and although for a while we remained friends, (only speaking on the phone) I decided in April of this year to stop all contact in order for both of us to get on with our lives.
He seems to text me once a month, saying 'not a day goes by when he does not think about me' and 'he would love me to get in touch', so far I have deleted his texts and have no intention of making further contact.
Thing is, I am beggining to wonder how long this will continue, I love my husband and made a mistake and now I want to work on my marriage and feel this other guy should be doing the same.
Do I continue to ignore him or ring and ask him to not contact me further?
I know I was completely in the wrong to start this affair, so please no telling me what a silly cow I have been.Please help - I need your advice on this man...
You need to have a new phone number for starters. Also you need to not have any contact with him whatsoever. He probably feels that you got involved with him once so it should be easy for him to talk you into it again!! If you call him to ask him to not contact you he just may think it's because you are vulnerable and can't resist him. Just cut all ties. It's nice that you are trying to work on your marriage but it's probably stressful as well with this guy texting you and you having to try and keep everything from the affair quiet. Good Luck.Please help - I need your advice on this man...
I don't think there's too much you can do. I'm glad that you've come to your senses tho :) People make mistakes and we pay for them. You are now paying for yours unfortunately. I would continue to ignore his texts, think about changing your number. If he lives in the same town, you need to think about possibly running into him somewhere. That's something really hard to keep from your husband. You may even want to think about coming clean. I wish you the best.
I would call him and reiterate your need and want to be with your husband.
I would nicely ask him to stop calling because you are trying to put this period behind you.
Hopefully he is not a stalker and calls your husband. You may have to be honest with your husband and confess, as you may need his help to get rid of this guy if he does not stop calling.
The next time he texts you, text him back telling him to ';STOP IT';! Let it clearly be known to him that it is OVER. Tell him that your in love with your husband and your working hard at your marriage now. Tell him that he is the last person you will ever have an affair with and just tell him it was plain stupid on your part to have pursued it.
i would block his number on your cell. does he know where you live? does he know where you work? i ask this because hell sometimes has no fury like a psycho scorned. he might drive by your job, your house, or decide to narc you out to your husband. you might want to prepare for that fact or consider coming clean. it's gonna be better coming from you, than from your husband hearing intimate details of the sex with you, from this other guy.
If you ring him, he will get you all fuzzed up again. Ignore him. If possible, ';loose'; your cell phone and get a new one. But please, don't talk to him ever again. He had a way of talking himself into your life, and he can do it again in a heartbeat. Don't risk it.
You were a silly Cow. Does your husband know? Maybe you should tell him. Do you love this other guy or was it just about the sex? If you know what you want go for it but don't lead your husband to believe that you really meant the vows you stated on your wedding day when you don't.
Keep deleting his messages %26amp; ring your mobile provider today and ask for a new number. They do it for free. If you hubby asks why you changed the number, say you kept getting junk texts and stuff on it - premium rate ones etc and you don't know why.
:)
Lets be honest: **** happens. I would say, you write him a goodbye message saying like you wanna live your life and he should live his or so... If you really feel like he's stalking you, tell your husband. If he loves you, he'll understand and help you out of this mess.
simple...change ur no. and all the communicable details and have a deep sigh of relief..dun ever answer up any of texts or calls..sure u will change ur mind if u start to listen him....sobe awre of it..nd try not to do the same mistak again...
How ridiculous ! ...... get yourself a new ID
so he can't make anymore calls to you, do what you
have to , to get this with your other phone and make some
excuse.
What you need to do is block his # Completely!
I hope you told your Husband about your Affair!
just ignore him. any contact with him is just going to give him a glimmer of hope that he can get with you again. focus on your relationship with your husband
block his number or change yours, make no more contact with him leave him in your past, good luck
JUST TOTALLY IGNORE HIM. plus on the off chance your hubby doesn't know and you think this man may decide to let your hubby know if he doesn't already some howI would fill hiim in if he doesn't know and he finds out through someone else that may cause bigger problems but on the same hand if you tell him yourself it will still cause problems but maybe not as bad if he did hear it from someone else, or if he doesn't know you could go down the roadand not say anything hoping everything will be fine and the man won't take it any furthercosmetics
He seems to text me once a month, saying 'not a day goes by when he does not think about me' and 'he would love me to get in touch', so far I have deleted his texts and have no intention of making further contact.
