I am seeing someone, now, at the mo we arent in a relationship, we are seeing how it goes...we have known each other a long time and when we were 18 and in mid twenties he was a bit of a player. However, we have been in each others lives for years and love each other. BUT...he came round mine today and some girl (in his phone as 'BABYGIRL') rang his phone..I saw her name flash up and he didnt answer it - so I got angry and questioned him. I made him try and call her back in front of me but he said it was just ringing! convenient eh!? I know I told him at the beggining that I was dating other guys but Im not now and it all seems a bit dodgy!?! then he had to pop out of my house and even then I dont know why! then when he came back I asked him..he said he had to meet a friend! hmmm AND he never stays over at my house! AND...he was really trying to say ''I love you, I wont hurt you..'' etc..so I said prove it and stay over this evening..but he said I have to go and get food! ?? help please this may be obvious to you, but we arent official and I am wondering am I over reacting? thanksHelp - man dilemma! good advice please?
That is confusing, but I hope this will help:
I have discovered that some of the best years of my life have been spent with my best friend. I found my best friend at a party one night at my house, we dated, fell in love and got married. Now we are deffinatly not the perfect couple, but we have never gave up on each other.
How does this relate to you? If you and this guy are good friends then the two of you should get together, and you should confess how much you like him, once the commitment is out there if he still talks to ';baby girl'; then you should move on.
Life is definitely not worth living by yourself, so don't wait until the guy gets scarfed up by ';baby girl'; and tell him, he might be waiting for you to tell him, and just dropping hints of this Baby girl to make you jealous and eventually ask him. Just a thought.Help - man dilemma! good advice please?
What is it they say?
A Leopard Never Changes It's Spots....
You could obviously do so much better, leave the man with BABYGIRL and find someone who actually deserves you, don't let him walk all over you cause' your self-esteem will get damaged, and you will be left heartbroken.
Your worth more than this, remember that.
I think that you are trying to take the relationship to a place that it has not reached yet. Give him space, it will either work out your way or it will not. It does sound as though you are not the only woman in his life though.
As long as you aren't ';official'; he thinks that how he's acting is acceptable. You are saying that you aren't in a relationship but your feelings towards him look as though you want him to be exclusive to you.
If you want to be with him and have him just be with you I think you need to make that clear. On the other hand, I also see it as if he really wanted to be with you and only you then he wouldn't be acting all dodgy and suspicious in his actions. Seems like he is getting just what he wants -- a girl that likes him (you) and some other girls that he gets some attention from, too.
Even though time has past it doesn't really seem like he's changed so you should really think about this before you decide if you want to be in a relationship with him.
You said in your question that you are not in a relationship with this man, I would say that if you want a relationship with this man, that it is up to you to make it one.
If you really care about him, then tell him how you really, really, feel!
He does not know how you feel, so that is why the calls he is getting, and his lack of communication on his part as to where he is going is confusing you, because you are not communicating with him how you really, really, feel.
Communication is the key in any friendship and/or relationship.
Sorry to telly! hes still a player n at a guess hes maybe livin with bbgirl or someone else, consider yaself lucky to find out now before it went any further eh? just laugh it off n keep him as a friend or a fkcu buddy which im sure hed appreciate, better still, just pretend and say ya dont really want a full blown relationship as you still want others and say you just wanna be fcuk buddies as you wanna see others and if he jumps at the chance youll know the truth that hes still the same player of old.x
You're wayyyyyyyy overeacting! And he's still a player.
If he won't stay with you at night, where is he staying? My guess is ';BABYGIRL's'; place. If he is just going to meet a friend, why can't you go with him? Next time he tries to leave like that, ask if you can go. I don't think he will let you.
i would tell this guy to take a hike,he`s obviously messing around with';BABYGIRL'; have some respect for yourself and don't let him play you.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I need advice on my man that i been with for 4 yrs!!!?
my man be in rehab for herion and cocaine. he has been in there for six months next month he will be transfer to the half way house. DO U THINK I SHOULD STAY WITH HIM OR DO U THINK HE WILL CHANGE?I need advice on my man that i been with for 4 yrs!!!?
Ummmm.... do you? Cocaine and heroine or some pretty heavy drugs. Only time can tell. I won't say he can't change... because my uncle has been clean for 7 years for being hooked on crack for 15 years. He now has his own apartment, car, and a savings account with money. But I will tell you that it's not often someone that's addicted to heavy drugs like that comes out fully recovered. I myself couldn't deal with it. I'd let him go.I need advice on my man that i been with for 4 yrs!!!?
if u beleive he will change than stay with him and if u truly love him.if he doesnt than find someone who loves u enough whos willing to drop all drug habbits.
he cheated on you, got another girl pregnant AND got you pregnant??? uhh what the hell is WRONG with you? and you want a kid with this scum bag??beauty
Ummmm.... do you? Cocaine and heroine or some pretty heavy drugs. Only time can tell. I won't say he can't change... because my uncle has been clean for 7 years for being hooked on crack for 15 years. He now has his own apartment, car, and a savings account with money. But I will tell you that it's not often someone that's addicted to heavy drugs like that comes out fully recovered. I myself couldn't deal with it. I'd let him go.I need advice on my man that i been with for 4 yrs!!!?
if u beleive he will change than stay with him and if u truly love him.if he doesnt than find someone who loves u enough whos willing to drop all drug habbits.
he cheated on you, got another girl pregnant AND got you pregnant??? uhh what the hell is WRONG with you? and you want a kid with this scum bag??
Advice on Basketball Big Man position (Center)?
I'm 6'1, 9th grade and trying out for JV for the first time what are some good practicing drills for pretty much anything like jumping and posting up. I have the advantage of height but Im not the most skilled player on the team. Plus what are the tryouts like.Advice on Basketball Big Man position (Center)?
Hey, I can't really give any advice because I also recently started although am 6ft 6. For practising drills best thing I would say is like join the gym do some sqauts, calf raises anything really to increase your vertical jump for better rebounds and jumping.
The drills you should really be doing should increase your strenght or speed ( Never take a long long run for more burst).
Hey, I can't really give any advice because I also recently started although am 6ft 6. For practising drills best thing I would say is like join the gym do some sqauts, calf raises anything really to increase your vertical jump for better rebounds and jumping.
The drills you should really be doing should increase your strenght or speed ( Never take a long long run for more burst).
Is this good advice for men for them to wait to marry until they can financially support two households? ?
Given that the divorce rate is between 50 to 70% and for the most part in divorce settlements men are required to pay child support, alimony, in addition to splitting up half or more of the assets acquired during the marriage, isn't the above statement good advice for men to follow because a significant portion of them will have to support two households. Is this good advice for men for them to wait to marry until they can financially support two households? ?
Maybe good advice for the weak and lazy man who doesn't know how to keep a woman. Or the guys who never really commit to the person they are with and the players and scum who can't keep it in there pants. Really if you have an honest man and woman and they have love for one and another and do not believe in divorce then you would not need this but in reality this is what prenups are for.
Is this good advice for men for them to wait to marry until they can financially support two households? ?
Well, with logic like that, you might as well tell males that they should delay marriage until they can financially support at least three households: their own, the one of their ex's (including or not including the couple's children, if any, as the case may be), and the one of their lover(s) due to children born to the same out-of-wedlock as a result of the male's infidelity.
Based on my personal experience, you should also tell women that they need to wait until they can financially support two households. I'm the one paying huge spousal support after my divorce and lost nearly all of my assets in the process!