Thing is, I am beggining to wonder how long this will continue, I love my husband and made a mistake and now I want to work on my marriage and feel this other guy should be doing the same.
Do I continue to ignore him or ring and ask him to not contact me further?
I know I was completely in the wrong to start this affair, so please no telling me what a silly cow I have been.Please help - I need your advice on this man...
You need to have a new phone number for starters. Also you need to not have any contact with him whatsoever. He probably feels that you got involved with him once so it should be easy for him to talk you into it again!! If you call him to ask him to not contact you he just may think it's because you are vulnerable and can't resist him. Just cut all ties. It's nice that you are trying to work on your marriage but it's probably stressful as well with this guy texting you and you having to try and keep everything from the affair quiet. Good Luck.Please help - I need your advice on this man...
I don't think there's too much you can do. I'm glad that you've come to your senses tho :) People make mistakes and we pay for them. You are now paying for yours unfortunately. I would continue to ignore his texts, think about changing your number. If he lives in the same town, you need to think about possibly running into him somewhere. That's something really hard to keep from your husband. You may even want to think about coming clean. I wish you the best.
I would call him and reiterate your need and want to be with your husband.
I would nicely ask him to stop calling because you are trying to put this period behind you.
Hopefully he is not a stalker and calls your husband. You may have to be honest with your husband and confess, as you may need his help to get rid of this guy if he does not stop calling.
The next time he texts you, text him back telling him to ';STOP IT';! Let it clearly be known to him that it is OVER. Tell him that your in love with your husband and your working hard at your marriage now. Tell him that he is the last person you will ever have an affair with and just tell him it was plain stupid on your part to have pursued it.
i would block his number on your cell. does he know where you live? does he know where you work? i ask this because hell sometimes has no fury like a psycho scorned. he might drive by your job, your house, or decide to narc you out to your husband. you might want to prepare for that fact or consider coming clean. it's gonna be better coming from you, than from your husband hearing intimate details of the sex with you, from this other guy.
If you ring him, he will get you all fuzzed up again. Ignore him. If possible, ';loose'; your cell phone and get a new one. But please, don't talk to him ever again. He had a way of talking himself into your life, and he can do it again in a heartbeat. Don't risk it.
You were a silly Cow. Does your husband know? Maybe you should tell him. Do you love this other guy or was it just about the sex? If you know what you want go for it but don't lead your husband to believe that you really meant the vows you stated on your wedding day when you don't.
Keep deleting his messages %26amp; ring your mobile provider today and ask for a new number. They do it for free. If you hubby asks why you changed the number, say you kept getting junk texts and stuff on it - premium rate ones etc and you don't know why.
:)
Lets be honest: **** happens. I would say, you write him a goodbye message saying like you wanna live your life and he should live his or so... If you really feel like he's stalking you, tell your husband. If he loves you, he'll understand and help you out of this mess.
simple...change ur no. and all the communicable details and have a deep sigh of relief..dun ever answer up any of texts or calls..sure u will change ur mind if u start to listen him....sobe awre of it..nd try not to do the same mistak again...
How ridiculous ! ...... get yourself a new ID
so he can't make anymore calls to you, do what you
have to , to get this with your other phone and make some
excuse.
What you need to do is block his # Completely!
I hope you told your Husband about your Affair!
just ignore him. any contact with him is just going to give him a glimmer of hope that he can get with you again. focus on your relationship with your husband
block his number or change yours, make no more contact with him leave him in your past, good luck
JUST TOTALLY IGNORE HIM. plus on the off chance your hubby doesn't know and you think this man may decide to let your hubby know if he doesn't already some howI would fill hiim in if he doesn't know and he finds out through someone else that may cause bigger problems but on the same hand if you tell him yourself it will still cause problems but maybe not as bad if he did hear it from someone else, or if he doesn't know you could go down the roadand not say anything hoping everything will be fine and the man won't take it any further
Does anyone understand me, please help any advice appreciated, man trouble ='(?