Welcome to the 21st Century. The best advice to people getting married is to make sure you have a rock solid prenuptial agreement.
any men need to sign pre-nup to protect themselves. just like buying insurance. Any uptight women who refuse to have hidden agenda and need to find a stupid sucker
Maybe good advice for the weak and lazy man who doesn't know how to keep a woman. Or the guys who never really commit to the person they are with and the players and scum who can't keep it in there pants. Really if you have an honest man and woman and they have love for one and another and do not believe in divorce then you would not need this but in reality this is what prenups are for.
Is this good advice for men for them to wait to marry until they can financially support two households? ?
Well, with logic like that, you might as well tell males that they should delay marriage until they can financially support at least three households: their own, the one of their ex's (including or not including the couple's children, if any, as the case may be), and the one of their lover(s) due to children born to the same out-of-wedlock as a result of the male's infidelity.
Based on my personal experience, you should also tell women that they need to wait until they can financially support two households. I'm the one paying huge spousal support after my divorce and lost nearly all of my assets in the process!
Welcome to the 21st Century. The best advice to people getting married is to make sure you have a rock solid prenuptial agreement.
any men need to sign pre-nup to protect themselves. just like buying insurance. Any uptight women who refuse to have hidden agenda and need to find a stupid sucker
Ladies: Whats the best advice would you give to a man?
to make his wife happy?
p.s.
I seen many men who claimed to understand the woman, but most of them really don't.
i myself is divorced .. but still got big hopes : )Ladies: Whats the best advice would you give to a man?
Don't take your wife for granted.. Help with chores without being asked. Make her feel like she is the sexiest women to you. Listen to her. Try and remain good humored and happy through the rough stuff. Find out what stresses her out and try not to do those things. She will in turn make you happy.
Best of Luck to You!Ladies: Whats the best advice would you give to a man?
DON'T CHEAT!!! DON'T check out other women right in front of your wife/girlfriend/fiance!!!~ even if you think their not watching because they are...they know when something tempting is about to cross your path and they find a way to see you check her out whether by looking straight at you, out of the corner of her eye, or thru a reflection. Most of all DON'T LIE--no matter how small or large the situation is that you're lying about, we always find out when you're lying and once a woman catches you lying she can't ever trust you again after that and there goes the relationship because you can't have a relationship without trust!
Make her feel that she is the most Beautiful woman in your eyes. Make sure you are faithful, loving, honest, helpful and her best friend. Make sure you are satisfying her to the fullest in and out of the bedroom. Being a great lover is a biggie. Help her around the house. It should be a 50/50 relationship. Communication is the key to a happy marriage.
A woman wants the world to revolve around her. Always keep that in mind. There's no simple formula but keep your eye open for chances to make her feel like she's on a pedestal. This can be as simple as asking what she thinks and taking her advice. Do it without making a show of it, naturally so it seems sincere. Remember we're not as oblivious to little things as you guys are so be subtle.
Also remember that we care what other people think more than you do so look to attack the problem indirectly through her friends. If her friends think you're great, so will she. Remember that if you say something good about her to one of her friends it will reach her ears eventually. Just a simple comment about her looks or smarts or talents.
Good luck!
1) Ask her what she wants.
2) Listen to what she tells you.
3) Follow through.
Woman really aren't that difficult to get. Most women will honestly tell you what they want you just have to be open enough to listen, then act on what you have heard. Many men are lazy when it comes to follow through. When you are dating someone you know how to woo them, just keep that up once your in a relationship never get to complacent or too comfortable.
my husband makes me very happy and the craziest thing is its the little things he does and he always has since we first got together.. most mens main problem is they dont realize that whatever it was about them that made the women attracted to them in the first place sometimes they change and the women dont like who they turned into...my husband before we were married would take me out every to dinner every thurs. night and we would go to the movies every other sat. even if there was no movie we wanted to see he will surprise me at work with cards and flowers and i never know when there going to come and the messages he has on them always makes me feel like im the only women in the world well anyway ive been with now for 4 years and i dont plan on giving him up for anything... I HOPE THIS HELPS
to listen to the, to really sit down and listen to them. and help around the house, with the kids. and make family night out. one day a week to forget the madness, no matter if your fighting or not. to have a family day out. most woman like flowers, but, they really want is someone to have fun with and to be able to talk to them and they actually answerer back. and if they are a busy couple date night is so important. words are words and sometimes cheap, show it.
For starters..
don't be a jerk,
be a gentleman,
show good manners,
be respectful %26amp; responsible,
show affection,
compliment your woman,
be faithful,
be generous,
don't annoy her,
don't abuse (physically, mentally, sexually) her,
don't make her your personal slave,
support her or help her financially if she needs you,
don't be an alcoholic,
kick out your addictions,
don't get a jerk for a friend,
don't stay in touch with other women,
don't come home late after work without a good excuse,
don't disrespect her family,
respect her hobbies,
don't throw away her things without permission,
don't be rude,
never give up,
don't spend your money unwisely,
don't talk bad about her,
don't flirt,
only watch porn together,
do things for the family,
make her breakfast, lunch or dinner sometimes,
be romantic,
send her roses,
don't treat her like your daughter,
don't forget to satisfy her,
don't be monster sometimes,
take her to new places,
spend time talking to her,
listen to her suggestions,
respect her space %26amp; things,
show her you care,
kiss her everyday at least 3 times a day,
tell her how much you love her,
plan things to do,
don't have special girlfriends,
work on things together,
tell her how you feel,
share your thoughts and plans,
decide on future plans together,
let her make important decisions too,
do chores around the house for her that are manly,
help her when she's in trouble,
don't speak for her,
please her in the bedroom,
LOVE her...
Listen, really listen and she will tell you what she needs from you to be happy. There is no one answer for every woman, we are all different. We have different needs, emotions, desires. We view love differently. Love her the way she needs to be loved:physically, emotionally mentally.
It may be corny but I think this song says it all: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01geJOKowgk
Love her sincerely and understand her and her feelings, vice versa 2 and den build your relationship on trust, love, understanding. Inshallah your future holds a amazing wife, have patience and pray to allah (swt) to bless you with a wonderful wife.
try your very best to understand that we run on hormones we sometimes can not control all of our feelings/emotions so show patience and understanding. were doing our best! we expect men to do there best too. think about things before you say them,and put yourself in our shoe's for every situation! good luck to you!
When my husband takes the time to listen to me, talk to me, share with me, and be with me. We have our space and space together. We respect each others space and each other. We fight at times and yet we take time out and then talk things out. With this we stay very intimate and close and he has truly become my best friend.
Support her in every way that she needs. Emotionally, physically, and mentally. Try as hard as you can to be her equal. Ask questions. Point things out that you find interesting, and discover what interests her, and learn to know, and try to love, those interests.
ok my best advice is to make them feel really special, flowers ect... and to give them no worry or anything that you have eyes for anyone else!!! different people like different things but i like people with a good sense of humour, charming but doesnt flirt with other people, and confident :D
good luck!!
be faithful, dont try to fix our feelings, just validate them, and pick up around the house without being told.
these are obviously very general. it would very from woman to woman, man to man.
Be a best friend. Literally.
Male enhancement like that guy Bob on TV all the women envy his wife.
the same you had to do to win her over in the begginning you will need to keep doing to keep her happy
Get a good education.
Make a lot of money.
Be honest. Be nice, but be yourself! Then she will love you for you, all your good and bad qualities.
Be faithful :)
By giving her lots and lots of money.
respect her
p.s.
I seen many men who claimed to understand the woman, but most of them really don't.
i myself is divorced .. but still got big hopes : )Ladies: Whats the best advice would you give to a man?
Don't take your wife for granted.. Help with chores without being asked. Make her feel like she is the sexiest women to you. Listen to her. Try and remain good humored and happy through the rough stuff. Find out what stresses her out and try not to do those things. She will in turn make you happy.
Best of Luck to You!Ladies: Whats the best advice would you give to a man?