Well Ive not had a boyfriend for 13 years (when I was in primary school and it dosnt exactly matter), I've always been dead insecure about myself and about saying the right things to fit in, anyway there's a man I've met and really fallen in the deep with, he's just so perfect for me and I feel I totally understand him and we're so compatible, he's definately single but a bit of a womaniser and a flirt, when I'm with him and we're having a chat I see deeper than that front he puts on and see a man who who is passionate about the things her does and music, he dosnt know how I feel about him and I'm so clumsy and unexperienced I really dint know what to do or say, I'd hate to loose him to some other woman who didn't love him as much as me or understand him, please help me, I really appreciate it, xxxxxxDoes anyone understand me, please help any advice appreciated, man trouble ='(?
As shy as you are (and believe me I know shy) just try to subtly get in his personal space. Lean a little closer to him when you talk and even closer when he talks. Once you are into his personal space just look in his eyes and don't flinch. If he doesn't move on you then slightly brush his arm or whatever other body part you are close to. Oh yeah, don't forget to smile in his eyes!Does anyone understand me, please help any advice appreciated, man trouble ='(?
wear wool and make a baaaaaing noise.. he'll love you forever.. yakki da!
Ok, this means you are 14 and have met a man who is after you.
Welcome to puberty.
There is no man on the planet perfect for a 14-year-old inexperienced girl.
If he is older than 17, he is a pedophile. No matter how perfect he is, he is a user and abuser FIRST.Stay away from him.
If you aren't 14, you sound 14. Same thing.
Some guys will SAY ANYTHING to get your drawers off. If he is a womanizer and a flirt, he is not interested in YOU as a person, but as a thing to overcome/ a trophy.
RUN!Unless you want to end of feeling like trash.
If you are dead insecure about yourself-you do not need
a womanizing jerk to make you feel better about yourself. You need to do some personal homework. You need to learn to accept yourself and love your body. You need to understand that everyone is insecure about something. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses.
You do not need a guy to buck you up
Meditate, exercise, eat well, develop your brain, find a PASSION of your own-not some stupid man, but YOUR OWN LIFE. Do you like animals? Become a vet.
You like dancing? Become a critic.
You like baking? Open a bakery.
You like money, take accounting.
As you grow up and embrace your own contribution to the world, you will find a MAN who is interested in YOU-all of you- and you MIGHT LET HIM IN. Or not!
You won't be in the position of taking what he wants to give you.
I wish I could save you from the pain you are going to experience by letting some man give you your sense of self --value. If he gives it, he can take it away, and what have you got?
Him, him, him///do you hear yourself? Where are you? Who are you?
Good luck, hon.
You must tell him. Its time to take a chance my friend. You'll kick yourself if you dont
Well shy gal...the only way you will kill 2 birds with one stone is to bed him!...yoI'll soon find out what he really wanted...and secondly...u'll get out of your shyness in that area of life...go on..have fun..but don't get toooo emotionally involved till you are sure about this womaniser
if you don t tell him your feelings he wont understand what your feelings and you wont understand his either
You are never going to know how he feels unless you talk to him about it. Hiding it will never get you anywhere. If he feels the same, great. If not, you will get over him with time. Besides, if he really is such a flirt, it is hard to break men of that habit. Analise things a bit but don't be to quick to judgment, it could mean nothing and be harmless.
first of all: be yourself. Forget about your fears, about the way u talk or act- it doesn't matter as much as being yourself.it means you will appear in front of him like a unusual personality as many others will play the game of being attractive.i would say it often fails to be the right one.
Let's say, you are trying to say very nice things and play like a marionette in front of him; but can u realize that is he is a little smart he will see just a simple mask, a think u can see every day.
Eventually, being yourself, u will appear as unique,as a pink flamingo in a crowd of pinguins:)
wish u good luck.
try going out on a ';romantic style '; dinner and wine and see how it goes ?
if he doesnt ';pounce '; on you by then, he is probabaly not interested !
Awww. That is so sweet. Hmmm. I guess, if you really think that you could be together, try waiting a little bit. You said he was a flirt, maybe he's just playing with that girl or something. But when that guy respects you %26amp; treats you very special, maybe you guys will really fit together. Push a little more effort in knowing this guy. Get him closer to you by inviting him in a lunch, or asking him to go watch a movie. You can do it! Just hang on a little more %26amp; when the right time comes, he'll be yours =)
Just straight up and tell him how you feel.
It's time to step up, your going to have to do it sometime or another.
If you stumble/stutter he will probably think it's just cute!
If he is as good as a guy as you have made him sound, he will be gentle.
What's the worst he can say, he can't.
Just tell him how you feel.
You got to do it sometime,
Good luck!!
just go for it honey, by the sound of it he may feel the same way as you do. you have to tell him how you feel or you'll go crazy, i came out of a very bad relationship didn't feel if i wanted to know any man then don't ya know it i meet someone who was perfect for me, i prowled around him for months got to know him as i friend 1st then thought why the hell not, told him how i felt that, i loved him etc............. he told me he felt the same! now we live together have a beautiful daughter and I'm going to ask him to marry me next year(leap yr) that's if he doesn't beat me to it tho! good luck my fingers are crossed for you xxx
Well if you feel so strong about it what are you waiting for? if you say nothing to him then he meets some one else you may regret it for the rest of ur life...... However if you think he is a womaniser im unsure of why you want him so bad, unless its just ur sure u can change him (which btw u cant) anyway u just need to let ur feelings be known to this guy and let him know that u wont tollerate his womanising ways and that he should be sure of what he wants from the relationship b4 he commits his self....... or else lol. good luck with it all hope it goes the way u want.
Be yourself is the main thing.Take it slowly .Tell him that you find it interesting to talk to him and enjoy his company,buy admit you are a shy person as there is nothing wrong in that.See what his reaction is but dont fall in love to much and jump in to fast.Be honest with him as men apprciate that.You have been without a boyfriend for so long and this may seem so good.Try to find out what he is looking for friend/girlfriend Be interested in what he does and tell him you understand that. Dont get hurt though.You have a crush,but how does he see you
Why not just come out and tell him? I you have taken your time and gotten to know him and put some time into making sure it would work then I don't see why jumping in now isn't a good idea, especially if you have gotten close.
There is always one point where you have to put all your cards on the table so to speak and when you do it can either turn out great i he likes you to or it can be that he only wants to be friends. But if you never ask him then you will never know.
Wait until you have some time together alone and tell him you really like him and see what he says, you don't have to tell him you are paranoid of another women taking him just tell him how you feel. If you don't someone else will eventually.
I understand your need to want to be with one some one special,
but you really need to look at the possibilities , that it is not meant to be, just be your self and be nice around him drop subtle hints and pray, but if it is not meant to be then it will not.
Why don't you open up to him and tell him how you feel. We are in the millenium so you can't expect to let him figure it out. Now a days we women go for what we want. If you don't someone else will. tell him that you have feelings for him, a lot of feelings for him. tell him what you like about him and while you're at it tell him what you don't.
OI! you're british right? take your time try to think of a way you can telll him about how you feel, it wont come out perfect no matter how you try, but its ok, because if he feels a bit of the same way as you do, he will understand, all i can say is good luck, i hope everything turns out good for you
Try and make it better
Well, just be yourself, don't try too hard to impress him.
You said yourself he's a bit of a womanizer and a flirt, you have to be VERY careful there, as this could lead to a broken heart. I'ts better to be single with your heart intact, than with somebody who will break it.
Give him some signals that you are interested, and see if he picks them up, if he's interested he should, if he's not, keep searching, as there's more guys out there!
good luck!
Let him know that you like being with him and spending time with him. Tell him that you care about him. But dont tell him that you love him, you could scare him. Men are easily frightened.