DON'T CHEAT!!! DON'T check out other women right in front of your wife/girlfriend/fiance!!!~ even if you think their not watching because they are...they know when something tempting is about to cross your path and they find a way to see you check her out whether by looking straight at you, out of the corner of her eye, or thru a reflection. Most of all DON'T LIE--no matter how small or large the situation is that you're lying about, we always find out when you're lying and once a woman catches you lying she can't ever trust you again after that and there goes the relationship because you can't have a relationship without trust!
Make her feel that she is the most Beautiful woman in your eyes. Make sure you are faithful, loving, honest, helpful and her best friend. Make sure you are satisfying her to the fullest in and out of the bedroom. Being a great lover is a biggie. Help her around the house. It should be a 50/50 relationship. Communication is the key to a happy marriage.
A woman wants the world to revolve around her. Always keep that in mind. There's no simple formula but keep your eye open for chances to make her feel like she's on a pedestal. This can be as simple as asking what she thinks and taking her advice. Do it without making a show of it, naturally so it seems sincere. Remember we're not as oblivious to little things as you guys are so be subtle.
Also remember that we care what other people think more than you do so look to attack the problem indirectly through her friends. If her friends think you're great, so will she. Remember that if you say something good about her to one of her friends it will reach her ears eventually. Just a simple comment about her looks or smarts or talents.
Good luck!
1) Ask her what she wants.
2) Listen to what she tells you.
3) Follow through.
Woman really aren't that difficult to get. Most women will honestly tell you what they want you just have to be open enough to listen, then act on what you have heard. Many men are lazy when it comes to follow through. When you are dating someone you know how to woo them, just keep that up once your in a relationship never get to complacent or too comfortable.
my husband makes me very happy and the craziest thing is its the little things he does and he always has since we first got together.. most mens main problem is they dont realize that whatever it was about them that made the women attracted to them in the first place sometimes they change and the women dont like who they turned into...my husband before we were married would take me out every to dinner every thurs. night and we would go to the movies every other sat. even if there was no movie we wanted to see he will surprise me at work with cards and flowers and i never know when there going to come and the messages he has on them always makes me feel like im the only women in the world well anyway ive been with now for 4 years and i dont plan on giving him up for anything... I HOPE THIS HELPS
to listen to the, to really sit down and listen to them. and help around the house, with the kids. and make family night out. one day a week to forget the madness, no matter if your fighting or not. to have a family day out. most woman like flowers, but, they really want is someone to have fun with and to be able to talk to them and they actually answerer back. and if they are a busy couple date night is so important. words are words and sometimes cheap, show it.
For starters..
don't be a jerk,
be a gentleman,
show good manners,
be respectful %26amp; responsible,
show affection,
compliment your woman,
be faithful,
be generous,
don't annoy her,
don't abuse (physically, mentally, sexually) her,
don't make her your personal slave,
support her or help her financially if she needs you,
don't be an alcoholic,
kick out your addictions,
don't get a jerk for a friend,
don't stay in touch with other women,
don't come home late after work without a good excuse,
don't disrespect her family,
respect her hobbies,
don't throw away her things without permission,
don't be rude,
never give up,
don't spend your money unwisely,
don't talk bad about her,
don't flirt,
only watch porn together,
do things for the family,
make her breakfast, lunch or dinner sometimes,
be romantic,
send her roses,
don't treat her like your daughter,
don't forget to satisfy her,
don't be monster sometimes,
take her to new places,
spend time talking to her,
listen to her suggestions,
respect her space %26amp; things,
show her you care,
kiss her everyday at least 3 times a day,
tell her how much you love her,
plan things to do,
don't have special girlfriends,
work on things together,
tell her how you feel,
share your thoughts and plans,
decide on future plans together,
let her make important decisions too,
do chores around the house for her that are manly,
help her when she's in trouble,
don't speak for her,
please her in the bedroom,
LOVE her...