See what he says. But chances are he likes you if he hangs with you and spends time with you. Maybe he likes you just as a friend or more?
Pray about it!
just try to make it better and forget it!
first step is to tell him how you feel, or at least let him know that you're interested in him as more than a friend. if you don't do that, you'll never get a chance.
i know that this is a real hard thing to do. when you next see him, just kiss him, right there on the spot. and then tell him how you feel about him. it's hard but go for it!
As shy as you are (and believe me I know shy) just try to subtly get in his personal space. Lean a little closer to him when you talk and even closer when he talks. Once you are into his personal space just look in his eyes and don't flinch. If he doesn't move on you then slightly brush his arm or whatever other body part you are close to. Oh yeah, don't forget to smile in his eyes!Does anyone understand me, please help any advice appreciated, man trouble ='(?
wear wool and make a baaaaaing noise.. he'll love you forever.. yakki da!
Ok, this means you are 14 and have met a man who is after you.
Welcome to puberty.
There is no man on the planet perfect for a 14-year-old inexperienced girl.
If he is older than 17, he is a pedophile. No matter how perfect he is, he is a user and abuser FIRST.Stay away from him.
If you aren't 14, you sound 14. Same thing.
Some guys will SAY ANYTHING to get your drawers off. If he is a womanizer and a flirt, he is not interested in YOU as a person, but as a thing to overcome/ a trophy.
RUN!Unless you want to end of feeling like trash.
If you are dead insecure about yourself-you do not need
a womanizing jerk to make you feel better about yourself. You need to do some personal homework. You need to learn to accept yourself and love your body. You need to understand that everyone is insecure about something. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses.
You do not need a guy to buck you up
Meditate, exercise, eat well, develop your brain, find a PASSION of your own-not some stupid man, but YOUR OWN LIFE. Do you like animals? Become a vet.
You like dancing? Become a critic.
You like baking? Open a bakery.
You like money, take accounting.
As you grow up and embrace your own contribution to the world, you will find a MAN who is interested in YOU-all of you- and you MIGHT LET HIM IN. Or not!
You won't be in the position of taking what he wants to give you.
I wish I could save you from the pain you are going to experience by letting some man give you your sense of self --value. If he gives it, he can take it away, and what have you got?
Him, him, him///do you hear yourself? Where are you? Who are you?
Good luck, hon.
You must tell him. Its time to take a chance my friend. You'll kick yourself if you dont
Well shy gal...the only way you will kill 2 birds with one stone is to bed him!...yoI'll soon find out what he really wanted...and secondly...u'll get out of your shyness in that area of life...go on..have fun..but don't get toooo emotionally involved till you are sure about this womaniser
if you don t tell him your feelings he wont understand what your feelings and you wont understand his either
You are never going to know how he feels unless you talk to him about it. Hiding it will never get you anywhere. If he feels the same, great. If not, you will get over him with time. Besides, if he really is such a flirt, it is hard to break men of that habit. Analise things a bit but don't be to quick to judgment, it could mean nothing and be harmless.
first of all: be yourself. Forget about your fears, about the way u talk or act- it doesn't matter as much as being yourself.it means you will appear in front of him like a unusual personality as many others will play the game of being attractive.i would say it often fails to be the right one.
Let's say, you are trying to say very nice things and play like a marionette in front of him; but can u realize that is he is a little smart he will see just a simple mask, a think u can see every day.
Eventually, being yourself, u will appear as unique,as a pink flamingo in a crowd of pinguins:)
wish u good luck.
try going out on a ';romantic style '; dinner and wine and see how it goes ?
if he doesnt ';pounce '; on you by then, he is probabaly not interested !
Awww. That is so sweet. Hmmm. I guess, if you really think that you could be together, try waiting a little bit. You said he was a flirt, maybe he's just playing with that girl or something. But when that guy respects you %26amp; treats you very special, maybe you guys will really fit together. Push a little more effort in knowing this guy. Get him closer to you by inviting him in a lunch, or asking him to go watch a movie. You can do it! Just hang on a little more %26amp; when the right time comes, he'll be yours =)
Just straight up and tell him how you feel.
It's time to step up, your going to have to do it sometime or another.
If you stumble/stutter he will probably think it's just cute!
If he is as good as a guy as you have made him sound, he will be gentle.
What's the worst he can say, he can't.
Just tell him how you feel.
You got to do it sometime,
Good luck!!
just go for it honey, by the sound of it he may feel the same way as you do. you have to tell him how you feel or you'll go crazy, i came out of a very bad relationship didn't feel if i wanted to know any man then don't ya know it i meet someone who was perfect for me, i prowled around him for months got to know him as i friend 1st then thought why the hell not, told him how i felt that, i loved him etc............. he told me he felt the same! now we live together have a beautiful daughter and I'm going to ask him to marry me next year(leap yr) that's if he doesn't beat me to it tho! good luck my fingers are crossed for you xxx
Well if you feel so strong about it what are you waiting for? if you say nothing to him then he meets some one else you may regret it for the rest of ur life...... However if you think he is a womaniser im unsure of why you want him so bad, unless its just ur sure u can change him (which btw u cant) anyway u just need to let ur feelings be known to this guy and let him know that u wont tollerate his womanising ways and that he should be sure of what he wants from the relationship b4 he commits his self....... or else lol. good luck with it all hope it goes the way u want.
Be yourself is the main thing.Take it slowly .Tell him that you find it interesting to talk to him and enjoy his company,buy admit you are a shy person as there is nothing wrong in that.See what his reaction is but dont fall in love to much and jump in to fast.Be honest with him as men apprciate that.You have been without a boyfriend for so long and this may seem so good.Try to find out what he is looking for friend/girlfriend Be interested in what he does and tell him you understand that. Dont get hurt though.You have a crush,but how does he see you
Why not just come out and tell him? I you have taken your time and gotten to know him and put some time into making sure it would work then I don't see why jumping in now isn't a good idea, especially if you have gotten close.
There is always one point where you have to put all your cards on the table so to speak and when you do it can either turn out great i he likes you to or it can be that he only wants to be friends. But if you never ask him then you will never know.
Wait until you have some time together alone and tell him you really like him and see what he says, you don't have to tell him you are paranoid of another women taking him just tell him how you feel. If you don't someone else will eventually.
I understand your need to want to be with one some one special,
but you really need to look at the possibilities , that it is not meant to be, just be your self and be nice around him drop subtle hints and pray, but if it is not meant to be then it will not.
Why don't you open up to him and tell him how you feel. We are in the millenium so you can't expect to let him figure it out. Now a days we women go for what we want. If you don't someone else will. tell him that you have feelings for him, a lot of feelings for him. tell him what you like about him and while you're at it tell him what you don't.
OI! you're british right? take your time try to think of a way you can telll him about how you feel, it wont come out perfect no matter how you try, but its ok, because if he feels a bit of the same way as you do, he will understand, all i can say is good luck, i hope everything turns out good for you
Try and make it better
Well, just be yourself, don't try too hard to impress him.
You said yourself he's a bit of a womanizer and a flirt, you have to be VERY careful there, as this could lead to a broken heart. I'ts better to be single with your heart intact, than with somebody who will break it.
Give him some signals that you are interested, and see if he picks them up, if he's interested he should, if he's not, keep searching, as there's more guys out there!
good luck!
Let him know that you like being with him and spending time with him. Tell him that you care about him. But dont tell him that you love him, you could scare him. Men are easily frightened.
See what he says. But chances are he likes you if he hangs with you and spends time with you. Maybe he likes you just as a friend or more?
Pray about it!
just try to make it better and forget it!
first step is to tell him how you feel, or at least let him know that you're interested in him as more than a friend. if you don't do that, you'll never get a chance.
i know that this is a real hard thing to do. when you next see him, just kiss him, right there on the spot. and then tell him how you feel about him. it's hard but go for it!
What advice have you gotten from a song? (example - ';You can't talk to a man with a shotgun in his hand';)?