Listen, really listen and she will tell you what she needs from you to be happy. There is no one answer for every woman, we are all different. We have different needs, emotions, desires. We view love differently. Love her the way she needs to be loved:physically, emotionally mentally.
It may be corny but I think this song says it all: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01geJOKowgk
Love her sincerely and understand her and her feelings, vice versa 2 and den build your relationship on trust, love, understanding. Inshallah your future holds a amazing wife, have patience and pray to allah (swt) to bless you with a wonderful wife.
try your very best to understand that we run on hormones we sometimes can not control all of our feelings/emotions so show patience and understanding. were doing our best! we expect men to do there best too. think about things before you say them,and put yourself in our shoe's for every situation! good luck to you!
When my husband takes the time to listen to me, talk to me, share with me, and be with me. We have our space and space together. We respect each others space and each other. We fight at times and yet we take time out and then talk things out. With this we stay very intimate and close and he has truly become my best friend.
Support her in every way that she needs. Emotionally, physically, and mentally. Try as hard as you can to be her equal. Ask questions. Point things out that you find interesting, and discover what interests her, and learn to know, and try to love, those interests.
ok my best advice is to make them feel really special, flowers ect... and to give them no worry or anything that you have eyes for anyone else!!! different people like different things but i like people with a good sense of humour, charming but doesnt flirt with other people, and confident :D
good luck!!
be faithful, dont try to fix our feelings, just validate them, and pick up around the house without being told.
these are obviously very general. it would very from woman to woman, man to man.
Be a best friend. Literally.
Male enhancement like that guy Bob on TV all the women envy his wife.
the same you had to do to win her over in the begginning you will need to keep doing to keep her happy
Get a good education.
Make a lot of money.
Be honest. Be nice, but be yourself! Then she will love you for you, all your good and bad qualities.
Be faithful :)
By giving her lots and lots of money.
respect her
Man troubles...any advice?
I've known my significant other for 9y,and we have been a couple for 1 1/2y.I'm currently 6m pregnant with his child.He travels a lot for work so he is not home often.Well today I realized he was about $200 short on his truck payment due tomorrow and felt I should let him know.Well after telling him this he starts accusing me of STEALING HIS MONEY,and demanding that I put it back.Also in the past week he has voiced that he doesn't believe it's really his child I'm carrying,and has accused me of being a ';lazy mooch';.I just agreed to move into 'his' house about a month ago and this is the type of treatment I've gotten since then.He did not act like this before I moved in.Also,I would like to say,*I* pay 'his' house payment and all of the utilities since I'm the one in the house full time while he's at work.Maybe it's just that I'm angry right now but it seems to me if anything HE is the one taking advantage of ME--Why this sudden change and what should I do about it? TY for any advice.Man troubles...any advice?
you can drag out the relationship but if he makes those kinds of comments now they won't ever go away. don't tell yourself you can just deal with it either because you don't have to and if you do it will blow up in the end anyway. not to mention, you're going to have a child to consider too. do you really want to raise a child in that atmosphere?Man troubles...any advice?
Sometimes when a child comes into a relationship (yes even before it's born) guys freak out. A woman who is pregnant should always be treated with respect and dignity. If he honestly doesn't believe the child is his then offer to have a paternity test done once the baby is born. To tell you the truth sudden changes in a man's behaviour, specially when they involve accusations of stealling and cheatting are a big sign. Keep your eyes and ears open for he may be the one who is not being honest with you. Tell yourself that you do not need to be treated this way by anyone and make sure you tell him that too. I know he is the father of your child but the most important thing for a woman is that no matter what happens she has to take care of herself and her children. Believe me guys come and go but we're the one's who raise the children. Surround yourself with people who are there for you and become an independent woman. My son was only 5 months when I kicked his father out of the house. I drove around for over a year with out my car being registered. He is now 6 years old and we have a nice life, which I am proud to say I built. Put your foot down!!!!