That's from Carole King's ';Smackwater Jack';, by the way. Listen - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNXClKAoh鈥?/a>
** You can learn a lot from songs. Links are encouraged, but not required. Please, no swearing or offensive lyrics. Thanks!What advice have you gotten from a song? (example - ';You can't talk to a man with a shotgun in his hand';)?
Hi Spaz,
This one of my favorite pieces of a lyric. It's from Pink Floyd, the Animals album, song is called Dogs. And the line goes like this'; You have to be trusted, by the people that you lie to, so that when they turn their backs on you, you'll get the chance to put the knife in';
I'm not a back stabber, but sometimes it seems like my back is used for target practice.
http://pinkfloyd-co.com/disco/animals/an鈥?/a>What advice have you gotten from a song? (example - ';You can't talk to a man with a shotgun in his hand';)?
bedroom talk - the starting line
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0OBJvrncm鈥?/a>
';if it happens than it happens and that's all';
fifteen - taylor swift
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JR1nscSaI鈥?/a>
';when you're 15... somebody tells you they love you, and you're gonna believe them';
when you say nothing at all - Alison Krauss
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AuJrEBtmM鈥?/a>
body language shows more emotion than words
There is this song called GUN POWDER AND LEAD and it gave me the advice not to let boy's or men run all over you cause your just as good as them don't let them miss treat you oh and by the way that song is country and by Mrianda Lambert
Once told me you got to play your hand
sometimes the cards ain't worth a dime
if you don't lay'em down.
from grateful dead's truckin.
** You can learn a lot from songs. Links are encouraged, but not required. Please, no swearing or offensive lyrics. Thanks!What advice have you gotten from a song? (example - ';You can't talk to a man with a shotgun in his hand';)?
Hi Spaz,
This one of my favorite pieces of a lyric. It's from Pink Floyd, the Animals album, song is called Dogs. And the line goes like this'; You have to be trusted, by the people that you lie to, so that when they turn their backs on you, you'll get the chance to put the knife in';
I'm not a back stabber, but sometimes it seems like my back is used for target practice.
http://pinkfloyd-co.com/disco/animals/an鈥?/a>What advice have you gotten from a song? (example - ';You can't talk to a man with a shotgun in his hand';)?
bedroom talk - the starting line
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0OBJvrncm鈥?/a>
';if it happens than it happens and that's all';
fifteen - taylor swift
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JR1nscSaI鈥?/a>
';when you're 15... somebody tells you they love you, and you're gonna believe them';
when you say nothing at all - Alison Krauss
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AuJrEBtmM鈥?/a>
body language shows more emotion than words
There is this song called GUN POWDER AND LEAD and it gave me the advice not to let boy's or men run all over you cause your just as good as them don't let them miss treat you oh and by the way that song is country and by Mrianda Lambert
Once told me you got to play your hand
sometimes the cards ain't worth a dime
if you don't lay'em down.
from grateful dead's truckin.
A woman who need advice from a man
ok guys, you been with your girlfriend or wife for some years and then the spark that was once there is gone. What would you like your woman to do or both do together to get that spark back. A woman who need advice from a man
Just do the things she use to do when we first started dating, Have use spend some time together, have her tell me all the nice things she told me when we first met.... I would also like her to do things because she wants to, not because she has to! But really I would like to see you happy! I would like to know that you still love me and that you enjoy my company!!! Go out an have fun, doing something we both like if not just me knowing that she doesn't really like it that much, but would do it for me! Just really I would like her to be her! And I know you were probably thinking about the sex life! Sex should be passionate, not like its something that were doing because theres some freetime!A woman who need advice from a man
Threesome
Just do the things she use to do when we first started dating, Have use spend some time together, have her tell me all the nice things she told me when we first met.... I would also like her to do things because she wants to, not because she has to! But really I would like to see you happy! I would like to know that you still love me and that you enjoy my company!!! Go out an have fun, doing something we both like if not just me knowing that she doesn't really like it that much, but would do it for me! Just really I would like her to be her! And I know you were probably thinking about the sex life! Sex should be passionate, not like its something that were doing because theres some freetime!A woman who need advice from a man
Threesome
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