Try and talk to him, if he remains like this then please, if you care for yourself or your unborn ,run. Get away from him. If he's as unpredictable as this imagine how much will he change when the baby arives? I'mjust going on how I've seen my own brothers change towards their wives once they got hitched. Men can be major pigs!
you can drag out the relationship but if he makes those kinds of comments now they won't ever go away. don't tell yourself you can just deal with it either because you don't have to and if you do it will blow up in the end anyway. not to mention, you're going to have a child to consider too. do you really want to raise a child in that atmosphere?Man troubles...any advice?
Sometimes when a child comes into a relationship (yes even before it's born) guys freak out. A woman who is pregnant should always be treated with respect and dignity. If he honestly doesn't believe the child is his then offer to have a paternity test done once the baby is born. To tell you the truth sudden changes in a man's behaviour, specially when they involve accusations of stealling and cheatting are a big sign. Keep your eyes and ears open for he may be the one who is not being honest with you. Tell yourself that you do not need to be treated this way by anyone and make sure you tell him that too. I know he is the father of your child but the most important thing for a woman is that no matter what happens she has to take care of herself and her children. Believe me guys come and go but we're the one's who raise the children. Surround yourself with people who are there for you and become an independent woman. My son was only 5 months when I kicked his father out of the house. I drove around for over a year with out my car being registered. He is now 6 years old and we have a nice life, which I am proud to say I built. Put your foot down!!!!
Try and talk to him, if he remains like this then please, if you care for yourself or your unborn ,run. Get away from him. If he's as unpredictable as this imagine how much will he change when the baby arives? I'mjust going on how I've seen my own brothers change towards their wives once they got hitched. Men can be major pigs!
Old man needs more first date advice: what if I need to use the restroom?
I'm very nervous that while on a first date I will need to use the restroom for a number two. That can take at least 30 minutes. What should I say if this happens?Old man needs more first date advice: what if I need to use the restroom?
30 minutes???? Don't take that Playboy in with you and you should be able to take of business in 5 minutes.
Or you could just wear diapers (The extra absorbent kind), and then you won't have to be nervous. Your date won't be able to tell you wear diapers under your robe.
Or start taking Imodium the day before and every hour till date time and then you'll be plugged up and won't have to go.
Where there's a will, there's a way!Old man needs more first date advice: what if I need to use the restroom?
give yourself an enema before you go. that should clean you out for the date.
To be honest, you might be better to get it over and done with before the date... Solve the problem before it happens... If it does happen, don't make too much of a fuss about it, but try and be as fast as you can... No girl likes waiting and they'll get suspicious... Don't go into detail about it either because it might gross her out... Just make sure, if you have to go, you say ';I might be a while, but I'll try to be as quick as I can';... She shouldn't have too much of a problem with it then, but don't talk about what you did when you come back, but say ';Sorry about that'; just to be curteous...
Either way, I think your best option is to go to the restroom before you go on the date... It should save that embarrasment of it happening then...
30 minutes???? Don't take that Playboy in with you and you should be able to take of business in 5 minutes.
Or you could just wear diapers (The extra absorbent kind), and then you won't have to be nervous. Your date won't be able to tell you wear diapers under your robe.
Or start taking Imodium the day before and every hour till date time and then you'll be plugged up and won't have to go.
Where there's a will, there's a way!Old man needs more first date advice: what if I need to use the restroom?
give yourself an enema before you go. that should clean you out for the date.
To be honest, you might be better to get it over and done with before the date... Solve the problem before it happens... If it does happen, don't make too much of a fuss about it, but try and be as fast as you can... No girl likes waiting and they'll get suspicious... Don't go into detail about it either because it might gross her out... Just make sure, if you have to go, you say ';I might be a while, but I'll try to be as quick as I can';... She shouldn't have too much of a problem with it then, but don't talk about what you did when you come back, but say ';Sorry about that'; just to be curteous...
Either way, I think your best option is to go to the restroom before you go on the date... It should save that embarrasment of it happening then...
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